Hello. I would like to get into the business as a high end independent provider. I am in my early 20's, in great shape and have stunning features. I have done research on the whole GFE world and I think I would be perfect. I have a degree from a very prestigious private college and am in the process of getting my masters, I am classy and charming, and can carry a great conversation. I understand that they have a website and I am in the process of getting photos done and building one, but then what?
Any help would be very appreciated.
P.s..I have experience as an independent provider, but I want to take it to the next level.
Thanks!
numerous times. Use the TER General Boards drop down window and it's right below the GD. Then start by reading the "self help center" in red print. It's for both new clients and providers. Finally you can do a search on the newbie for this subject. Read everything you can find on escorting. Also lurk on your regional board, depending where you're located, again use the drop down window to locate your city or state. While we call this a hobby, P4P is illegal, and there are serious consequences if you make mistakes as you start in the biz. Many ladies new to the biz start by working for an agency. But that's for another post. Good luck.
first, once you get your website up and running you MUST put the ter seal on your website...TER REQUIRES this so you can post ads on ter...make sure you have a separate email account dedicated to the hobby...keep it to yourself...by that I mean don't tell your friends about it or anyone who can potentially ruin things for you...discretion is a must TRUST ME....then, once the ter seal is in place you can start posting on your regional board...I can give you many more tips but not here lol....if you need more help getting started please feel free to email me 
First, you must define high-end. $400/hour, $500/hour or $1,000/hour?
Secondly, I would recommend that you respectfully contact a few ladies in the category you wish to join. Be prepared to be "screened" by them prior to being comfortable enough to discuss anything with you. If no lady lends her expertise, find someone who meets your ideal (and also matches up with your attributes) and model yourself after her.
And finally, I would keep the "day job" for a while. I have been with what is considered higher-end ladies and they rarely depend on being a provider as their sole means of support during the entirety of their companionship career. And that helps make them so enjoyable as they can speak about business and the world from a first hand point of view. The "day job" may also be defined as your SO as I have discovered, particularly for the 30+ ladies. lol.
Just my $.02
Dumbjock
Helpful and friendly so get to know your market and make a rep for yourself then make friends
Advice from another educated and up n coming rookie!
Posted By: Dumbjock
First, you must define high-end. $400/hour, $500/hour or $1,000/hour?
Secondly, I would recommend that you respectfully contact a few ladies in the category you wish to join. Be prepared to be "screened" by them prior to being comfortable enough to discuss anything with you. If no lady lends her expertise, find someone who meets your ideal (and also matches up with your attributes) and model yourself after her.
And finally, I would keep the "day job" for a while. I have been with what is considered higher-end ladies and they rarely depend on being a provider as their sole means of support during the entirety of their companionship career. And that helps make them so enjoyable as they can speak about business and the world from a first hand point of view. The "day job" may also be defined as your SO as I have discovered, particularly for the 30+ ladies. lol.
Just my $.02
Dumbjock
I'm educated, refined, proper and a gentleman, but I'm also butt-ugly and maybe that has something to do with it. I advertised the full BFE.
I wish you better luck than I had.
Have a custom one done by a good website designer. Look around at websites that strike your fancy and ask the person whose site it is to refer their web designer to you.
Also, make sure the photos are excellent. Get a really good photog. That will often be the first impression you make, and you don't get a second shot at a first impression.
Posted By: mrfisher
Have a custom one done by a good website designer. Look around at websites that strike your fancy and ask the person whose site it is to refer their web designer to you.
This is kind of a big deal, but there are more escorts with cookie-cutter free websites out there than ones with good sites. I'm not sure why so many girls aren't concerned with first impressions online. (Pics are another part of this.) The website is what many people see first, before making their decisions. (I also don't get why so many girls are opposed to exchanging links, but I digress. Heh)
There are independent providers who charge a great deal of money for their services. In that respect they are "high end" but beyond that don't deliver much more than can be had at half the price by other providers.
For this, spare absolutely no expense on glitz, glam, the best photographers you can afford, etc. Price yourself so high you blush at the thought.
But there are also independent providers who might only see 5-6 new clients a year; deal primarily with repeat business and charge a great deal. These women deal much more intimately with their clients than a standard "gfe" and it is at a whole different level because they really only accept clients with whom chemistry actually exists so they never fake anything. It isn't a "gfe" -- it is real.
At that level, most certainly you still (often) need the great website and photos; but you need to pay a lot more attention to the writing on your website. Men who see you will often see ONLY you; and they will select you as carefully as if they were selecting a girlfriend; so more data and insight is needed.
Posted By: MarilynAshland
Hello. I would like to get into the business as a high end independent provider. I am in my early 20's, in great shape and have stunning features. I have done research on the whole GFE world and I think I would be perfect. I have a degree from a very prestigious private college and am in the process of getting my masters, I am classy and charming, and can carry a great conversation. I understand that they have a website and I am in the process of getting photos done and building one, but then what?
Any help would be very appreciated.
P.s..I have experience as an independent provider, but I want to take it to the next level.
Thanks!
In my experience, the high end ladies do not use TER as I would hazard a guess that their rates far eclipse what is acceptable for a lady to charge in these here parts. Many are not reviewed, do not participate on discussion boards and have a very close nit word of mouth situation. How you break into this clique is for someone else to answer. I have visited many of these ladies sites and I didn't see a TER seal nor any reference to any review site. Might be some that do however it's not the norm.
They charge hefty fees and get them. And usualyy have 2 or 3 hour minimums running in the thousands, not hundreds for their time. If you feel you pull this off...go for it.
LB, I think you meant "close knit". I would imagine that most nits (as in immature head louse) WOULD be close - LMAO!!
Good catch my man...lol. That's just ickky.
education and then some by working as a provider.
IMHO, to be considered "high end", you need to be a true GFE who offers the TOTAL experience including dressing and acting the part (cut-off jeans and a t-shirt may look good on you but that isn't high end), offering multiple hour dates and extended dates as opposed to HH dates for a slam-bam romp, be willing to travel (get a passport), etc.
Good luck to you!
I think that sometimes observation is the best way to establish what you want to personify..
"high end" is a mere description.. very ambiguous..
surround yourself with the providers that you feel exhibit your personal likes..
they say "water seeks its own level"
also, what area do you reside/provide in.. ?
Location, location, location..
best of luck to you.. also, dont lose your values/morals.. that is what makes one person "high end" over another in my opinion
Lovely lorena
newly known as
Lorena de Leon
We will meet, get naked and hold a business plan compilation meeting consisting of all the things, in our opinions, "high end" escorts should do. Once we compare notes, we will meticulously act out every single scenario and act at least once, sometimes twice and if it feels extra good, a third time.
We will them summarize our findings for you hand deliver them and for no extra charge, demonstrate on, er to you the things we suggest.
Of course this is all in the name of R&D and I haven't really spoken to Lorena about this, but I assume it's fine.
Posted By: soflaguy44
We will meet, get naked and hold a business plan compilation meeting consisting of all the things, in our opinions, "high end" escorts should do. Once we compare notes, we will meticulously act out every single scenario and act at least once, sometimes twice and if it feels extra good, a third time.
We will them summarize our findings for you hand deliver them and for no extra charge, demonstrate on, er to you the things we suggest.
Of course this is all in the name of R&D and I haven't really spoken to Lorena about this, but I assume it's fine.
Wished I had asked the question. Little did I know there were such altruistic people in our viewing audience. Is this like "see me for free and I will post a great review" sort of thing...lol
This is just a little tongue in cheek fun.
and just which set of cheeks are we talking about.
I certainly hope it's Lorena's cheeks we are talking about, I don't want the image of Soflaguy's cheeks running through my mind. Come to think of it, I don't want to think about his tongue either. I think I will just concentrate on the image of Lorena's cheeks. Yes, much better now. rofl
Don't lose yourself. Stay true to who you are and if the guys like you for you...you will get there.
Best of luck from a 3 month rookie!
