Had a dozen or so experiences with escorts. Ranged from horrible to excellent.

Then I decided to try the masseuses. First experience was great. Second experience was even better. And my third experience, which just happened four hours ago, was the best sexual experience of my life. And no actual sex was involved at all.

After today, I have no desire to see anymore escorts. At least for the foreseeable future. The experiences I can get with skilled masseuses far outweigh the experiences I have gotten out of sex with escorts. And its cheaper!

Moral of the story: There's bound to be some of you out there who, just like me, assumed masseuses were simple rub and tugs and would never consider seeing them (whats the point when I can have all-out sex with an escort, right?). Stop it. Do yourself a favor and start exploring them. They can be so much more than what your assumptions are.

(Still on Cloud 9 right now from a release that completely and thoroughly drained me.)

Are there not escorts that are also licensed masseuses?  Why not have best of both worlds?
I enjoy having the best of both.

I would also say that you should consider that others may have tried the massage route, and did not find it as rewarding as you did. Some men are highly aroused by giving oral to a woman, or by cuddling with her and rubbing her soft places. From what I know, those are things you cannot do with a massage provider. Please correct if I am wrong.

Everything is so relative. Streetwalkers vs Call Girls, Sugars vs Escorts, Massage vs Sex, boob men vs ass men....We all have different things we want. No wants are more or less than others.

and I see some gals who do only massage and a release, but also some who do a bit more, and then there are those who do massage and everything else.

Each is important to me in their own special way.

A really good deep tissue massage however is like nirvna to me, and such a deal too.

You might also find (as I do), that when you go back to see a massage gal many times, and they come to trust you and know you, that their menus do open up a bit.  Every situation is different.

I've been a masseuse as long as I've been an escort.  I do both.  I like both.  And yes, you're right.  Guys will come to me specifically seeking out massage with the fantasy, the release, the tease, the mutual touch that comes with it.  It's weird, I get more massage calls out here in southern California than I do escort calls.  Probably, because, yeah, massages are generally cheaper, and the economy hasn't changed quite yet.  Sometimes, I do get the impression here that guys are tired of the ole in-and-out and want something new.  And there are so many escorts out here that the price has dropped considerably.

I have had lot of bad exp with masseuses.Some good.I changed to vip escort wanted more personel .I can say this a good one can fire you up.Carful with BP

Right?

You can get FS at asian spa. rushed in an out and same price as escort .And only stay for hour.Ill stay with escort I love the cuddling an love DTAY.Would'nt want that at asian.

I see a variety of ladies who offer different services.  I have 1 who is an Escort, 1 who is FBSM w/ HE, 1 who is FBSM + to include F/S (with appropriate compensation for add ons, of course)...  after you get to know her.

I think their menus open up because your sweet and kind.
I'd let a gent do just about anything if he was a sweetie.

and tell me you're shocked he is done with them lol. I would not even show my tits at Mardi Gras for that bs, and look what you get...complaints!

To be as young and naive as you

Never lose that quality...seriously.

Seriously CCPA. I don't go to your posts and put up sarcastic things, why do you do it to me?
I happen to like Mistah F, and wanted to say something nice.

My age is irrelevant here, and noone has as big of a beef with it but you. Please, how about I ignore you posts and you ignore mine, since we so clearly rub each other the wrong way.

Maybe you won't be naive your whole life  LOL

But sure...the ignore button is an option.  I don't subscribe to it as I feel that's for the teens.  Mature adults generally have the option of NOT clicking on a post they don't want to read.  

But no one has ever accused me of being mature either  

So if you want to rub me...that might be a good way to "kiss and make up"!

So much paranoia on these boards recently...must be that tomorrow is the end of the world?

every once in awhile I go the massage route. I shop in the body rubs section of BP and will only see someone who has reviews.  I read the reviews, and look for  full service. So far I'm batting 1000%, .
You can't beat the donation amount, however, it's not a full GFE session.

I like to mix up FS and FBSM.

I think I'm starting to learn more towards FBSM because I get performance anxiety when doing FS and have only successfully done FS once out of three FS attempts.

Is this like a guy telling his wife he didn't actually have sex because all he got was blow job? Or teenagers saving their virginity, until they marry, by only engaging in anal penetration?

If you got a happy ending, I'm pretty sure sex was involved......just saying'.....lol....

Huge fan of FBSM myself, BTW...for whatever that's worth.

China

You are young, but I am ancient, so please forgive the temerity of the following suggestion.

Sarcasm is  sometimes how CCPA shows affection (and dislike and disgust and a whole bunch of other things).  Relax, don't take it personally and think of his posts as a form of performance  art.  Sometimes he's really good.

Ancient sounds so...old. Unless you remember the last princess of Korea, I doubt you are ancient.

Yes, I do believe that is the way he shows affection to some. I, however, have gotten under his skin in a way that has put me on his shit list. He points out my age in a rude manner, and tries anyway he can to undermine my opinions.
I sure to some he is just a delightfully little confectionery to be around...but on my end? Not so much.
I don't think it is a big deal for me to ask that we both just leave each other alone. Though I have left him alone...he just seems to enjoy going after me. Not sure why.

I think "dislike and disgust " is mostly what he shows me through is comments. Add in "misplaced disdain".

Rose

which drives men nuts. Many escorts are rather routine....kiss, bbbj, daty, sex, more bbbj, sex, see ya. My friend says she never goes down on a guy, just an hj but it is a full body to body massage, and since it is something most men have never experienced, it truly makes them crazy. If done right, an FBSM can very well be more satisfying than actual intercourse. I rarely have a lot of sex with my clients, so there is some truth in the art of the build up.

I have had many great bodyrubs with girls that are extremely attractive, and sometimes that has gone a lot further than a nude bodyrub with mutual touching.

It's a nice surprise when it goes that way.