No, I wash all my own clothes & always have.  
We courted with a 7 & 9 year old for chaperones...  I was not pushy as I was on the rebound.  Her 7 yo daughter tried to break us up.  You could put her to bed but she would stay awake beyond midnight & announced she could hear everything in our bedroom.  Buying this house was clearly a mistake because of the lack of privacy.  Wife decided we could not have sex in our bedroom so the kid would not hear.  Why we could not have had quiet sex is not answered.  The kids are long gone but there is no interest & she has refused my every suggestion or advance.  She is very content to continue with a sexless marriage...    
I am very disappointed with the way this has turned out.    
The only time I had a good sex life was an illicit affair with a married woman...  as a young single man.  It started accidentally but quickly spun out of control.  Of course it was doomed from the start.  The funny thing is I recently re-connected with her through FB & her husband is now passed...  how ironic that I am the married one now.  But I dare not meet her face to face.  It's would be like sitting on a keg of dynamite with the fuse lit!  Sooner or later, it's gonna blow.  She is several states away so it's not something that would happen by accident.  
It appears that I will not be single again unless some tragedy happens...    
HV

Posted By: AdelleAnderson

Eh, but that is life and not unusual - hence- twalaaaaa~~ ME ..... (I am so lucky!).....and P4P.  
 Much more sensible then finding yourself in an uncontrollable 'lust affair'.  
 My theory is that a lot of wives of 30 plus years, are secretly relieved that the husband stops bugging them for sex as long as the alternative is not thrown in their faces. P4P takes the edge off and lets you be the long time friends you should be.  
 Although to hide p4p, I think you still have to make the attempt to have sex or kiss, once in awhile, otherwise there is suspicion.                                      
 Everyone can't be everything to another person.  
 And hopefully she still washes your socks or something