She said I was superficial. Aren't we all? We look for providers based on looks. Some dudes have broader tastes than others and like more variety. Others seek out a specific look. I liked  her look when I first seeked her out. During our first date, I liked her services and personality, so I saw her again for longer dates.  Now she changed her looks, and I don't like the new look.  Is that so terrible? I still like her as a person. If we were friends outside of p4p, we would still be friends. I would hang out with her, have dinner with her etc. I just have no desire to pay to see her naked or to have sex with her. 

I was just kind of surprised at her response.  When you make a major change, wouldn't you expect to lose some customers and gain others? Furthermore, isn't getting fake boobs superficial in itself?

we are free to see or not see whoever we choose for whatever reason we choose.  She's not your wife or girlfriend and if you don't like the look, you are under no obligation to explain yourself to her.  

You probably are superficial - aren't we all - the reason most guys play this game is so they can "spend time" with women that a MUCH hotter than we could reasonable expect to see in the "real world" or so that we can have a truly "no strings" relationship with someone.

She's superficial too - that's why she got implants - she thought it would make her look better - probably does to most guys.

In the end, this is a transaction, not a relationship.  So if the woman is no longer attractive to you, there's no reason why you should be expected to keep transacting with her.

She did it to either attract more clients, or to make herself feel better.  Or both.  That's her choice.

You decided that her implants override the services & personality.  Nothing evil there, it's your right to value what you want.

But when you essentially tell a lady (in or out of this part of the world), "You are no longer physically attractive to me", did you really expect her to not get upset?  Not saying she reacted in an ideal way, but you should have been expecting something along those lines.

when you said you dumped her? Did you call her up and gave her grief for getting implants, or did you just stopped booking appointments with her? If its latter, then there is no reason to feel guilty. You have right to see whomever you want with your money.

But if you called her up and gave her grief, I am sure she got miffed. Remember, just like you are entitled to do anything with your money, see whomever you want, they are entitled to do whatever they want with their bodies as well.

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Every lady understands change brings new onlookers while others may just not like the new look. Not many gentlemen in the hobby hang around for a long period of time so this more than likely would have happened without the change.  For the lady, larger breasts will bring a whole lot of new attention to her. Good for her

For you, your desires are just as important.... but to you. Your best interest is to find what turns you on and makes an appealing dish to devour. This is your fantasy and every right to have what you pay for.

I have thought of enlarging my breasts and asked many of my regular friends what they thought. To my surprise they said big breasts would not make them more apt to see me nor would it change why they come to visit. Either way they would continue to visit. I am so lucky to have men who love seeing me just the way I am and it does go beyond the physical.

Kisses Haley

I say it was because you protested when she first brought up the idea and she went and got them anyway. I might be a dick and a lot of people hate me but one thing i'm not is a Taliban want to be when it comes to ho's or women in general.  Way too many submit or git douche bag dudes in this p4p stuff.

You have a certain look and she changed. You say it yourself, she is great lady but not someone you want to have sex with anymore. it happens in reverse too. I have a guy who I have been seeing for a about 2 years and he is losing a ton of weight. I have noticed a change in the way he is sexually and he is slowly but surely morphing into the type of guy I don't like seeing.

I know him enough to chat with him about it. If he keeps going the way he is I will not be seeing him anymore.

So, you do what you need to do and carry on!

I stopped seeing a provider that I had been seeing for over two years for the same reason.  She mentioned once that she was considering adding them and I was honest and told her that I probably would not see her any longer if she did.  Well, she added them and I quit calling.  She called eventually to ask where I had been and I reminded her of what I said about here adding the rubber boobs.  She said she thought that I was kidding.  She got pretty unpleasant so I hung up on her.

I stopped seeing another one when she added too many tats.

I don't know what she looked like before.  I like a woman to look real.  I'm finding I'm more of a breast man than I thought previously but I think it is a visual stimulation thing.   But a petite woman looks good with tight perky Bs...  Cs look big if you like busty.  A larger woman I would have called Cs, wears D cup.  (We are long time companions.)  But she's slim, nearing 6 foot.  If a woman got enhansed outside of the real GND look, I might be fascinated once but not continue.  

I'm not into burning my bridges...  I'd quietly move on.   you never know when you might want to circle back.  
H

I always return to a woman that has far more to offer than just her physical appearance.
The first visit may be more based on sexual attraction!

even when they get tats, have kid, gain weight, etc. I never understood it, but I know it happens. If I get my tits done, it will be for me and I realize with that will come some change in business. For every guy I lose, I will gain another. Are they just horribly done? I can't imagine any warm blooded man kicking a gal out of bed because her boobs are fake, especially if they look BETTER than they did before.

I happen to like the petite busty babes.  A few years ago I met my perfect lady. 5' 34eee. Of course they were enhanced. I fell bat shit crazy for this lady. For several years I saw her often. Took her to M&Gs....one of the few I've ever done an overnight with.

Eventually she relocated . God I missed her.  But one summer she contacted me to let me know she was going to be in town for a couple days and would be available for a little reunion.  I think it was in the 3rd email of our exchanges that she mentioned " oh yeah , I'm a 34B now , hope that's OK?"

No it wasn't....just like you I was caught up with her "look".  However, unlike you I still wanted the appt. I mean she might have lost a few pounds of fun but it was still the lady I adored.

Unfortunately I was not in a position to see her that week [ I was outta town] and she has never returned. So I'll never know .

The boob flex is kinda rare. But hair color changes are very common. I have a fave now that just informed me she is no longer a blond. Will I stiil see her.  Of course.  However , what I really hate is when a lady post pictures as a blond but when you meet her you discover she has changed to a different color.

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In fact you have my support. The ladies need not get so damn bent out of shape...share and play nice. Neither party owns the other and if things change, well, deal with it, plenty more guys and gals around.

I have stopped seeing guys for various reasons and I make no apology for it. Morph into a guy who treats me like a fuck doll and I will stop seeing you stat!

Hi ST,

I saw a petite woman w/ a flat chest!! She told me during my three visits to enjoy them while I can, for she was getting them enhanced to a D!! I told her she was beautiful the way she was, but she was determined to enhance them!! A few months later she was in town, but her pics showed her breasts looked, for me, to big for her tiny body!! I wished her well & when she put an ad on the TER  board , I posted what a wonderful time I had w/ her, previously!!  She thanked me for the recommendation & I moved on!!

When I said "fave" it is not like she was someone I was seeing weekly or monthly. She is not from my city, but I see her everytime she comes through. (Once a year, Sometimes twice. but the dates were usually dinner, overnight, or full day dates) I have had some OTC time, and we communicate by email in between visits. (not really often, but maybe a hello every couple months, or special occasions like holidays, valentines day, and birthdays, stuff like that.)

In any case, she sent me an email, along with a new picture, saying she was heading back to my city. Her pictures on her website and ads still show the "old her." I responded to her email with a "welcome back, hope you have a great visit" but I added that the new picture was a little shocking, and I was actually turned off by the implants, so I wouldn't be booking her any more, and I still wished her well and said I know it was her choice, and her body, and I still like her as a person and friend. I thought I was being polite but honest. I also thanked her for sending the picture. If I hadn't seen the picture, I would have booked her and been shocked when I saw her, and I can' t imagine I would have had a pleasant session. I also thought informing her by email was better than to suddenly start ignoring all her communication. By the way it wasn't a small change either. If she went from a natural B to a "natural looking' C, but she went huge, and they just look fake.

I don't think you are a dick, and I don't hate you. I know there are a lot of dudes in the "submit or git" group, but not me. No, I never protested when she first brought up the idea.  I was just shocked when I saw her new picture. (See my reply to Curly above for explanation on how it went down). I just know what I like, and once upon a time she was "what I like." She no longer is.

I will answer you lol.

She was a favorite lady. I don't like the term atf, because I am not sure I have an "all time favorite," but there are few girls I repeat with, and fewer still that I repeat with more than once. I did enjoy all my sessions with her, and have spent many hours with her (inclucing some OTC time), so in that sense, she is definitly one of my "favorites." I only saw her once or twice a year, because she is not from my city, but I have seen her everytime she came through, after my first meeting, and most of those were overnighters.  

I do agree with what you said. I figure any lady who changes something will gain some and lose some client, and I would hope that if they do change soething like that, it is done for themselves.

As for your last comment, I am a warm blooded man who would kick a gal out of bed because her boobs are fake. lol. Yes they are horribly done in my eyes, and they definitely don't look BETTER! (At least to me. I know others will disagree) I never told her that in my communication to her. I just said I am not attracted to her new look and wished her well. But here is my take. My preference is natural and small breasts. I am okay with natural and large, or "natural looking" implants. I am actually repulsed by the fakes that just look fake! In my eyes she was perfect before, however if she went from Bs to Cs and they looked natural, I would have been ok and not said anything. I think she went from a B to a DD (I'm not a bra sizer, so I don't know for sure), and she is a petite and thin girl. They also look perfectly round, like someone cut a grapefruit in half, and stretched her skin over it. Her nipples are in the wrong place now also.

as you don't need to rationalize any of this to anyone here.

But given that you had to post your story it would seem that you have some other feelings for her, hence your feeling bad about all of this.

She'll live on without you, and you will do just fine without her.

Get on to the next hooker without the implants and you'll be happy again

But I'll also make a little wager here...you're gonna try and "fix her"...you know best  LOL

I was just responding to some people's respnses.  I don't plan to "fix" anyone. She made her decision. I made mine. I am moving on. I only posted the initial post to see what other people thought of the situation. Seems like everyone agreed with me, except the gatecrasher dude.

whats that Forest Gump said? Stupid is as stupid does lol!
Hey do what makes you feel good and go with what you like. Best to remain friends and leave it be