In looking over the TER surveys, I was surprised that about half of us hobbyists feel that seeing providers increase self-esteem
while 50% do not.I'm in the former category and while not being a shrink or anything, I feel it relates to my opinion that the glass is always half full rather than half empty. With that in mind,I'm assuming the survey question has it already understood that the seesions with the providers are satisfatory.Mine have been excellent and I attribute that to the excellent research material on TER.I leave the hotel room like Jim Carey in his latest flick where he wills that gorgeous brunette's skirt right up into the air.Then,I head to the lounge, for a martini, ala James Bond,to savor those prescious moments I had just spent. "I got the power" lol...Cheers!

James Bond (Sean Connery playing the role,lol) walks into a bar and takes a seat next to a very attractive, busty, blue-eyed blonde woman.He gives her a quick glance, then casually looks at his watch for a moment. She notices this and asks, "Is your date running late?" "No," he replies, "Q's just given me this state-of-the-art watch and I was just testing it." The intrigued woman says, "A state-of-the-art watch? What's so special about it?" James Bond explains, "It uses alpha waves to talk to me telepathically." She says, "What's it telling you now?" "Well, it says you're in bed with me...." She giggles and replies, "Well, it must be broken because I am not in bed with you!" Bond smirks, taps his watch and says, "Damn thing's an hour fast."

the "busty blue-eyed blonde" as the ultimate babe for men.  

of course you speak for yourself (and probably 500 million others!) but i myself prefer "skinny flat-chested BRUNETTES"

call it a taste for the "outre" ... or whatever!  

you go for the approach displayed by Connery/Bond in the anecdote above? (and don't cop out by saying that as long as Sean Connery used it, you would - we're talking about the approach itself here, not the person using it).

We must keep in mind also that some women don't like to admit to each other that they might repond to an approach like this, because it might be embarassing to admit it to other women.  So they will say to each other "What a jerk!  I'd tell him where to go!", when in reality, they might be intrigued.  They also sometimes don't want to encourage this kind of beahavior on the part of the guys, so will not admit that they might respond positively to it.

So how about it ladies?

-- Modified on 6/1/2003 3:09:29 PM

My answer isn't directly in relation to your question, but here's my answer:
I would do whatever I wanted.

Sedona

Single,your missing my point.

I love all women period. I was just trying to comprehend the 50/50 split on the self esteem issue.I feel completely satisfied and invigorated after a session while apparently others(50%) feel completely the opposite and I just don't get it.Why?

As far as taste in women goes,to each his own, and whatever floats your boat(and more power to you and others).Conversely, to some degree, I must admit I'm exploring my fantasies early in my new hobby with well endowed women. (Must be from my breast feeding days...lol)I can see having great times with other types of women as I continue to explore my own sexuality.Since I married very young with limited early on escapades, I guess you can say I've been somewhat sexually deprived.Henceforth, my time is now and as the third posting gentleman states with complete respect for the provider.The one's I've met so far have been really great people besides fulfilling my sexual and erotic needs.Wow....I can't believe I said all that...lol
Cheers!

they tend to have what it takes to deal with my witty personality.  As for what was expressed above, sure just as long as hes not an ego maniac, i would find that comment to be funny and it would quite possibly catch my attention and get me to talk to hime more.  Now will it get me into bed with him, most likely not most guys that have approached me with that type confidence it usually is false and the got it from someone else.

Actually, a beautiful pair of legs, is sexier than breasts!  You can buy the breasts, can't get a pair of legs like Kathleen Turner ... yum yum!

yea man...good ole In like Flint, James Coburn

How bout Tony Rome(Old blue eyes) and Mat Helm(Dino)?
They don't make those flicks like like they use to.

To do is to be. - Descartes
To be is to do. - Voltaire
Do be do be do. - Frank Sinatra