How many ladies in the business are married?
How many ladies in the business have a SO?
How much does your husband / boy friend know about your work?
Can his ego handle it?

Thanks for your replies.

One of my Fav ladies is married...  She's a mature lady...  husband works, no dead beat.  I don't know how he handles it.  I have not met him yet but sometimes he calls at lunch or brings her dinner.  
I wonder if she'll retire once the bills are caught up.
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wondering if you could handle it? just curious as to why the question is being asked...

i am VERY happily married, and my Husband knows every detail about my escorting. it was something i did with his permission, and now continue with his support and encouragement but also his supervision. He's very proud of me, for the way unique way i handle myself within this "hobby"...he knows that i work to build actual relationships with the gents i see, and he sees how i have really had a positive impact on the lives of many. He also finds it sexually titillating. so i would say that it seems to boost his ego if anything. however it should be noted that we do not believe in sexual monogamy.

One of my first providers was driven to my hotel by her husband. She was so nice and honest about it but I definitely thought it out of my range of behavioral understanding. It turned out a few years later that he basically turned into her pimp - making her work for more and more fees for his income and they broke up. I think this must be a very complex issue for our ladies with SO's.....

Hi Lilly,
Thanks for your insight.  Marrying is a big word but dating is what is on my mind.  Your husband must be very self confident.  I am married but my wife made it clear we were not going to be in an open marriage from the start.  I do find after a hot affair my head can be left spinning and I can’t get the lady out of my head.  I have to focus extra hard to bring my attention back home.  I try to be as good of a lover as I can be at home and away but there are always new and better men out there for the ladies.  Maybe I married a lady that was less promiscuous because I was concerned about not being able to keep her at home with just me.  Ironically it is me that goes out looking for excitement.  I am a true believer that we can bring excitement back home by focusing energy where it is deserved.  I am a reasonably self confident person but with a provider I am competing against many powerful successful men, such as myself as I would like to believe.  (Hey, in my head I can think what I want.)  As a married man I have little to offer a single lady other then excitement, adventure, affection and money.   I guess I asked the question for your incite on how you deal with your head left spinning from a great encounter that was not your SO.

started dating a beautiful and charming provider.  They got serious, became engaged, and seemed to be doing fine.  She did not give up her profession. After about a year or so, they began to have trouble.  Arguments would include nasty comments by him about what a slut she was followed by his pathetic and sorrowful apologies.  In the end, they broke it off.  

In fairness you should know he has had a string of "almosts" and remains a bachelor now in his early 50s.  I don't know what became of her.  I guess she is happily married somewhere.

I have seen this type of relationship work well in the BDSM world. Where a master will allow his slave to be used by other masters. Some masters will rent out a slave.

Doesn't that take away from the "experience" you are having, if you are constantly thinking about weather you "girlfriend experience" is taken???  We provide a fantasy, so I don't think it should really matter what is going on in our personal life.  Should a girl be subjected to a single life outside of the business, just because she enjoys being promiscuous??  In my own experience allowing one that far into my personal life, takes away from the fantasy I provide!!  When we are together, there is no one else!!
XOXO
McKayla Woods