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Ladies who've left and returned
hauteconfidante See my TER Reviews 928 reads
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After a bit more than a year away, I'm considering a return to my favorite profession :) Ladies, have any of you left and come back? What were your reasons? Did you find reentry to be easy?

Duplicitouslust531 reads

Dear Ms. Lyons:
What is it that you like the most about the hobby? Also what is it that you like the least about the hobby? Also considering that you are a provider do you like the autonomy that the hobby gives you in terms of selectivity and your on hours? Finally what will you differently this time in the hobby as far as business practices as opposed to your previous venture within the hobby?  Also do you think that your time away from the hobby has help you prevent professional burnout as well?

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Illuminaughty69390 reads

Why should she answer 5 questions from a hobbyist about her likes and dislikes? Irrelevant. Not flaming you, just saying that if you can't help her don't waste her time either.

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NuckyT342 reads

But so long as he is being sincere should be allowed to ask. OP's prerogative to ignore, which she did. No offense but this  board has gotten a little uptight. Especially from anonymous posters laying the rules down.

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OldTraveler280 reads

I am glad to see I am not the only one who feels this way.  In the last month or so I keep reading some very closed minded posts about what are/are not legitimate posts.

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Trekyfan402 reads

I like the double meaning of the word "re-entry".

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hauteconfidante328 reads

Thanks for noticing! ;)

Posted By: Trekyfan
I like the double meaning of the word "re-entry".  

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Trekyfan288 reads

Nice web links!  Too bad work never takes me to NYC:(

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OldTraveler382 reads

I have been here long enough to see many ladys leave--then return.

The ones who seem to have the smoothest return usually have these traits:
--They left for business reasons (oftent a promotion in their day job, etc), not because they were burned out omn this job.
--They stayed in contact with a number of the ladies and/or guys in this business as friends on some level.  It may or may not have included seeing a very small number of favorite clients deep UTR.
--They had a clear, honest picture of why they stopped and why they felt it was the right time to come back.

Hope this helps a little.

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sitaradevi301 reads

I've never fully taken time off since I've entered this industry,but there are times when I market myself more/less heavily based on other life commitments. I find that in this industry where there are so many "fly by night" ladies, the ones that do best are those that are always available, or at least have one finger in the mix at all times so that gents can build up confidence that the lady will stick around to establish an on-going friendship with them.

Sitara Devi

Related Link: http://www.sitaradevi.com

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London Rayne316 reads

It is almost comical to see so many make the big retiring post, then are back in 3 months, but I see nothing wrong with just going UTR and coming back. I toured for 2 years at least twice a month, and got burned out...took some time off.


When I want to get less clients, I simply raise my rates but I have yet to pull my website. When that happens, I will not be coming back...ever. If your website was never pulled, I see no problems in coming back. If you have reviews still, another plus. Guys will know you are not new, and you have some credibility.

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TamsenC232 reads

... be it a day or a year. Helps me refresh & focus.

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alex815217 reads

I'm in Chicago, had 2 girls I will never leave  Ms Gia and Sexy Shannon GFE they are new ..... have anyone experience a FS 2girlshow without any interruptions ? I get paid they will have almost all my money .... I may slow down but my other head says go faster!

Related Link: Shannon GFE

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hauteconfidante227 reads

for your kind words and advice, both here and on PM. much love to my girls especially!

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