Whenever seeing somebody new, I can usually tell if they are nervous but usually I am too.
But ... I always warm things up with a hug and a little joke. Sometimes alcohol doesn't hurt so maybe take a bottle of wine. Oh, and don't forget to share. LOL ..
It's no different than any other special activity you do the first time. Just go do it. Be natural, be yourself. and don't feel you have to pretend anything.
if you've chosen a reputable provider You will be in good hands. she can guide you through it, and do yourself a favor - see if she has a want list... and bring her something. ask her questions after the session... as she my provide you with tips etc.
you are likely in good hands, and certainly in good company. We've all had our first time! As others have said, let her know you are new and nervous, and what exactly you you are hoping for. You'll likely get just what you are looking for.
Seriously, it's important that you come to terms with your fear before you schedule your appointment. Too often scared first-timers will no-call/no show or show up, panic and chicken out!
If you are careful, do your homework, see a known to be reliable indy or agency, you have little to worry about.
Rip-offs, bait and switch, and non-performance are usually much greater risks than LE intervention.
Of course everyone's risk/reward equation is different, for me its easy - no SO, no kids, relatively little to lose. If you can't find a way to rationalize your situation with your desire for pleasure, you should probably find another hobby.
I read the entire site on escorts before my first date and it helped me tremendously! I told my date upfront that it was my first adventure into the hobby. At the end of the date, she told me she didn't believe me and still doesn't to this day (lol).
That you can't perform? That she's a cop? That you'll catch malaria? That a kryptonite-laced meteor will land on the two of you?
Worst case scenario, let's say she's a cop who gives you malaria via a blowjob in an attempt to wake-up your unresponsive Mr. Happy -- whose gonna know after your both killed by the kryptonite-laced meteor?
that you'll have such a great time that you'll want to do this over and over and over. That will lead to complete financial ruin and you'll have to give up everything for the sake of fucking.
LOL....just kidding. Relax. This is some of the best fun that money can buy. You'll be fine!
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