You sound like a very altruistic, friendly spirit man. I appreciate an amicable man like you. If there would be an ideal friend for me... I think it'd be you!
A) What are some things you'd appreciate If your date did for you?
B) What's the most disappointing thing a date can do to you?
My answers:
A) I appreciate a thoughtful gentleman. One whose kind, amicable and romantic. I would love for a date to bring me flowers, wine and whatever else he has in mind.... and then conclude our date with sweet kisses and a deep tissue massage; both ways.
B) I take each date personally considering I'm extremely low volume. So, I actually get really excited and prepare specifically just for my date. I buy his favorite drink, bring snacks, rent an upscale safe incall, pay for transportation, go to my hair dresser, and really emanate all of my energy and attention to the gentleman I'll be spending my time with. So, cancelling last minute or just leaving me hanging is the most disappointing and devastating thing a person can do to me.
I'd like to hear your responses.
XO Catalina
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Wine, candles, chocolates are all fine, but flowers can be a PITA, and most of the women I know in this business really don't like getting them from clients.
My answer to your question is simple, A) Act like you are really happy to be with me. B) Act like you wish you were anywhere else but with me that day.
this really depends on if you are doing an in call in a house or apartment. If it's in a hotel, I wouldn't bother. If you do take flowers, take a vase.
The most common complaint about flowers is that there wasn't a vase to put them in or a way to transport them in a car without spilling water every where.
I've taken flowers to a couple of ladies who I had seen a few times already.
I wouldn't take them to a new appointment.
As to other gifts, I mostly stick to the donation being correct and my body freshly washed and trimmed.
I agree with all that but would add something. It may be that the most common flower complaint is no vases and spillage, but I think for a lot of women the most important issue is discretion. Most women that use a home or apartment don't always feel good about a bunch of guys walking up to the door with bouquets.
Got my flowers from. I go pick up some essentials at Mariano's or a grocery store on the way and just say I picked some flowers up too. I have plants all over my place so it'l isn't unconventional to have flowers coming in. I think the proper thing would be to kindly ask if she'd be okay with you bringing her flowers... or just sticking to her gift list. People have gotten to know a little about me know I love pretty little flowers (:
I LOVE when a man brings me flowers. I am particularly fond of roses lol! Get it? (wink wink) lololol!!!! 
Tee hee!
I love flowers!!! Usually my i calls are at a residence through airbnb or an upscale establishment.
Flowers I never expect but I would see them coming from a regular, or someone I've got got an extended date with or someone that flew me to them (:
Flowers could tip off Housekeeping & Management that a 'Date' is going on, and then you also have to carry them out somehow. They are a very nice thought, but risky when visiting your favorite lady at a hotel.
The best & safest gifts to bring to a Hotel should fit in a briefcase, or better yet an envelope.
At a private residence, anything goes. Porsche makes some very nice gifts
Fresh, clean & on time works too!
When I travel I'll set my dates for outcall to my hotel. I ALWAYS have flowers for her, Red Roses in a vase to be exact. Of course I'll tell her that they're hers to keep. They'll gush and get really excited. If their situation allows them to take them home great! If not, they appreciate the gesture and it adds to the ambiance. If she can't take them home, I'll recycle them for my date the following night. I'll give her the same line.......I know, I'm going to hell.
If my second date can't take them home then when I check out, I'll leave them for the maid with a "Thank You" note. But by that time she'd seen the flowers for the past two days and she's thinking...what a fucking puto...lol
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She might just think you're a baller feeling like opera winefry like "you get flowers, (points the other direction) , YOU gets flowers, (throws hands in the air), shit everybody gets flowers! Lol
I love how thoughtful and gentleman like your gesture is. I love how you've got a back up for every possible outcome. I like you alreadyyyyy! xoxox
but I like flowerssssssssssss 
A) APPRECIATED: Offer me a choice of alcoholic beverages. The moment I meet her, I know instantly whether I want wine or whisky – and what type of whisky. The fumes on my breath can later be explained to the S.O. as a stop-off with the guys.
B) DISAPPOINTING: Use of perfume and scented candles. Those odors, besides being irritating, can not be explained at home.
Also, nothing can destroy mish like the fumes from salon-style stuff in the woman's hair.
I love to use oils and candles for my Nuru massage sessions and always make sure they have zero scent! I want my date to leave my presence stress free and remain that way the rest of the evening.
... do something for the provider that SHE has in mind, not what I have in mind. After all, this is for her.
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What I do depends on the lady and situation. I never bring flowers unless I know for sure she likes them. On my last date, I saw on her web site that she likes chrysanthemums, so I brought a bouquet and she loved them. Other providers don't like getting flowers, but they might like wine or spirits, or chocolate or lingerie etc. And a coffee, tea or latte always seems to be appreciated for morning sessions.
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One thing I am always glad to do, and usually do, is massage. I've never had a provider turn down a massage, although the type of massage varies widely.
I would like to feel like I'm the most important person in the provider's life for the time we're together. I would like her to do things that I like, especially if I give her instructions (on a BJ, for example).
There's any number of things I don't like that have already happened: very late, cancel at last minute, do emails or texts while I'm there, not dress up for me, not make an effort to make me feel good. Basically, it boils down to being inconsiderate.
I've never brought a provider flowers. I almost always bring wine. One provider mentioned during a session that she'd love to have a Pina Colada. The next time we met, I brought all of the fixings, and made her a Pina Colada from scratch in the hotel room, including fresh pineapple slices and little umbrellas. She drank all of it, so I think she liked it.
I bring clothing, but that's for me. If there's something I'd like to see her in, I buy it.
You sound like a very altruistic, friendly spirit man. I appreciate an amicable man like you. If there would be an ideal friend for me... I think it'd be you!
A. Flowers are a lose-lose for both provider and customer. I would never bring them to a lady I was seeing.
B. The most disappointing thing a provider could do is to strip down and reveal she has a dick.
...with a close second being the vibe that she'd rather be anywhere else than with you.
Now, one of the things I appreciate is a clean, neat incall and the total focus on us for the time we're together. I know there are other fellas, but please don't leave the evidence lying around. It's a total buzz kill.
And we applaud your taste in lingerie.
Which is why I LOVE being low volume. I genuinely enjoy the time and energy I share with my dates. I'm very attentive and happy to be with their presence and it shows. I only see 1-2 clients a month so there will never be any buzz kills in our ambiance. I also agree with having a clean incall... That is why I rent upscale hotels, or very nice airbnb condos/homes and then give it a nice clean and touch myself.. Presentation is everything!!! Physically, socially, visually, environmentally etc.
It would be even worse if her dick was bigger than mine..
Stay around to find out. You're more open-minded than me.
If you're going to be a dictator you should say so in your OP.
FYI, A was opinion. Hookers that want flowers from their Johns are just needy. Good reason not to repeat with them because there's likely to be drama down the road. B was an answer to your question. You asked what is the most disappointing thing a hooker could do in a session. I told you.
She gave you an order and she expects you to follow it. lol
Guys who bring flowers are needy, hookers who ask for them are equally as needy.
I also find it hard to believe the OP who is always one of the "pick me" hookers who responds constantly to ISO posts, really only has two appointments a month, unless it's not a conscious choice and just the market speaking to her. lol
If she really is only getting two appointments a month, she really needs to rethink her marketing as she is the most active poster on her regional board and most of her posts or either responses to ISO posts or ThreADs. I know us johns aren't always the smartest guys in the world, but we aren't THAT fucking stupid. lol
I think the best thing my date can do for me is give me a great review! I also appreciate really good hygiene and good strong hands...mmmm
And I agree...I spend HOURS preparing myself for my appointments. The worst thing are no shows and last minute cancellations!
One girl had said she liked a specific type of white wine. She loved that I brought it chilled and said no one had ever done that before. I stopped doing it years ago. The best gift you can give a girl is a repeat visit.
Twice, however, because it was a special occasion, I told girls it was their session and they should ask me to do whatever they wanted. Interestingly, they both wanted to role play. Both sessions were memorable.
I once had a gentleman gift me two books on positivity. He read through my site and learned how much I like to engage in ways to self improve. So, I thought it was really nice he took the time to learn a little about me and made time to pick it up. I was soooo grateful for it.
I believe when a gentleman goes a little out of their way to do something nice for their date, the woman enjoys her time a little more.
I know I love when a gentleman makes me feel special xo
You sound like a lovely man btw.
I pretty much agreed with all who you said; except with the flowers. I LOVE flowers but I don't like when gentleman bring flowers because they are very indiscreet to carry thru a public entrance in a hotel. Many things that they ca bring alone with that they can fit in their pockets, computer bag, etc.
From my twitter clients can tell things I like, yoga, music, chocolate, work-out, meditation. I do have an amazon wish list and they can sent something thru there or they can buy it and bring it to me.. but they pretty much they can get an idea of things I like.
I pretty much agreed with all who you said; except with the flowers. I LOVE flowers but I don't like when gentleman bring flowers because they are very indiscreet to carry thru a public entrance in a hotel. Many things that they ca bring alone with that they can fit in their pockets, computer bag, etc.
From my twitter clients can tell things I like, yoga, music, chocolate, work-out, meditation. I do have an amazon wish list and they can sent something thru there or they can buy it and bring it to me.. but they pretty much they can get an idea of things I like.
Candy is something that should be given to wives and girlfriends. I consider it too personal for hookers. If a guy wants to bring booze it should be in a small briefcase since many men carry those. A smart monger attracts no attention.
What's up with the wishlists? We don't know you personally and probably never will. It's not a dating service.
What is wrong with a guy simply showing up on time, clean and well groomed with a stack of money?
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that's you... I have met many gentleman that brought me something special, even little things that matter.
I pretty much agreed with all who you said; except with the flowers. I LOVE flowers but I don't like when gentleman bring flowers because they are very indiscreet to carry thru a public entrance in a hotel. Many things that they ca bring alone with that they can fit in their pockets, computer bag, etc.
From my twitter clients can tell things I like, yoga, music, chocolate, work-out, meditation. I do have an amazon wish list and they can sent something thru there or they can buy it and bring it to me.. but they pretty much they can get an idea of things I like.
Candy is something that should be given to wives and girlfriends. I consider it too personal for hookers. If a guy wants to bring booze it should be in a small briefcase since many men carry those. A smart monger attracts no attention.
What's up with the wishlists? We don't know you personally and probably never will. It's not a dating service.
What is wrong with a guy simply showing up on time, clean and well groomed with a stack of money?
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Although Ms. Green you like to be treated well and thought of as a special person by those whom you have intimate encounter with, the nature and scope of your request could be interpreted as something else by those who frequent you in this business. This could turn out to be dangerous as they could continue to stalk you. Although you want to be cherished, this behavior could make someone obsessed by you because you are not reciprocating in a nature that would go beyond the scope of the relationship. Men and women have extremely genuine feelings and could feel hurt if you do not do what a women in a civilian relationship would do. This is why the suggestion you are putting out there should not be uniformed for all those who participate with you but those who frequent you regularly and cherish your company ,as well as, your exquisite libidinal skills.
Who DOESN'T like to be treated well and thought of as a special person? It goes without saying that every provider--and client--deserves to be treated well. As for being thought of as a special person, that's exactly what good providers do--make their clients feel special while they're together. And I enjoy making the ladies with whom I'm intimate feel special when I come to see them. Yes it's p4p, but why not do some little things that tell a provider, or a client, "I enjoy your company, and I appreciate you."
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I don't think that kind of behavior will cause stalking, unless the guy is already set on stalking someone.
Although Ms. Green you like to be treated well and thought of as a special person by those whom you have intimate encounter with, the nature and scope of your request could be interpreted as something else by those who frequent you in this business. This could turn out to be dangerous as they could continue to stalk you. Although you want to be cherished, this behavior could make someone obsessed by you because you are not reciprocating in a nature that would go beyond the scope of the relationship. Men and women have extremely genuine feelings and could feel hurt if you do not do what a women in a civilian relationship would do. This is why the suggestion you are putting out there should not be uniformed for all those who participate with you but those who frequent you regularly and cherish your company ,as well as, your exquisite libidinal skills.
Usually that would be true. However for those whom don't usually get a lot of attention from the opposite sex they could misinterpret the nature and scope of the relationship because in some cases they aren't successful with women in the mainstream of society. Not all but there is always a few.
Usually that would be true. However for those whom don't usually get a lot of attention from the opposite sex they could misinterpret the nature and scope of the relationship because in some cases they aren't successful with women in the mainstream of society. Not all but there is always a few.
Personally I consider wishlists tackey.
A) Not be so nervous (yes SHE is the nervous one) when meeting me for the first time. I don;t bite unless you want me too.
B) NCNS. Unforgivable.
only guy in her life (for the hour or two we are together), has a clean comfortable incall situation, offers some form of refreshments (especially for encounters beyond an hour) and makes our time a memorable one, I am truly grateful.
What can she do wrong: Be late (more than 10-15 minutes (certain exceptions apply), smell like a perfume factory, violate the items listed above, be unresponsive to my needs, act immature (dress and actions), and the biggest issue would be a NCNS.
I once met a lady who did what you do for your gentlemen. All the other atfs I saw were wonderful, but I could tell, this lady went well beyond them for me. Because of that, one day, I decided, without telling her, that I was going to have a monogamous TER relationship with her. For about two years I only saw her. If I was hornier than hell, I would wait. If she was unavailable on a perfect day for me, I would wait. She was that good. One time I had to cancel on her last minute. Even so, I walked in her door, gave her a kiss, laid the full donation on the nightstand, and said a quick goodbye. She had done so much for me I thought nothing of it. But alas, one day she retired.
As for gifts I would always bring food and drink. Also, Christmas and birthday gifts, as well as music, and tips.
It was so funny. When I tried to make contact with my old atfs after so long, half told me to f#ck off, and never contact them again. I had spent thousands on three of them, and would spend thousands more. Yet their feelings were hurt. Some ladies do develop feelings for their clients, and get mad when they don't make contact.
I treat the gentlemen in my life extremely superior with the utmost respect and admiration. I tend to be very sweet hearted and romantic. My intentions are to grow a genuine connection and truly embrace my partner when we're together. If you read through my site, I'm confident you'd really like the type of woman I am.
A) What are some things you'd appreciate If your date did for you?
B) What's the most disappointing thing a date can do to you?
My answers:
A) I appreciate a thoughtful gentleman. One whose kind, amicable and romantic. I would love for a date to bring me flowers, wine and whatever else he has in mind.... and then conclude our date with sweet kisses and a deep tissue massage; both ways.
B) I take each date personally considering I'm extremely low volume. So, I actually get really excited and prepare specifically just for my date. I buy his favorite drink, bring snacks, rent an upscale safe incall, pay for transportation, go to my hair dresser, and really emanate all of my energy and attention to the gentleman I'll be spending my time with. So, cancelling last minute or just leaving me hanging is the most disappointing and devastating thing a person can do to me.
I'd like to hear your responses.
XO Catalina
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I love being appreciated. It is my fetish to love being spoiled and pampered...gifts of any kind are always received with the intent of the giver. We need to filter our own desires and open our hearts and minds to accepting positive energies coming to us. I believe we have winks from the universe all the time and we simply miss them being busy externally and internally.
Love good hygiene and professional savvy behavior and attitudes.
Flowers can be awkward in a hotel but I love them!!! I do NOT throw them away. How could I be so callous?
As for those things that feel like nails on a chalk board...late cancels and no shows...being threatened...pulling teeth politely of course to encourage info for safety prior to meeting...foreplay by email or text prior to meeting. Poor hygiene, poor attitude.
A) What are some things you'd appreciate If your date did for you?
The things I shouldn't have to mention: Be punctual, clean man-scaped.
Personal favorites: bring a gift (candles, whiskey, wine, gift card), be intentional with their touch and great at DATY.
B) What's the most disappointing thing a date can do to you?
Be overly aggressive, late or no show.
some things that i definitely appreciate are :
1. being on time and actually showing up ! I deal with way too many bullshitters on a regular so when some is actually very serious , its extremely refreshing !
2. when he comes to visit but it turns into a dinner date . that obviously means he enjoys my company , meaning i'm doing my job a-okay 
some things that are disappointing :
1. when he shows up and completely disregards all of my rules , constantly insisting on doing things that i do not do !
2. not showing up !!!!!!!!!!!!!! nothing annoys me moreeeeeeeee . especially when i took my time out to be more than ready for the session
A) What are some things you'd appreciate If your date did for you?
B) What's the most disappointing thing a date can do to you?
My answers:
A) I appreciate a thoughtful gentleman. One whose kind, amicable and romantic. I would love for a date to bring me flowers, wine and whatever else he has in mind.... and then conclude our date with sweet kisses and a deep tissue massage; both ways.
B) I take each date personally considering I'm extremely low volume. So, I actually get really excited and prepare specifically just for my date. I buy his favorite drink, bring snacks, rent an upscale safe incall, pay for transportation, go to my hair dresser, and really emanate all of my energy and attention to the gentleman I'll be spending my time with. So, cancelling last minute or just leaving me hanging is the most disappointing and devastating thing a person can do to me.
I'd like to hear your responses.
XO Catalina
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Most disappointing - NOT look like her photo
And I mean that she's several pounds heavier and she used photos from when she was thin and hitting the gym. Hair changes and new tattoos don't matter to me.
The thing I appreciate the most is she is on time and looks like she's going on a date (ok that's 2 things) but showing up an hour late and looking like she just rolled out of bed is a mood killer.
I'm always laid back and easy going, ready to give my guy a wonderful experience. Anything else extra he brings (gifts, flowers, etc) is just icing on the cake.
Come to play and be a gentleman #goldenrule