....and the pillow case too.  Don't be scared to be you.  Quit being PC.  Make it known, post it on your website and in your ads.

Here's my frustration.....I email a lady via TER and ask can we arrange an appointment.  She responds sure contact me and provide work verification.  I follow her protocol and have not heard back since.  I've reached out to her twice and nothing.  I know the work verification was positive so I'm sure that's not the issue.  And if it is an issue simply say so.  She is well known provider on a local board.  I've being a hobbyist a looong time so I've seen this script played before.

Ladies please know.....I clearly understand that you may have preferences based on the intimate services that you provide but please make that known!  And if you're scared and/or are PC about it then tell me in confidence.

You will not hurt my feelings.  I could give a fuck.  What I do give a fuck about is the waste of my time; your lack of professionalism; and the fact that I coulda seen another lady who got away cause I was holding that slot for said unresponsive.

For every one of you who do not see Black men; or whatever you preference is not there are 10 I can contract with.  So please....dont be afraid!

And that's Mr. President to you....ROFLMAO

Not all woman are racist because they won't see blacks.


You guys should really stop using the race card when you can't get laid , it dishonors blacks who  were hung and really had to go thru real racism.

So just because she didn't get back to you, you are assuming that she wouldn't see African American guy?

She could have gotten busy, or could just be a scatterbrain goofnut who forgot to get back to you....



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This black/white topic has been discussed 1000 times!  Get over it. The horse is dead already!

She didn't like your reviews and decided you weren't a good match.

AA hobbyists have no problem seeing most women.  There's one in particular who's one of the hobby kings of NY, goes to all the best M&Gs and is loved by the provider community. I've met other AA men at the same parties, and even a Hasidic Jew (who snagged Chloe Carter away from me, the bastard! When she left with him she looked at me, smiled, and said, "You snooze, you lose!").
I don't know your review background but I think the poster was right who said there may be another explanation.  Anyway, best of luck to you.

People sometimes out their ethnicity in their reviews. The man has written 20 reviews.

Alternatively, she could have contacted some of the girls he has seen or posed question on PO board asking about his race.

C'mon use some imagination.



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His team never loses.

It's good to be the King..err, President.

But there still seem to be some fucktards that don't really understand.

That's why I shipped you a gross of "fucktard repellant" today.

You know..just in case of emergency.

Seems to me the best approach is to email the providers in question directly and ask them the question.  Some will tell you upfront..."I don't see these types of men."  Doesn't necessarily mean they are racist--to me, at least.  Granted, I'm not AA, so I don't know at all what an AA feels or goes through, but in my mind, there is only a transaction if both sides are fine with all the stipulations of the transaction.

I won't see a fat or ugly girl, so is that discrimination against fat or ugly women?  Kinda reminds me of some of those lawsuits against Hooters by girls who were ugly or fat.  Or the lawsuit yesterday I read about in the NY Post about some attorney saying that his learning-disabled son should be able to get more time to take the LSAT (the law school admissions exam).  I mean...sorry, man, but not everyone is a fit for everyone or everything.

Back to the topic...I just find it interesting that on one hand you're asking providers to be direct, and on the other hand, you're asking this question on a board to people who have nothing to do with this topic.

Talk about beating a dead horse!!!! WTF! You trying to say she is racist because you ASSume she does not see black guys? She could have forgotten. Lord knows I have some times. It could be something else. Maybe in your reviews you want/ask for things that she doesn't do. If you are not positive or even sure that it is because you are black, you should not even insinuate that she is racist.