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I wanted to pose this question because I've been hearing quite a bit of buzz about it through the grape-vine: provider blogs.  Do you guys read provider blogs?  If so why are you reading them? What about it is interesting and what keeps you reading them?  I recently started an escort blog since I have several others regarding other things and just wanted to get some feedback as to how to keep my content fresh, fun, and inviting.  I like to write erotica, jokes and about life as a provider in hopes of dispelling some misconceptions and stereotypes.  I want to display a bit of my personality for the gentleman that might be shy about seeing me right off and would like to know more but may be a little shy about calling.

So guys, give me the good the bad and the ugly on blogging as an escort as you see it.  Your feedback will be much appreciated and will go a long way to increasing and pleasing my readers.

*Oh and don't PM me! I am a basic member and cannot access any messages sent to me!* Just post publicly and I'll respond.


Ciao!

Alexandria Fox

-- Modified on 9/28/2011 6:02:46 PM

Ok that is understandable and thank you for the feedback!

Ciao!

Alexandria Fox

yes they do read blogs and be carefull about revealing too much.  I had one try to negotiate donation and quoted me on something i said.

Now what kind of discretion is that?  No I am too seasoned in this business to ever reveal anything for any reason about a date.  That's balderdash!  The only posts that will ever be about clients are the experiences that add to my do's and don'ts lists and that will be posted as follows:

DO: "Bring a girl her favorite bottle of wine just as the scintillating bottle of Chianti I shared last night over dinner with blue eyes. His eyes were those that could balance seriousness and laughter all in one gaze..."

I have a a life outside of this business that I want kept very private and I know my dates do as well.  So thank you very much for your feedback and trust that that base is already covered.

Graciously,

Alexandria Fox

lol, mine is loosely based on truth, yet still i'm being quoted on it.  I even put a disclaimer saying that is for pure entertainment. Well the point is, yes clients read them and you'll get allot of hits:)

they may be pure fiction, but I've learned over the years that it is difficult to maintain a false persona for a long period of time unless you are suffering multiple personality disorder.. the blogs and web page comments and gibes help me get a feeling for the personality behind the pretty eyes, great legs and scintillating asses...

pics and rates first then if those fit the libido and are wallet friendly I move onto blogs, etiquette, and any other insight that would lead me to believe that a provider is willing to work at convincing me she enjoys her work and is not a man hating lesbian laughing all the way to bank having put one over on another stupid male.. some of the guys here will tell me this is an oxymoron, but i prefer to not believe it :)

Thank you for your response! Much appreciated! I actually agree with what you are saying and having a false reality is hard to maintain and that is not my aim.  My goal is to display who I am as I gave up spinning gold fabric to pull over dates eyes long ago.  I talk about things that I am genuinely interested in, share my honest opinions on things and I don't do what I don't want to do and my dates appreciate that.  As I stated in the intro to my blog I love sex and especially the thrill that anonymous sex brings with it.  I play safe always and I honestly seeks to have a good time with each encounter.  I guess I can say that I enjoy what I do because I don't have alot of dates in one week let alone a day so I'm rarely tired or not into it.  Anyway...I digress.

Thanks for your response and I will take all of this into consideration as I develop my blog.

AF

Yes, I read them, if it's someone I'm possibly interested in seeing.  I am (my preference only, so relax guys) more into a GFE fantasy experience, and a blog gives me a different and additional perspective on the personality of the lady in question, and whether we might have (or, for those more cynical, she will be able to realistically fake)any intellectual or emotional chemistry.  Also, although the quality varies, a few blogs are really interesting and/or entertaining.

MANGINO229 reads

I want to bored to sleep. (yawn)

Bupkis254 reads

Why anyone would ever read that crap escapes me???!!!

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Why anyone would ever read that crap escapes me???!!!
LOL! Well I can say that I very much appreciate your candor although tinged with disrespect it is honest and that is what I requested--the brutally honest truth.

AF

I'd be more likely to read if I had already seen you once and the session was of such quality that I would return often. I might quickly peruse it before seeing you might not.

especially for gals that I see from time to time.

It's nice to get a little insight and some gals are truly great writers and write compellingly.

There is, in fact, a site called escortblogs, a link to which I give below.

One-Man-Gang260 reads

Nothing puts you to sleep better then a good face pissing, a strange woman's breast milk, and an escort blog, huh?

ROTFLMAO!  Whew that's funny but that's not what my blog will be about.  Yeah some stuff might be boring but hey--most of real life is.  I don't do any of that stuff!  My dates are GFE sessions that I go to every length to enjoy.

Erotica, Do's and Don'ts, The Gross Out List, Opinions are really what my blog is about.  Client content will be left out because discretion is very important to me.  I wouldn't want someone blowing my world apart so why would I do the same?

AF

In just four years I now have almost a million hits. My largest daily stats was over 3000.
Last year due to going more UTR I stopped writing daily/weekly posts and deleted much of it including the hundreds of comments.  Now I only use pages...and comments are closed.
I do enjoy sharing my sexiness and sensuality. I like to let men know exactly what I enjoy and believe the brain needs/enjoys  stimulation and it seems that at the same time cocks get hard too.

I have been thinking of doing this as I have other blogs that I write that are doing quite well.  My esscort site leaves alot to be desired and I feel that it doesn't really showcase my personality and what I'm really about and I know that many of my dates like me--for real.  The act can only go on for so long you know and I have been in this business long enough to where I now understand that the willingness and ability to really let yourself go during a date and connect with that person is a pleasurable experience.  Why have anonymous sex if you don't get some sort of enjoyment out of it?

I have a 3 year window in which I must achieve my goals and I would love more details as to how you found success.  Please email me at [email protected] as I would love to speak with you further if you are open to it.

AF

One-Man-Gang294 reads

I have never read a provider's blog and said to myself, "yes, I have to see her" Never once have I been swayed in their favor.

However, I have read several blogs and said " I would never see her"

The only time I read them is when I am researching a provider. Otherwise, I don't even bother.

I have a blog on my site that I always swear Ill write in more, but only really post maybe 3 or 4 times a month in.  No one ever comments, but I get emails letting me know they enjoy my blog and interested for the next post...many times too, the first time someone contacts me they mention they like my blog.

I dont write about being a provider, and definitely not about my dates...besides my newsletter and posting up new pics I have taken, I dont post about biz matters at all.  Most of my posts are random thoughts and musings about whatever I decide to write about.  

When I started touring, I started a travelogue about the cities I visit, my impressions, what I saw, what I ate, etc..almost immediately that one got a lot of hits and it prompted emails from guys requesting I visit their city too.

Really I just started one because I didnt want to create a bio page, or a long story about who I am or what I like and what my personality is like...I just write whatever in my blog and that answers all those questions for anyone interested to know.  So far so good...Id say go for it :)

I like to know I am dealing wirh a real person and not a fuck doll. Smart women are sexy.

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