I can pop twice in 2 hours but the first one needs to be early in the first hour.

After verification, many girls will be ok with you discussing this before hand. On the two hour deals, many times I request the girl to greet me in the buff and start the session as soon as I walk in.

This might be the road to go for you. It's pretty fkin hot with the right girl.

...for me to get comfortable and explain a physical limitation that needs to be worked around...even when I repeat I like to spend a couple minutes with them before the clothes come off...

IMO.....

Even as a provider I contemplate this but I say feel it out.  I usually spend between 5-10 mins talking and then down to biz. If I sense the client  is not feeling that I will get down to biz sooner. Now a regular client whom you have more to talk to with and enjoy each others company there's usually more talking...

I've honestly found the easiest way to avoid new-person jitters or awkwardness is to immediately pull him in for a deep, deep kiss!   Sucking face has a wonderful way of breaking the down the social barriers!  :-P

Then, chat a little (while we strip, of course) but save any meaningful conversation for AFTER, when you're feeling pretty relaxed and comfortable together.

 
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If iI think it's likely I'll want to see her more than once (as is typical with local providers), I like some small talk to get to know each other better after the welcome hugs/kisses. The time varies from a couple of minutes to 10-15 mins in a few cases. I've found that the providers I've seen tend to like a little convo first on a first date. Often we do the chit chat during a massage, which is also a great warm-up I think. If we've already talked before we get together for that first date, then we can skip the preliminaries.  

Then there's the ladies who like to jump right into it and use their mouths for something other than chit chat at the start, and that's fine too!

I'm usually not nervous but just in case the provider is, then a good 15 minutes of chatting is very important to me (45 minutes of action is more than enough).  From my experience the more comfortable the provider is, the better the experience (not rocket science I know).

Even though the provider is the professional that is "supposed" to make me feel comfortable, I also feel like I have that responsibility as well.  Charm, conversation and chemistry is a two way street.  Humor is the best option.  It's the most effective way to make someone relax and put their guard down a little.

The sooner a provider realizes I'm not a creep or a weirdo, I can see on their face that's it's sort of a relief lol.  And the experience is so much better.

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When meeting a gent for the first time for an hour appt I do like a little small talk to get to know one another.Even if it is just to talk about what he is in town for and what is his likes and/or dislikes.
I don't want to spend too much time talking on an hour appt so I would say maybe 10-15min if even that sometimes while having a drink.
More talking afterwards if there is time left.

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The last provider I was with, it was a 90 minute session and we talked for the first 30 minutes then I had 2 pops back to back during the rest of the session. That was fun but I prefer a little bit of small talk in the beginning, then pop 1, then some more small talk and then pop 2 (or at least an attempt at pop 2).

I'm with you on this. ..

I prefer the talking in bed AFTER the activities nothing wrong with getting to know someone but just how much do we need to talk before we play? After all,  we are here for the action right?

Making Small Talk.

I talk to my ATF when I'm driving her home. We don't talk much when we're playing.

I usually do 90 minutes first time for that reason.

If it is only a couple of hours, then a few minutes is OK. The time after the pop is better for chatting.  

But if it is an overnigt then I don't mind spending a long time chatting.  

The provider in question is another factor. Some are so interesting that it is almost as much fun as the sex.

I use to sit on the couch for this, but after a couple "talkers", I go right into the bed room now. After a few minutes, I just start undressing so there is no mistake about it. Some girls will try to talk for an hour if you let them. My name is Drew. I like long walks on the beach and getting blowjobs.