I would hate to find out a lady I see regularly bumped an already scheduled client over me. I would actually prefer her to tell me she's not available. Chances are, my preferred time is not really the "only" time I have available, and, if I am a regular client, I'll still want to see her another time.
While I know it happens, I find the practice unprofessional. Professionalism is something I actually look for in a provider. If she's bumping another client, even a "newbie" for me, I have to assume she would do the same to me if the situation arose. I would find a new lady to see regularly who has a stronger sense of commitment.
Also, regardless of how many times I have seen a lady, every time could easily be the last. Things change. Needs change. She may very well have just burned my replacement's bridge.
Something I'm curious about.
Ladies--here's a hypothetical. Suppose you receive a request for a date from a newbie-- (assuming you are "newbie friendly")--you screen him thoroughly and he checks out. Consequently you schedule a day, time, and place to meet. Then shortly before the scheduled date you are contacted by a regular who you've known for a long time and have a very good rapport with and he wants to schedule in the time-slot you've booked with the newbie. It's the only time window he has available.
Would you "bump" the newbie (to use a phrase in air travel when flights are oversold and lower priority passengers get "bumped") and attempt to reschedule him to another slot in favor of the regular? Or would you still commit to the booking and let the regular know that the time-slot he requests is not available?
How many girls do you think will say, "Sure, I'd bump the noob?" Zero.
And how many would actually do it? All of them.
Now at least maybe ONE of them will give you an honest answer, just to prove me wrong.
Well--let's see if there are any candid responses. You may be 100% right that nobody will come right out and say it--yet they'll all do it. Curious if anyone will be candid about it!
a no-brainer. They just can't admit it. I can't tell you how many times I have requested an appointment at a specific time with a booker I use regularly and have the booker tell me to "give him 20 minutes to work it out." Do you think he's going to bump someone? Lol
I used to feel a little guilty about getting someone bumped, but its happened to me enough when I'm a noob with a new indie girl or a new agency to sufficiently assuage those former feelings. I got bumped twice in one day by an indie in Chicago a few years ago. Lol
that "very good rapport" isn't mutual. Hypothetically.
But they they would also be smart enough not to admit it in this forum.
I ran into that situation with a regular, but she was upfront with me about it. She let me know that she was already booked, but would get back to me after attempting to reschedule. I ended up getting the time slot after she told the newbie that a family emergency had come up and she would have to reschedule.
It all worked out for the best, as they met at an alternate time and he ended up becoming a regular of hers as well.
Maybe that is how she messaged it to you to make you feel important when in reality she knew that someone would cancel, placed you in the queue, and notified you once someone cancelled.
newbies especially if 2 hr or less get bumped all the time ... especially in markets like vegas where 4hr + are common .. and often bumped even just 15 minutes before their appointment. it is what it is ... and i would do the same thing.
What I would suggest the escort do is contact the noob and explain that "something" came up (If he's any kind of experienced hobbyist, he'll know exactly what that "something" is.) and see if she can make arrangements with him for a different time, perhaps with a small discount to smooth away the ruffled feathers.
Did we think any lady would respond honestly and not feel the wrath of the haters on this board.
But my guess, and I could be wrong but I doubt it is that Mr. Newbie.....you're fucked. She ain't seeing you.
No providers are responding on this thread??
But I bet her inbox is blowing up!!
Don't be shy ladies....we already know how the game is played.
And...can't really blame you. Noobs are prone to NCNS, or last minute cancelations, so who could fault you for opting for guaranteed ( and trusted ) revenue over a pot full of speculation...
I would hate to find out a lady I see regularly bumped an already scheduled client over me. I would actually prefer her to tell me she's not available. Chances are, my preferred time is not really the "only" time I have available, and, if I am a regular client, I'll still want to see her another time.
While I know it happens, I find the practice unprofessional. Professionalism is something I actually look for in a provider. If she's bumping another client, even a "newbie" for me, I have to assume she would do the same to me if the situation arose. I would find a new lady to see regularly who has a stronger sense of commitment.
Also, regardless of how many times I have seen a lady, every time could easily be the last. Things change. Needs change. She may very well have just burned my replacement's bridge.
The silence is deafening. You have your answer OP. Not even a threAD in response by the usuals. I had it happen to me, booked an hour, and just before my appointment, NCNS. Although, I kind of knew it was a risk because some of her reviews boasted of guys saying she would dump you if you were an hour and she got a two-hour appointment. I thought about doing a two-hour appointment, but it was my first with her, and wasn't going to take the chance. Oh well...
Any excuse is better than leaving a client hanging. Even if she is in the room with someone who asks to extend his time (that is, a SURE THING who has already opened his wallet, is in the room nekkid, is not LE, is not being critical and WANTS to extend his time = good review versus a possible no-show or negative person), she should still make an excuse to take 30 seconds to send a text or email.
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She can tell the guy in the room, "I would love to have you stay longer. Just let me send a message to my girl friend. We were going to go shopping. I'll tell her I'll be late." And then she sends you a message, "I slipped in the bathtub and broke my ankle. The ambulance is coming to take me to the hospital. I'll make it up to you. Sorry."
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Just send us a message! No more NCNS!
The silence is deafening. You have your answer OP. Not even a threAD in response by the usuals. I had it happen to me, booked an hour, and just before my appointment, NCNS. Although, I kind of knew it was a risk because some of her reviews boasted of guys saying she would dump you if you were an hour and she got a two-hour appointment. I thought about doing a two-hour appointment, but it was my first with her, and wasn't going to take the chance. Oh well...
BP--you are 100% spot-on. Without an answer I got my answer LMAO!!
Answering the question is a no win situation. The silence speaks more to the question than the honest answers. The first reply sealed the deal. But BP gives some great advice to providers. I know that I assume I've been bumped. The NCNS response is a total deal breaker. Cancelling might not burn the bridge.
The silence speaks louder than a jet aircraft at takeoff. (But it's not surprising at all!)
Lest anyone have questions about this being a business first, last, and always this topic should put an end to that.
I personally wouldn't bump the newbie as my regulars are loyal. I would personally try to find them someone that could accommodate their requested time. I know that my regulars are going to come back and see me. Being a regular doesn't mean that I will be unprofessional to others to accommodate you.
Now if I hadn't agreed to the date yet with the Newbie and a regular hit me up requesting the same time then Yes they will be the one getting that appointment.
When I tour it is a first come first serve. I have some regulars in one city that I am constantly having to decline their appointments because I had already scheduled with someone else during the time they wanted. They all know better as they get an email far before I start advertising in their city. So if they try to pull this crap they are sol.
I pride myself in being honest.It may be bad business on my part but I try to be respectful of everyones time.
Her P411 has a link to her TER reviews.
She must have just changed her P411 profile because when I posted she had a no review policy outlined in her profile.
I was wondering....I went and looked but didn't see anything about that...
I think the issue is that you have to log into your own P 411 account to be able to see it.
Technically this could get her delisted from TER if someone wanted to file a PR on it. I personally don't care enough to do so, she is not my cup of tea, but neither is she BSC nor a danger to the community.
Ahh...yeah, I see it now. Hard pass...