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MsLeilaLovely See my TER Reviews 2092 reads
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Ok now, let's just be honest!
How many of you jerk-off before your session, to last longer?

To my understanding, many do it but there are also those who say they need to save everything they have?
Enlighten me please!

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

-- Modified on 6/7/2015 2:06:38 PM

GaGambler680 reads

The last thing I need is to "last longer" I usually use up almost an entire hour finishing the first time. The last thing I need to is to rub one out before having "real" sex.

Now if you had asked me this same question thirty years ago, you might have gotten a different answer, but today "staying power" is the least of my worries.

That all depends...why are you asking?  Lol. Just kidding!  Seriously though, if I am spending time with a provider that I know like to SEE me cum or if I'm with a regular provider who might have a special request for me I will jerk off to the brink if blowing my load Before I leave to drive to her.  I was years ago that by doing that you get more copious amounts of cum.

As far as jerking off to completion before a visit, no I haven't done that recently.  If she wants me to jerk off for any reason, he'll, I'll gladly do it in front of her :P

D.

I don't jerk off before because: a) all the tension built up is gone and then I don't crave or desire sex as much and b) I'm only good maybe once a day for getting it up enough for intercourse.  

So I could jerk off beforehand and then most likely not get it up again during the session or not jerk off and go in with better odds of getting it up but then I'm done in seconds.

Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Posted By: MsLeilaLovely
Ok now, let's just be honest! How many of you jerk-off before your session, to last longer?
In NYC, the cabbies hate it when you mess up their cabs on your way to a date.  And you have to see if they've got cameras in their cabs.  Take the subway instead?  The other strap hangers get really upset when you expose yourself in the subway AND it creates a hazard where they can slip and fall.  Alley ways? Side doors?  Nooks and crannies?  There are so many cameras all over the city that there aren't that many places left to rub one out on the way to the party.  

To be honest, the XXX video stores are still private enough (I HOPE!) to provide a place for visual and secondary stimulation.  There's even an official "mop guy" to clean up anything that spills!  

As for me, I don't do that (anymore).  Either there isn't time on my schedule or I know I'm too close to being one and done.  If convenient to her location and the timing is right, I might drop a dollar for the visual stimulation but not for complete glandular stimulation

Posted By: impposter
Posted By: MsLeilaLovely
Ok now, let's just be honest! How many of you jerk-off before your session, to last longer?
In NYC, the cabbies hate it when you mess up their cabs on your way to a date.  And you have to see if they've got cameras in their cabs.  Take the subway instead?  The other strap hangers get really upset when you expose yourself in the subway AND it creates a hazard where they can slip and fall.  Alley ways? Side doors?  Nooks and crannies?  There are so many cameras all over the city that there aren't that many places left to rub one out on the way to the party.    
   
 To be honest, the XXX video stores are still private enough (I HOPE!) to provide a place for visual and secondary stimulation.  There's even an official "mop guy" to clean up anything that spills!  
   
 As for me, I don't do that (anymore).  Either there isn't time on my schedule or I know I'm too close to being one and done.  If convenient to her location and the timing is right, I might drop a dollar for the visual stimulation but not for complete glandular stimulation.  
   
 

I abstain for at least three days before with a week being my normal intention. As said by GaG, thirty years ago it would have been different.

In my forties I did neither and now I do the latter.  

These are the ages of a man.

This applies to me as well, although I never saw providers in my 20s and 30s.  

I'll have  to see what applies when I get older

One of my pieces of advice to him was to jackoff to last longer. :D

Seriously though, that is probably good advice for someone who cums way too soon. I have the opposite problem. For me, sometimes I quit jacking off a week before I see a provider!

-- Modified on 6/7/2015 3:28:46 PM

I have a few guys that I'm going to suggest this to.

nom_de_plume379 reads

At a younger age, sure, I would probably need to rub one out before a date or ensure the provider is fine with MSOG. No worries there now!

I think I'd cancel the session if I rubbed one out. I wish I could "rub one out" as good as the head I've gotten from some providers ... obviously, I can't suck it myself.

I have seen it done before.

Posted By: DURHAMDREW63
I think I'd cancel the session if I rubbed one out. I wish I could "rub one out" as good as the head I've gotten from some providers ... obviously, I can't suck it myself.

Unless it's a spur off the moment type situation, unless this John has already cum that day. However I won't purposely masturbate before a session, I'd probably cancel if I did that.

Mainly because I want to try for MSOG with the provider. If I unload the chamber then usually I don't have more than one more in the magazine in a 1 hour setting. Now for a multi-hour setting where we are going for 2 or more SOG, then perhaps yes to prolong each go around.

Guys have told me that if you don't ejaculate on a regular bases that blood can build up and come out mixed in with the ejaculate.

If anything, I save up by abstaining for 48 hours.

There is little hope of having a successful session. Just saying...

Regardless of age, better to refrain at least for 48 hrs.  72 even better.  The intensity of sensation will increase greatly...

GaGambler390 reads

and I am OLD. lol

By 72 hours of no sex, I can start feeling myself getting grumpy.

If you want to wait three fucking days between getting laid, fine. I am quite happy getting laid everyday.

GaGambler291 reads

I try to get laid at least "almost everyday" and most of my sex is P4P

I guess that is just one of the benefits of not having a wife and kids to support, I can spend my money on the "important" things in life, like drinking, gambling and pussy, not in that order of course. lol

Posted By: Crazy Diamond

I am in a similar place to you, but budgetary restrictions limit me to once a week usually.  Except when I decide to go all out...then, all bets are off, except those that pay off... lol...

Round one is usually what I would think is pretty average, but round 2?
It's a good thing I'm in in really good shape these days, because it can go on a looong time (and often it's just not meant to be).

as sometimes I have difficulty finishing when I do that the day before.  That fact, combined with my age and decreased physical stamina (breathing LOL...not maintaining an erection).  My last appt, I withdrew, rolled over, breathing heavy.  She made note that I had not cum and said you're still hard (no, no drugs-yet) clearly wanting more.  I was really really embarrassed.  I guess I should subscribe to daily burn and work on this.

Posted By: MsLeilaLovely
Ok now, let's just be honest!  
 How many of you jerk-off before your session, to last longer?  
   
 To my understanding, many do it but there are also those who say they need to save everything they have?  
 Enlighten me please!  
   
 XOXO,  
 Ms. Leila Lovely

-- Modified on 6/7/2015 2:06:38 PM

GaGambler363 reads

That is unless you went at it for an hour without cumming. I have been known to do that myself, and I am in pretty decent shape for an old man. I can still do a Ten K and go get laid an hour or two later. Now I won't say how fast I can run six miles at my "advanced age" but my knees give me a lot more problems than my wind.

I don't really like the gym, but I hate being an out of shape fat ass more than I hate working out.

So, hell no. First round is usually BBBJCIM and I last all of about 2 or 3 minutes but can offer a full deposit. Round 2 is where I hit my stride and get my moneys worth. Paying a hooker for sex but jerking off first....isn't that an oxymoron....

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