most massage providers who i have gone to see start you off on the massage table on your stomach. this presents a problem for touching a provider. you are in an awkward position on your stomach and the provider is at your side behind you. this is not inducive for touching the provider. once you are turned over on your back the provider is generally still to one side and you have only one hand free. my question as a newbie is if I want to touch the provider what is my best option: should the touching be done before I get on the table that way i have both hands free to touch her? should i periodically stop the massage and position myself better to touch the provider more completely with both hands? or is light touching just an added come-on when really not very much touching by you is conducive when receiving a massage?
what does the experienced massage hobbyist or mp suggest? or what am i doing wrong?
At some point say "That feels great. Is it ok if we switch roles and I massage you for a while?" I've never had a provider say no. You might have to start with her on her stomach, but eventually you can flip her and have more fun. But you've got to be gentle, start slowly, earn her trust. It's a nice touch to say "let me know if anything I do bothers you." I like this better than "can I do this, can I do that..." Just ease into it.
If you don't want to really massage her, another idea is just be honest and say I'd love to touch you, but it's difficult when I'm being massaged. Could we have a little time when I can just adore and caress you?
>Ted506, Who have you had that lets you massage them?
I will assume you are really asking me, since I mentioned it.
I am not going to list providers that let me massage them. The reason is, as I said, EVERY provider I have politely asked has been happy to receive. Now, I don't think it is a coincidence that I have selected providers that do this, so it must be something else - like I approached them in a gentle, kind and respectful way and earned their trust. This is the important point, not to make a list of girls that let you touch them.
i have a follow-up question: how come massage providers charge more when they are nude as opposed to partially nude in a g-string for example...i would think that when you pay more to see them nude there are other benefits that would come with that payment...touching their bodies, etc. if there are no other benefits what would the point be of paying them more if you are just going to get a bodyrub anyway?
Your follow-up question confuses me. Why are you saying there are no benefits like touching their body? I thought I answered your question on how to ask to touch their body respectfully and that this has always worked for me.
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