just moved out of my parents place and ready to embark on my own. i was introduced to this site by a friend. i am interested in starting an incall, would have to be hotel. i am sexy, fit, beautiful and busty (d's). i am concerned with STD's so would i still be doing a service by offering full service with kissing (no dfk), full service, multiples, however no bbbj.
is this still ok for your buck and being safe with a hot chic?
I'm sure you will do great. You certainly have a right to set your boundaries wherever you wish. There are a lot of very successful ladies who only do CBJ. I guess it depends on the market you are in. As for me, given the choice between a beautiful lady who does CBJ and an equally beautiful lady who does BBBJ for $50 more, I will go for the BBBJ.
that determines why and for what reasons I will seek out a provider.
I do know that there personality, as it comes out on their site and other venues (such as this board) plays a big part for me.
I would not rule out seeing someone just for the reasons you describe, indeed a few of my regulars follow the same proscriptions that you have.
On the other hand, I can't help but think that these will be non-starters for a large number of potential clients.
In any case, there's only one way to find out.
I'd give you $10 to wash my car.
No, I want a little more than just a fun fuck. I can live with the CBJ, LK is too weird and the lack of DATY is pretty much a deal breaker for me.
However, I'm sure you'll get a fair amount of younger guys who are looking for good recreational sex and MSOG.
Frankly if CBJ is what is offered I would (usually) rather do without, and I'm okay with that. I love DATY, but respect your right not to. Couple those with no DFK though and the fantasy is simply gone for me, and it's the fantasy that I'm buying, not the finale.
Adding all those up makes me feel like she doesn't want to be there. I can get that at home, without pulling money out, or I can take care of myself for expressionless sex.
I prefer a little passion, and I'm willing to pay for it.
I wouldn't. The intimacy of great kissing and of BBBJ and DATY are part of the entire package in terms of what I look for.
I think practicing safe sex in every aspect is great! CBJ, no DFK, no DATY helps avoid STD transmission. If guys need the fantasy, add as much GFE as you can, make them feel like a king, while still remaining safe. I think it's a wonderful idea and your clients will benefit in the long run, even if they don't realize it right now.
value is ...$150 . why not CBJ for $50 and that's it
But I live in the highest priced hobbying city in the US where 250 is considered the bargain bin. Whether you're successful at that rate will depend largely on what city you're in I think.
I would have to pass on that , too. I can only afford to hobby about once per month, and although I could live with CBJ, it would be difficult not to have DATY or DFK on the menu. I really enjoy the intimacy of those activities.
A wife!
-- D (ok, that was lame) H
I would have to say that this partly depends on where you are. I travel a lot and I definitely notice that none GFE service is more common in some areas than in others. Honestly, in Boston I think you would suffer as most guys are willing to pay $$$ for bbbj/daty type of GFE full service.
Every lady has to work in her comfort zone. I wish you the best of luck.
Hey Sassy -- Welcome to the hobby. As you can see, most everybody has their own standards. I personally need (urgent stomach twisting need!!) DATY. If not, it's a dealbreaker for me. You just need to dip your toe in the water and find out if you're comfortable with it. Best of Luck!
I think 250 is a very fair price. There's just something psychological about the 300 dollar mark that makes me think I'm getting a deal for anything less (and ripped off if I pay more than 300). But you might have to rethink your services somewhat. When I first got into the hobby, I thought I was alone in my preference for DATY -- then I found TER, and it turns out that I'm far from alone. It seems more than half of the guys here love it! For my money, it's the absolute height of intimacy, and as you can see, most of the guys here agree.
Also, many girls will not provide BBBJ (understandably), and you should probably only kiss the guys you feel comfortable with kissing -- advertising DFK or LFK as part of your service will come back to haunt you if Quasimodo shows up LOL.
But if you are new at this, I would suggest working for an agency briefly, just to get your feet wet. Check the link below for some tips. Good luck.
PS, I don't suppose we could see a picture, could we? You know, to scientifically determine if your prices are reasonable. LOL
I would not visit you, even if you have the looks you say you do. While I might be ok with no DATY, having no dfk and BBBJ would together be a deal breaker for me.
IMHO, the services you would not do are part of the full service session, and without them, it's not full service to me.
Your price is reasonable if you were to include what you do not. But, like some of the other guys have said, go with what you are comfortable with.
Good luck.
Swim
You are not offering full service with those restrictions, and $250 is pretty steep for basically a "massage with a happy ending". However, good luck to you!
If she has intercourse to completion she is offering full service. BBBJ and DATY and DFK is GFE. She is not saying she won't kiss, she just doesn't want to eat your spit and she is not refusing a blow job...she just doesn't want your pre-cum in her mouth.
A massage with a happy ending is a back rub and a hand job...she is offering a lot more than that. Don't be an ass and try and bullshit a new girl.
Thank you everyone and z_garden for understanding where I am coming from. I will probably be here in Orange County Hotel.
I just wanted to make it clear and open what I would be offering without anyone being disapointed when coming over to visit. I plan to make it clear on my ad.
I know orange county isnt cheap. I thank you all for behing so helpful.
Please fill me in on anything else I should know. I look forward to meeting all of you!
real estate. You would be a bargin at $$.5 in a big city but might be overpriced in middle America. Without certain services it just isn't a GFE experience. Good luck to you.
I'm not tremendously turned on by oral under most circumstances. It's a nice appetizer, but I rarely get off that way. CBJ is no problem for me, but some degree of enthusiasm should go along with it; don't just throw me a condom package and say, "Let me know when you're ready", or "Uh, I'm not getting my face down near that thing." Be friendly, be respectful, and be open-minded.
For me at least, the biggest factors will be reputation and how attractive the pictures are. I'm in the DC/Baltimore market, and $250 is a little on the low side, but not unheard of, especially for ladies just starting out. A good attitude will move a lady up my "gotta see" list, and it can manifest in either an online personality or in reviews from other trusted hobbyists. Appealing pictures will do just as much; they don't have to be professional shots, but they shouldn't be shots taken by a drunk with a cell-phone camera in a badly-lit hallway, either.
While many guys are big fans of DATY, it doesn't really turn my crank. I'm certainly willing to indulge a lady who is enjoying herself, but I'm also not going to be eager to sacrifice a big chunk of my appointment to it, either. If it's clear that the appointment is going to be flexible on the exact length, I'm fine with adding it in, but if it's a choice between comfortably fitting in a second round or going down on the lady... I'm the paying customer, so I'm going for the second round. I know some guys are more into it than I am, and there are other guys who just aren't going to be able to go for Round Two, so their preferences may be different; it's how I make the decision, though.
You may want to consider adding on any additional services. I personally enjoy Greek sessions, though I know many ladies choose not to offer that service; letting it be known that it is available (even for a reasonable extra charge) makes me much more likely to see a lady. I know some guys are into fetishes of different sorts, though I have no idea how that would work in a session or how you'd like it.
Sassy,
You can make a very good living doing just that. I do and have had no problems. It's all about who you market to. Board guys are a certain breed if you will who will take the extra risk for the pleasures involved. I see men who do not even know about TER and have never had a problem with my levels of safety.
If TER men and Big doggie men etc. etc. are going to be your client base, you might very well have issues, however it's a very big world out there and many men just don't want to risk giving their wives and kids an STD from hobbying.
Best of luck and Oh, beware of asking such questions on a men's hobby board...your answers might be a little skewed. You might be better off finding an escort blog or a forum and asking the ladies.