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Marijuana and libido
TiffaniXXX 5179 reads
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Does marijuana use signicantly increase your libido and enjoyment of sex? If so, are women more affected than men, or no difference? Does occasional use vs chronic use make any difference in sensation? (You can use aliases when you answer, in order to protect the umm, innocent.)

I smoke weed about once a month when an out of state boyfriend comes to visit for a day or two. I notice as soon as I smoke, I get extremely horny and am MUCH more aggressive in bed than normal---wanting to touch and be touched everywhere, multi-orgasmic, wanting to do every position known to man, etc. I am a true nympho at that point! :)

For the first time, I recently smoked with a trusted client during a session, and found the increased libido to be similar (but not as intense because he wasn't my boyfriend). But it was an outstanding session and I was very enthusiastic, to put it mildly. It would have been ranked a 12. :)

However, when we discussed it afterwards, the client said smoking weed does not particularly affect his sex life--yes, it makes it somewhat more pleasurable, but certainly not to the extent it affects me. This is a guy who smokes every day.(This is also what my out of town boyfriend says--he also smokes frequently.)

So, does an occasional user like me get extra heightened sensations compared to a chronic user?

I jokingly told my client that if I had a smoke before every client visit, I'd definitely be the hottest thing in town in no time. LOL.

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HeywoodJablowme3901 reads

been seeing once a week for several years.  One time she had some marijuana which a friend had given her.  I had not smoked it in over 10 years and she rarely did either.

We got high and then got busy. She would often have orgasms when we got together, but this time she came like she never did before.  Subsequently, I bought some grass but she did not want to smoke again before sex.  IMHO, it seemed like she was afraid of losing control again and actually enjoying sex with a customer.

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clarence373573 reads

i smoked a lot as a kid/young adult because most of my friends did. it was an integral part of the bar scene/party experience, though i never cared for the high all that much. today, if someone hands me a joint i might take a hit, but i rarely smoke and haven't bought it in years.

HOWEVER - if i smoke with a woman during an intimate evening, i grow bigger than ever and stay rock hard all night. i don't mean for 2-3 pops. i mean, all night. with no exaggeration, i have to ice it down (!) it doesn't increase my sensation or pleasure all that much, but i have gained a couple of stalkers over the years :-)

in contrast, i fooled around with powdered coke for a brief time in the late 80's. made me violently horny, pathetically impotent, and broke. gave it up quick.

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jackvance4102 reads

I smoked marijuana about one a month in my early-mid twenties, and I remember it definitely enhanced sex.  Literally caused my skin to tingle, and made the O more intense.

Stopped using it because the drug scene doesn't appeal to me.

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singleton4066 reads


marijuana is perhaps the world's oldest aphrodisiac, see this illuminating (historical) article

http://cannabisculture.com/articles/1372.html

it affects both men and women powerfully (though to different extents and depending on your own personal neurochemistry). its use is very wide-spread in the gay culture where the combination of its blood-engorging effects and men's own proclivity for endless sex-marathons makes it second only to "poppers" (though my gay friends tell me that inhalants are like coke, a very intense rush but soon afterwards you go limp pretty quick - this does not happen with THC which has a more "natural" longlasting and pleasant effect)

now given that LE agents are routinely monitoring these boards (hi there guys, how 'bout catching us some terrorists instead!?) i'd like to say: i myself have never dabbled in drugs (of course) and would also like to say: "KIDS! don't do drugs, stay in school, get an education, get yourself a lucrative career and then you too can indulge as we do!" ;)

sex is addictive enough as it is, why take the chance?



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BadBoyTurndNiceGuy3285 reads

I have experimented with most any and all drugs available and abused many, including pot, as we called it.
I found pot to make me extremely horny when I first started smoking it, and after a few years it led to paranoia, and no fun to use as an aphrodisiac.
The one drug I found to have the best effect on my libido, and my partners, was MDMA, or as it is known today, Ecstasy. Back in the day, it was considered to be harmless. It was THE best aphrodisiac I had ever taken. 12 to 16 hours of pure bliss, and it didn't matter who the partner was, as it turned the whole world beautiful!
I found Coke to be something of a non-performance drug, much like alchohol. It made me want to do something but left the inability to perform, and completely frustrated.
Smack, and other narcotics/opoids were completely different, all I wanted to do was hug and cuddle and love my partner, nothing sexual at all.
Crank, and other speed, nada, nothing happinening with these, self centered, couldn't care less about anyone or anything. Fast track to death is all these are.

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InterestingWoman3303 reads

and having sex! It's totally amazing. The best orgasms I've ever had were in my late teens with a boyfriend. We'd smoke a few and then f*** for hours. He could touch me, and I'd have an orgasm. I don't smoke anymore, but I remember those days so very fondly.

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A providers opinion3293 reads

The majority of men I have long term relationships with (escort/client) all smoke pot and they all smoke it religiously.  It only takes a few good hits to makes them very horny and wild and they f**k like marathon runners.  They become multi-orgasmatic and can have 2 to 3 orgasms back to back.  I've experienced them staying hard even after climaxing and just wanting to resting for about 10 mins then wanting to start up again. I've found that my clients over 50 who smoke pot do need more resting time or at least 30 mins before starting up again.

My feelings on men who smoke mariuana for the sexual hightening of it aren't romantic at all.  They're almost like sexual addicts and become so self absorbed.  They lack intimancy and the need to arouse their partner or even consider her sexual needs.  They're so self absorbed in themselves it makes the experience become just sex.  I have to say, I definitely continue to see them only for the money.

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lwien2441 reads

"My feelings on men who smoke mariuana for the sexual hightening of it aren't romantic at all. ÊThey're almost like sexual addicts and become so self absorbed. ÊThey lack intimancy and the need to arouse their partner or even consider her sexual needs. ÊThey're so self absorbed in themselves it makes the experience become just sex. ÊI have to say, I definitely continue to see them only for the money."
--A Providers Opinion

Your last paragraph here has a very negative tone to it, and I gotta respond.  
Whenever a guy in this forum states that he's falling for a provider, he is told under no uncertain terms, that this is a business.  That it is all just fantasy and not to confuse this with what you'd experience with a "real" girlfriend.
And then you, a provider, looks negatively on the fact that some of your clients who smoke pot are self absorbed and don't consider your sexual needs, and for them, it is just sex.
Don't you see the double standard here.....

For what it's worth, here's my opinion.....

This IS just a business.  It is a business of paying for sex.
Neither the client or the provider should expect anything more unless it is negotiated beforehand.  Why SHOULD a client consider a providers sexual needs?  Who is the customer here??????

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singleton3366 reads


"[This] is a business of paying for sex ... Why SHOULD a client consider a providers sexual needs?" -- lwien

dunno ... to get more BANG for his BUCK?  a happy provider makes for a happy client. it makes "business" sense, that's all.  nothing to do with "attachments" or "feelings"

the cute girl with the tongue-piercing at my local coffee shop always gives me a wink and a smile (and slips me freebies here and there). why? because i treat her nice, that's all. while the surly corporate bitch that works the local Starbucks treats me like "caffeine-addict #1532" takes my money and doesn't even make eye-contact ... is this the kind of "service" you prefer?




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lwien2918 reads


Please read the thread above entitled "The expectations that providers have about their sessions "

Tell me if what I said makes any sense........don't want to repeat it here.  Just a little too lengthy.....

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wmblake3683 reads

Ah, no, you're wrong - "They lack intimancy and the need to arouse their partner or even consider her sexual needs.  They're so self absorbed in themselves it makes the experience become just sex."

Does being stoned intensify the experience - absolutely.  But I am also a more patient lover, especially in DATY.  I am much more gradual in building her excitement, and as a result, she gets more from me.  

Then again, sometimes when stoned, all I want is for someone to take over and drive; great time for FBSM.

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