I think that for most hobbyists, the GFE means particular acts or talents in the bedroom, But for me it's something else altogether.  It means conducting a session the way you'd conduct a visit with a real GF.For me, the GFE treatment means enjoying a  leisurely, romantic visit with a lady, and moving to the bedroom only when the mood has fully ripened.  When I arrive at an incall appointment, I'm always tense and anxious from struggling with traffic, and I need time to shift into my biological low gear.  To feel relaxed and ready for intimacy.In my vision of the proper GFE, the lady would greet me at the door, ready to receive me.  We'd begin the visit just relaxing on the sofa, relating and connecting.  Warming up to each other in our own good time, and drawing closer as we feel ready.  Relating would flow into cuddling, and cuddling into caressing, kissing, and gentle exploration.  And the next step to the bedroom would be allowed to come in the natural course of events.  The GFE, for me, means an unhurried mutual seduction in a romantic atmosphere.Possibly I could enrich my description of the GFE by describing some of the things that I think detract from, or aren't part of, the GFE session.  Having to wait while the provider prepares for my session after I arrive is very uncool and very unprofessional on the part of the provider.  Being led directly to the bedroom when I arrive is okay if all I want is a good tumble. But when it happens, the session can never be a GFE, no matter what follows.  For me, nothing that happens in the bedroom can make a session a GFE.  I can imagine nothing that more effectively prevents a visit from being GFE than haste; for that reason, I always book two hours when I'm hoping for a really special visit.  I believe a proper GFE visit can probably be done in an hour, but when only an hour is booked, providers seem to assume that the client wants only basic sex.Anyway, that's LazyGuy's notion of GFE treatment, for whatever it's worth.  I've always said that *true* GFE can only be had with a true GF, but with a little suspension of disbelief, a quality provider can still offer a visit that will leave long-lingering memories.

GFE is "Girl Friend Experience"If I didn't do it Straightman or Sully would have.Lazyguy and Nicole explained it fairly closely.  I would add that 2 hours would be the absolute minimum, in fact I would prefer dinner before.  It's an opportunity to become familiar, with each other, put the days bulls**t behind you, start the juices flowing, then back to the old homestead.  If your going to spend the money, you don't want to be thinking about the time.  You want to explore, fondle, tease, while letting the anticipation build up.  In fact, in some cases, it's more of the foreplay then the actual event, that will make it a closer effect.  The more time that is allowed, the more real the experience.  Play a little, take a break, eat some desert, Play some more, take a bath, Play some more.  It's a mini honeymoon.  Being allowed to give, as much as receive, is a major part.  If my partner is not being fulfilled then I'm not going to come away with the feeling that I've experienced a GFE.  In a previous post, I had refered to it as trying to relive the, "First Time Experience" while having the advantage of knowing now what you didn't then.  The provider that can create that kind of illusion will be creating the ultimate GFE.Fortunately for us guys there are quite a few ladies, and I would mention that any of the ones that contribute to this forum, who go out of their way to create the GFE.  They're beautiful, classy, and enjoy what they do.  That's how you find it, by looking for the woman who enjoys what she's doing, it will be reflected in her performance, which will only inspire me to rise (NPI) to the occasion.JMHOG.

I would not assume that any first-contact with any particular provider would ever be a GFE.I think a GFE is something on a more personal note if you BOTH become a regular AND truly try to make the encounter as good for the provider as yourself.Inevitably, as people interact on a recurring basis (for any business) some will "click" better than others.  Although the "relationship" may remain somewhat business and have it's limits, it is truely a relationship in some form involve mutual respect and caring...seriously.[and YES, I did say all that with a straight face - ]