I don't even know where to begin, but wtf, you only live once.
So I've always been told, by civves and providers, that I am a complete package. Before you roll your eyes and hit the "back" button on your computer, just read me out...this is NOT a rave about myself, but a lead in.
I've always had an ability to make people comfortable from the moment they meet me, that I exude an intangible quality that not many people have. I'm not judgmental at all and people feel at ease with me. I've also been told that I have an amazing physique: muscular, very toned, well proportioned, 8 pack, tan, etc. I am an attractive guy, but not the type that seems unapproachable, but look fantastic in a suit as well as jeans and appeal to women of all ages. Very well edumacated and doing quite well career wise. I do get hit on from women in their 20's all the way up to their 50's. I guess I'm very in tune with each individual and figuring out what makes them tick, but mostly I've always received comments about how open they feel with me for some reason.
Anyway, it has been suggested, in a joking comment, that I would be a great male escort. LOL. Um, yeah, was my first thought. Look, I love providers and what they do, how they treat us hobbyists. Would I be able to perform 4 times a day? NO. Would I even get 4 appointments a day? NO. But for fun, wouldn't it be fun to be hired by 1 or 2 ladies a week to make them feel the way our wonderful female providers make us feel? I've given some thought as far as set-up...minimum of 3 or 4 hours so I can focus on one lady a night...
Do you think there's even a market for a male courtesan? What would be suggested rates? Know of any good photographers, etc? If you're an agency, would you ever consider hiring one male escort? I looked on Ero's and saw three men listed in my area...I didn't even know they had men's listings! Do women even go looking? My thinking is that they don't since most women can go out and get laid if that's what their intentions are. Are there women out there, like us male hobbyists, that just want that focus and attention, but not the attachments and are willing to pay? I know there are, but my experience has taught me that most women just go out, meet a guy, and fuck them...
Guys, feel free to include any negative/positive input, flames, rants, etc...I know you'd be pissed if you found your wife using an escort.
Thanks
Do it. Hope you like working in retail and hospitality -- and sex.
How may I put this tactfully? I know; do you like sucking cock?
How can I answer without beating around the bush.....
FUCK NO!!!
I guess that will become an issue even if I posted as catering to women only...
And your market audience would be the same honey.
ShS,
I don't comprehend that at all. I'm open minded, but how can one call themselves straight and do gay porn? I would say that's being called Bi, and I'm not into men in any way, shape, or form. Is it because of the money? I'm not contemplating this for the money, mind you.
Let's see...wait a minute...I need a fresh pair of panties. So hot!!!
Let's see the goods. Ever watch Gigolos on Showtime?
Try it out and see how you feel about it. If it is not for you...you can easily walk away. Good luck.
Where are you located?
Baum chicka wow wow...
lol. That's a bit of another issue right now...I have a little bit of body ink that's quite distinguishable on me...not over the top at all. Smallish type tattoo's, but nonetheless, distinguishable. Gonna need a photographer that can do a great job in concealing them.
Never even heard of the show, "Gigolos". I will have to youtube it later tonight.
I am located in a major metropolitan area on the east coast and actually travel throughout the U.S. for business.
BTW, the post that says Gay porn stars are straight is absurd. This "am I fit to be a Gigolo thread: has been posted hundreds of times. Do a search.
Here's some news for you -- almost all "Gigolos" are as queer as a 4 dollar bill. You must be Gay.
I have two thoughts on this. First I'm guessing it would be a pretty slim market. Guys are a pretty easy market for the female providers because we're so visually motivated. Women tend to be motivated by emotions and relationships. So, if they don't already know you then there may not be the desire to begin with.
Second, are you prepared to spend time with women that may be ugly, fat or both. A women can fake her way through a date. However if you can't get it up for reasons stated above you could have an issue.
Having said all of that, what the fuck do i know. Give it a try and good luck.
I don't feel comfortable putting the info out here for everybody to see. Contact me by phone or email and I'll hook you up.
Freya Fantasia
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Cuz once that door opens the other way Dorothy, you won't be in Kansas anymore
Heyooooo
"What would be suggested rates? Know of any good photographers"
If you don't know what your time is worth or how to find a good photographer, you aren't smart enough to escort women.
Women are the opposite of men . Most women who use male escorts like to show off someone intelligent, with class, not some dumb hick with gas.
There are plenty of male escorts for women, you have to know where to look.
This is the wrong place to find prospective clients.
You need to advertize where desperate men won't fuck anything that shows up.
By the way I only have a four pack, but I'm not stupid.
http://www.cowboys4angels.com/about.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-495487/Confessions-thirty-career-girl-pays-male-escort.html
I don't recall his name, but last year there was a morning show who interviewed the guy. He dates only women, owns an agency with several men working for him who date only women and has a website that states that. He's as successful in that business as many of the high-dollar providers on here.
So, yeah, you can actually be a male escort and date women, not men. The women who are interested in that are something akin to sugar mamas; they have the money and the interest to be seen with a younger man and on a strictly limited basis (read: a few hours).
If you want to do it, do what we always tell a new provider: DO YOUR RESEARCH! Look for sites that touch on it, study the sites you like and disregard the rest. Then do the rest of the business building, including your own site. Be prepared to get jerks, idiots, time-wasters and those who refuse to take 'no' for an answer - and these will just be from the gay men who'll want you.
Good luck!
Jolene
It's very hard to find a genuinely hot male escort in Arizona that only caters to women.
There is a section on Backpage for male escorts and it is incredibly amusing. You can picture "Jose" taking a picture of himself on the his coach saying, "I am available for all you ladies out there who need to be 'serviced.'" WTF??? LOL it's a riot
I did contact one guy who is straight with a very hot body and he suggested that we exchange services. But he just sounded too aggressive and that's not what I was looking for. And his face was not handsome. I'm more of a face/personality girl than body/package girl.
Local male escorts that cater to women seem to charge more like $150 per hour and usually offer massage. The ones that "tour" and charge a lot more seem to be bi or they are just marketing to very wealthy women.
I do have clients on occasion that are very handsome, but it isn't professional to contact them to see them so it's not the same as just meeting someone very attractive "on the street." And handsome men I've dated in the past seem to want to maintain a lot of distance to keep things casual. It would be really nice to be able to call one up when I was in the mood and not be ignored!
I joked with one male escort that I just wanted to slow dance, be held and have him gaze in my eyes and tell me that I was his treasure. I definitely don't need more "just sex." But I thought it would be cool to meet someone of the opposite sex who was in the same position as I was as far as being a paid companion which makes it difficult to have any romantic relationships. I'm lucky to have guy friends who think what I do is hot. But it would be very difficult to have a true committed, exclusive relationship.
Sure, there is a market out there for a handsome, straight male escort catering to women. But it's a small one.
Angelique
PS You sounds cute. You want to meet for a drink! I'll buy.. hahahahaha
This website:
Concierge du Monde might interest you for more insight.