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posted 18 years ago

In your post you said the girls at the truck stop you had met were "surprisingly" clean ect. ect.You were surprised , no? It may very well be the girl you envisioned finding there is the same girl prospective providers are envisioning you spending time with prior to meeting with them . And like yourself they are a little apprehensive about which ponds they swim in.
I also have to agree with the other posters about your place however comfortable and clean is not what most are used to and honestly if the girl isn't comfortable it is not going to be the best time you can possibly have. An uptight girl doesn't play out all that well really .Good luck to you Kendall

boomman2218 years ago1824 reads

Question for the providers.

Hey all. I'm a new member with a bit of a strange question for you.

I'm a truck driver. I got into this hobby via a pair of girls working a truckstop. Prior to them, I had never even considered taking one of these women up on her offer of "company". These two were surprisingly attractive, very clean and well kept, and most of all, very nice. So I took the plunge.

One of them introduced me to CL. (to show me her "nudies") Now THIS was cool! I could look THEM up instead of lucking into a truckstop with girls, and waiting for one I liked to happen by.

So, my question is this: Why do 80+% of the listed providers reject me out of hand when I tell them I'm a trucker?? A few were nice about it, 1 asked me to call back if I found a motel room, the rest basically told me to get bent and hung up. One woman actually yelled at me for wasting her time, and told me never to call again... WTF??!!

Now I have had some luck. I did get 1 lady to come to me at my truck, but she was atypical. The others I've met when I've gotten a room. I've treated them all very well, I'm very respectful, I make sure I'm clean and fresh before I entertain, and I do NOT haggle- EVER. ALL have asked me to call again whenever I'm in town. I've asked them all this Q as well, and several have said they would be willing to come to my truck for a date.

It's not like I'm asking for a fling in the backseat of a car- this is my home on wheels. I have a bed, good lighting, privacy curtains, the works- except for a john.

So, what do you think? Help a fellow out here! It gets damn lonely out here on the road, and an hour or two with a sweet girl really makes my week! Why does dating in my truck freak out or offend so many providers?? I plan on getting VIP membership when I get somewhere with better service. Then I can browse the reviews, etc here.

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redheadedbbw18 years ago445 reads

Re: Question for the providers.

Good Morning,
For me it would be a safety issue going to your truck. We don't know who you are,when you call. You could be the next Ted Bundy. I also don't do car dates. I honestly don't think it has as much do with your profession and where you want to meet. Also can you be verified? CL isn't the best options out there. Alot of rip-off and police are there.
Be careful
Dawn

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boomman2218 years ago250 reads

Re: Question for the providers.

I'm not sure what you mean about verified... The name of my employer is written all over my rig, though. I'm also willing to provide any ID or info they need to assure themselves tat I am who I say I am.
I have put some thought into the safety issue as well. I ask the lady to dress casually- like she belongs. These are open to the public-with diners, stores, etc. I will also meet her in front or in the restaurant, if she likes. If she has a security guy with her, I'm more than willing to talk to him as well- I have nothing to hide, and am exactly what I say I am. As long as she doesn't look like she's in business, or walk around knocking on doors, noone will even think twice about her. People are in and out all day... I offer to meet her out front, so we can walk to my "house" together, and I will walk her back to her car as well, to make sure nobody bothers her.

As for the other issue, how am I any different than another new client who needs an outcall? Other than your instincts, and good screening, there's not much I can say to convince you that I'm not Tad Bundy... Sometimes I can get a room, sometimes not. A lot of hotel/motels don't have parking for us... I doubt any provider wants me pulling up to her incall location in my rig, lol.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THE REPLIES, LADIES! I can understand not wanting to do it, it's the angry, offended attitude I don't understand...

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RaeMonroe18 years ago526 reads

It has to do with control.

Very few women, I think, would be comfortable meeting for a first time at your home on wheels. The first being that most ladies are overly sensitive about cleanliness and without a bathroom in your truck that would be a no go. I am positive that if you asked for incall or outcall to a hotel none would have an issue.

Most ladies are extremely careful about their safety and that is just a little too outside the normal for me. Good Luck.

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Swooning18 years ago587 reads

There's a stigma with truckers, and no lady wants to go to a truck....

This may sound harsh, but it's true. My recommendation is NOT mention you're a trucker if you can help it. The reputation/stereotype is uneducated, rough, crude, and dirty. Rightly, or wrongly, that's perceived reality.

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LiannaGerrit18 years ago453 reads

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sweetnicole118 years ago231 reads

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there are so many reasons it's not happening.
Its not just cleanliness and lack of a bathroom to ensure so, its safety and surroundings. I think you are out of luck if you expect most ladies to come to your truck. I know I won't.

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boomman2218 years ago181 reads

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Thanks, Kendall! I'd never thought of that... I will say this- I'm as conscious of cleanliness as most providers are. If she isn't well kept, or looks like a junkie, she's NOT getting in my truck!!! I grew up with all the same scare tactics about std"s as you. That, and a dirty or smelly person is a huge turn off! If I'm paying to play, It's going to be with somebody I WANT to play with- not whomever is willing.

My initial comment was mostly about my perception of what "lot lizards" are supposed to be like. Sure, a few are like that, but not all. I was rather surprised upon actually meeting some how clean and pretty many are.

I'd rather find one elsewhere, though. Both for peace of mind, and because I really prefer gfe, and most of those aren't interested in providing that. I'm in it for the company and the intimicy more than just to get my rocks off- I can do that myself, for free!

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CiaraPhx18 years ago156 reads

For me, it's not what business you're in, it's where we are having fun. (eom)

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SweetJaneHR18 years ago343 reads

Re: I agree with Rae

Probably your best bet is to find some nice ladies who have incall close to the interstate. If you drive a certain route, you might even be able to see her coming and going.

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RinaTakami18 years ago599 reads

Re: It has to do with control.

If there's no bathroom with a shower, no way. The thought of going to see a man who has been working all day and haven't showered.. sorry, never.

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Zayzha18 years ago517 reads

At 49, I like to think I've moved beyond the backseat of a vehicle....LOL

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CiaraPhx18 years ago471 reads

Honey, it's your "home away from home" that scares us . . .

First, it doesn't have a bathroom. Ladies like to clean up afterward and some (like me) like to clean you off with a nice, warm washtowel.

Second, a classy lady would not want to be seen hopping into a truck at a truck stop. I mean, come on darlin'!

Third (and most importantly), it is not safe. Plus, who would provide me with reputable references (which I always get before I see someone)? I only take references from other providers with websites who have reviews.

Fourth, Did you know that the highest percentage of busts in Phoenix are either at a massage parlor or a truck stop?

Escorts are not street walkers -- not that I have anything against them. I've seen some hot ladies out there. But if we can afford a website, advertising and are only available that way, then we're probably not interested in a truckstop. Think about it. I feel your pain, but please get a motel or hotel then we'll see you. Need I say more?

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 6/30/2008 6:01:23 PM

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KariPleases18 years ago294 reads

Re: Question for the providers.

"this is my home on wheels." Besides all the other reasons, your one statement says it all. A provider's safety is her number one concern. Most won't go to a client's home whether it is on stilts, a foundation or 18 wheels.

Get a VIP membership and check out the local ladies in the area you are traveling to. As long as you can be verified, there shouldn't be a problem with you coming to them.

Good luck in your search,

Kari