My personal preference if I were in a position to date ( if I were not a provider) personally I am attracted to men between the ages of 45 to 55.  Not for any particular reason except that I find myself to be very immature at times and a man of this age has a claming as well as an elevating effect on me.  In terms of the business and providing services I personally try to avoid anyone under 30 they just have too much testosterone and are always trying to show you how good they are by pounding away at you as if that was erotic!  Yuk.  Just my humble preferences.

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Ladies, this inquiring mind would also like to know. I'm approaching the big 50 and have been told by some ladies that they don't want the young guns. My guess is that the youngs ones may tend to have too much energy. Thanx for your thoughts.

In my opinion, it definately depends on the guy! I am a 46 year old massage therapist and I have clients of all ages. I have many who are wonderful to be with and their ages range from early 20's to late 60's. Some are shy, some are very outgoing, some are always 'up', some are more somber, some would be considered much more physically appealing and others are less but every single one of them has always made me feel appreciated. The number one thing that I love about them is that they show their respect for and desire of our intimacy by taking great care to always be well bathed and groomed when they come to see me. (And most wear my favorite men's colognes ;o) This may sound like a minor thing to some people but it isn't to those of us who take great care to be clean for our clients because we want them to enjoy being close to us. When a man smells good and shows me how much he enjoys my touch I can't help wanting to make him feel special too.

I tend to be drawn to more experienced and succesful gentlemen.  If that means they are 38 or 57, I do not mind.  One of the things I have learned in life is that to be succesful you must surround yourself with success.

I find that (well at least in this venue) the older, wiser, more experienced stud is able to give me more of a stimulating exchange of time.  Money aside, more experienced men know more and will tell more.  Knowledge is much more valuable to me than money.  

On the sensual side of things, more experienced men again just KNOW more.  They are better able to detect slight signals from a female.  This allows smooth communication sans verbal interruption.  I respect a man who knows what he wants and then gets it.  

Well, that is my opinion.  

Smooches,
Desiree of Portland

I love older gentleman!  

XXXOOO Ashley

Re:Ladies, Something I've Been Wondering About...

I am 37 and I admire older men for there ability to treat us for who we are. I think your more giving, more relaxed, and definetly more gentle. Just because your fifty doesn't mean it doesn't work anymore.......right. If your ever in NC please look me up,I'ld be glad to take you on a ride.