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Makeup request?
Barry2112 59 Reviews 5624 reads
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Ladies - how do you feel w/ outfit requests?

Prob 1/4 of the time the lady will ask me if I have any outfit requests.
So, I always give them one.

Now, I like to request stilettos, heels, stockings and or a tight dress.  usually stuff they advertise themselves in.  

Is this a hassle or big deal to the ladies?  Let me know your thoughts.

Oh, and 7/10 dates I typically send a $100 Amazon Gift Card if we had a great date later that day or the next day.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 137 reads
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Especially if it is something I have worn in my photos/videos I have no issue with wearing the requested outfit behind closed doors. I always bring a bag of lingerie to choose from many guys just ask me to surprise them.
 Every now and then I will get a request for me to wear something that will not work due to the weather.
I will offer to bring and wear behind closed doors but if it is in the 30 and 40 degrees I am not showing up to his door in a LBD. lol

I know some ladies do not entertain wardrobe requests and that is certainly their right to do so.
Myself I have no issue with it...if it is something I do not have and if it is inexpensive I will buy it. Most of the time a gent will leave a tip but if it cost me a very low amount like stockings I figure it as the cost of business. But if the request is expensive and I do not have it he will have to pay for it.

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JackDunphy 69 reads
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I just figured you were ALWAYS "sweet."

 
Not true?

JackDunphy 147 reads
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I cant seem to find anything! lol

 
You are hot, sweet, loaded with decency and common sense, have a respect and appreciation for your clients, and willing to do what it takes to please your guys.

 
When cloning becomes a thing, ship one of yourselves to NYC and I will pick up the freight. lol

 
#SoDamnImpressedEveryTimeYouPost

vantheman666 11 Reviews 174 reads
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...that I have to.pay for the Wonder Woman costume?

Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 129 reads
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I always ask if Any Requests?
And it's during the day
I dress more Discreet..and bring a bag with outfit heels..goodies
At Night ..Dress to Show off

JackDunphy 73 reads
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I promise you, I would never ask anyone to dress like "mom." That's a boner crusher. lol

 
Maybe its just my anecdotal evidence, but the younger set today doesn't ask if I want certain attire like they did back in the day. I think girls are less customer service oriented these days so that is why Jaydalee is such a breath of fresh air.

 
I don't get hung up with dress requests, but there are times when a certain outfit or look from their site is hot but I never insist or demand or anything like that.  

 
Whatever the girls chooses to wear is fine as hopefully the clothes wont be on too long anyway but I always loved "naked" from jump street so I may be the wrong person to ask. lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 121 reads
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asked for a particular outfit on a provider, even if she has a list of fantasy costumes on her website, as some do.  Once in awhile, if I'm in the mood for kind of a naughty, slutty look, I will bring her a pair a thigh highs to put on, but not when its 100 degrees outside, Melissa.  

HaydenHightower See my TER Reviews 133 reads
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I'm more than happy to accommodate outfit requests, and I actually ask if my date has any preferences if he has not already mentioned something specific. With that said, I will not draw unnecessary attention to  myself by wearing ridiculous stilettos, or a super revealing dress to visit you. I dress for my environment, and sometimes, wearing jeans, or even fitness attire, is the most appropriate clothing for me to blend in seamlessly. I will leave wearing the sexy outfits until we are behind closed doors..

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 135 reads
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But I always inform the ladies before we meet at the bar of my hotel that I'll be in a suit and tie ( coming from dinner). Most get the hint and come well dressed for the before drink. What I HATE, is that the young lady will be a nice dress, looking great and she's wearing the shoes of choice for a Vegas CG, FUCKING SANDALS!!! WTF!!! I wanna just................ roll my eyes,,,,ay  dios mio,

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TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 145 reads
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Posted By: Barry2112

Ladies - how do you feel w/ outfit requests?  
   
 Prob 1/4 of the time the lady will ask me if I have any outfit requests.  
 So, I always give them one.  
   
 Now, I like to request stilettos, heels, stockings and or a tight dress.  usually stuff they advertise themselves in.    
   
 Is this a hassle or big deal to the ladies?  Let me know your thoughts.  
   
 Oh, and 7/10 dates I typically send a $100 Amazon Gift Card if we had a great date later that day or the next day.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 131 reads
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I'm just me and I have been around for quite some time as you know:)
I will actually be in NYC next month or April. xo

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 150 reads
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I will absolutely wear it. I will no longer purchase things if I'm on tour.  Reason being, I post my tours long before I arrive.  If you wait until I'm there, that's not going to fly.

calliecruz-GFE See my TER Reviews 152 reads
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I honestly love a request and usually ask first even. And the gift card - very sweet!  

Just don't open the door before I knock because I may be mid-shoe change, haha (I avoid attention in the lobby at all costs!).

AdrianRose See my TER Reviews 129 reads
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I do not mind outfit requests as long as the weather is permitting...Like do not ask me to wear a mesh dress and open toe heels when it is 20 something degrees out but other than if I still have the outfit I do not mind showing it off!

mrfisher 115 Reviews 179 reads
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In large modern hotels, in any case.

The lobby is bustling and no one of concern will likely notice you changing shoes while sitting in the lobby, while the corridors all have cameras that are programmed to fix on and alert security if anyone lingers in the corridors for more than a minute.

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 150 reads
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...it did happen to me once in Vegas.  Unbelievably hot 20-something provider, dressed to kill.  We met in the bar of the small casino where I was staying.  I saw her walking through the crowd -- DDG and dressed in an elegant but very sexy print dress, knee-length and loose up top -- perfect for a low-key but hot date.  As she climbed the steps and I stood up to greet her, I noticed -- not just sandals, but shower flip flops.  Honestly, until your post just now, I assumed it was just a quirk of hers...

Pokai1 11 Reviews 148 reads
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Is good enough for me.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 121 reads
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A presidential suite, but have never heard of one with a "birthday suite."

Pokai1 11 Reviews 121 reads
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MsChanelleBby See my TER Reviews 131 reads
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I enjoy outfit requests. I always make sure to ask whoever I’m spending time with if they have anything in mind.

brookebordeaux See my TER Reviews 113 reads
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I love when guys tell me what they prefer!! If I don’t have it, I just let them know and if they want they can pick me up something and I’ll wear it for them ❤️

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 137 reads
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I have many requests that supply funds to purchase what they desire, or order it for me. No big deal.  My goal is to provide your dream date.

JosileeAdams See my TER Reviews 132 reads
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On one hand, I (along with the other providers I know) always aim to please. So if a client has their heart set on a specific look and it’s important to them, I want to know about it. Loose preferences are also fine— saying you like sundresses, or have a thing for thigh highs, for example.

The trouble actually comes with specific items from my shoots! I had one beautiful peacock blue set that I did my first shoot in and I’ve received many requests for that specifically. Unfortunately, I have moved twice since that shoot, and along the way, the bag with that set (and a few others!!) vanished. I’ve yet to locate the brand to buy another. So in those cases, I have to explain this & promise that I will wear something equally pleasing.  

I’d say think about what it is you truly want. Is it the specific lingerie set you’ve seen a provider in, or the CUT she looks amazing in? Or maybe she just looks killer in red? Giving us more wiggle room often produces better results. For me, I’m always a bit sad that so many requests were for things I wore in shoots, because I have so many AMAZING sets that haven’t been photographed that I love wearing as well! But those only come out for the clients who give me that chance to wow them with what I know will do the trick. ;)

WICardinalfan 70 reads
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Would you dress like Elmo?    

Just kidding.  Strange, first thing that came to my mind once you mentioned Mom.  

WICardinalfan 59 reads
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I really never thought about the weather as an impact on wardrobe requests.   What other “watch outs” should us makes be aware of when we request.  

I love to see a hot lady in a corset, but I can imagine how uncomfortable that could be to wear.   Particularly on a hot day.  

rubykisses1 137 reads
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Especially When is raining outside? I love to get dressed up. From my friends

Barry2112 59 Reviews 123 reads
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Hi Josilee,

I agree 100% You sounld like a doll!

B

herbtcat 6 Reviews 106 reads
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I'll bet you look damn sexy in those Thigh Highs, CDL! :p

I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 108 reads
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I usually don't do outfit requests.  I mean, really, why?  The outfit is going to come off in the first 10 minutes, anyway.  Well, In the past, I sometimes requested a provider to wear an outfit she had in one of her pictures, that I found particularly sexy.  She usually obliged, although I always put the wording "if you still have it" in the request.  Today, I no longer care about outfits, since I only hobby with ladies I met at an M&G at least once.  After all, when it comes  to hobbying, clothes don't make the woman. :D

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 151 reads
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Posted By: Barry2112

   
 Now, I like to request stilettos, heels, stockings and or a tight dress.  usually stuff they advertise themselves in.    
   
 Is this a hassle or big deal to the ladies?  Let me know your thoughts.  
   
If she asks you if you have any outfit requests, then she shouldn't consider it a hassle to be asked to wear something that's in her photos.   Garter belts can be a PITA so if you're wanting those worn with stockings as opposed to simple thigh-highs then perhaps she might be internally groaning about that lol.

I won't grant outfit requests.   Part of it is for practical reasons: I am a full-time touring lady so even bringing only the items I've worn in photos would require at least one large full-sized suitcase in addition to all the usual stuff I bring.    

Because when someone makes an outfit request, it's almost always after I have left home for that week's trip and usually on the day of our date.    

Plus, most outfit requests I receive are for things I've never worn in photos and would feel uncomfortable wearing.  
No offense to anyone, but at 40+, I personally feel ridiculous in a schoolgirl outfit.  Sexy secretary?   No, I do not want to spend the time required to iron that ensemble before a date.  
Daisy Dukes and a wifebeater T?   Ugh, that looks awful on me.  
So no.   Just no.  

 

This is because I've learned that I need to feel confident about my appearance when I go into a date.   For that to happen, I have to choose my own wardrobe.    I explain all this on my site as well as what my callers can expect me to be wearing.  ;-)

 
Back when I used to grant outfit requests, it seemed some people were very particular and adamant about the items they wanted me to wear.  At that point, it felt more like a costume which was specific to a role than simply wanting to see me in a general type of clothing.    
And in my head, I'd hear a voiceover saying, "today, the role of Slutty Babysitter will be played by Debra Hollander"   lmao.  

 
The only request I grant is for thigh-highs because they're easy to pack (lightweight, take up little space) and I actually enjoy wearing them.  :-)

GaGambler 141 reads
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I have to agree about you "mature" ladies (yes, over 25 IMO. lol) wearing certain kinds of outfits like "Catholic School Girl" and that extends to women of a "certain size" wearing super tight outfits that must take an hour to squeeze into. And in all fairness that also applies to old and fatass men, There are simply some things you should NOT wear. I am hardly a fatass, but I am 61 and I wouldn't be caught dead in spandex on the street, or wearing one of those "marble pouches" on the beach like you see old fat Europeans wearing.

 
I agree, no, just no.  

 
BTW I have never made an "outfit request" my reasoning is the same as most guys here, I don't expect her to be wearing anything at all within a couple of minutes of my arrival.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 105 reads
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an outfit request once, and it was to a girl I was dating a few years ago.  She said she only used it for the photo shoot, and gave to another girl afterward.  Never asked anyone again.  Lol

WICardinalfan 123 reads
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Marble Pouches.....thanks for the visual.  Brrrrrr

Valida 17 Reviews 119 reads
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"Nothing but sky-high heels and a big smile" is my request, when I make one.  

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 132 reads
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what they put on....more interested in how it comes off!
Joking....im too easy a client. She can wear what makes her comfortable or fits her mood for the day.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 120 reads
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I know why they call them fuck-me-heels, but why do they have such power?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 106 reads
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WICardinalfan 104 reads
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I love BOOBS, and anything the accents them.  Lately wearing a pendent, necklace, chain, whatever down to the cleavage area is so sexy.  It's kind of like tan lines in the 80's, pointing to a forbidden fruit in a way that only a bare chest can provide.  

Some ladies do not wear them which is not an issue at all with me.  Or it comes off during Cowboy for the obvious reason.  Don't want to shoot and eye out or anything.

Valida 17 Reviews 105 reads
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Their power seems to be primarily visual, enhancing proportions and pose and hip-swiveling.  
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For me, an extra bit of their power is height -- I'm very tall and it's a turn-on that a woman is lifting up her body for my convenience so I don't have to reach down so far.  Yeah, that's mostly symbolic, but most of attraction seems to be.

gnubie 2 Reviews 124 reads
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Several times, it's been requested of me to wait a couple of minutes, because she just changed her mind on what to wear.

alexissweet69 See my TER Reviews 106 reads
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I want You to be Happy!

goCubz20 8 Reviews 126 reads
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Does makeup count as a "outfit request"? :)     Often I will see a provider's pictures in ads or their website who clearly look great in their makeup: red lips, eyeliner, long lashes.... so I ask them nicely, in advance, if they have time to wear some makeup for our date. I try not to get too specific, leave it up to the ladies, but what I am requesting is just *not* the casual look.  I have seen some ladies who arrive at our date natural, with zero makeup as if they just came from the gym, and honestly it is not the look that works for me. LOL

When I text/email my makeup request, usually the ladies will reply with  "no problem!"  or "red lips, easy!"  or something positive, which I really like.  But a few times, I get a total opposite reaction, such as: "It cost me $200 to get my makeup done for those photoshoots. I don't have time for that. If you want you can pay for me to get my makeup done before our appointment."    At that point, I just forget it.

So Ladies, do these type of makeup requests work for you or is it asking too much more? More than an outfit request would??  :)

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 98 reads
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Google porn stars without makeup and be prepared to be shocked.  You can see in some cases why it might cost $200 for a team of makeup experts to get the desired result.

WICardinalfan 107 reads
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Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 121 reads
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I don't know exactly how you're wording your requests but perhaps some ladies are mistakenly getting the impression that you are expecting the full-on glam look in their pics?  

That's what it sounds like anyway.    Now, some ladies just don't do makeup EXCEPT for their photo shoots but I honestly don't think it's unreasonable to expect light makeup for your date.

 
You could try saying something like, "I don't expect professional, glamour-girl, cosmetics but seeing lipstick and some eye makeup turns me on!"    

 
Personally, I can't recall the last time someone asked me TO wear makeup.   It's far more common for me to receive requests for no makeup at all.   LOL.  

-- Modified on 9/18/2020 10:33:55 AM

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 109 reads
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Makeup tends to be scented.  Bad news for married guys.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 121 reads
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That is a good point.
I tend to forget the scent issue because I'm allergic to everything lol and thus only use products which are fragrance-free, hypoallergenic and  made from the tears of virgin unicorns.   ;-)

 
But to your point:  those requests for no makeup are usually from those who simply prefer the "natural look".   At least, that's what they tell me in their request.   If someone says he's allergic to ALL cosmetics (rare, but does happen) then and only then will I forgo it.  :-)

 
I do have wipes on the bathroom counter for guests to use to remove..... well, anything.  Including smeared cosmetics.  LOL.

-- Modified on 9/18/2020 12:36:17 PM

BridgetteKelly See my TER Reviews 111 reads
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if you request a shorter appointment.... dont request a full blown lingerie show. that requires extra time. Just be realistic before a bargain shopper lol

I always come dolled up..be it in or outcall. But im also a girlie girl and love to dress to impress :)

goCubz20 8 Reviews 104 reads
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OMG, I should not have googled this!!! You just ruined the images I had of my top porn stars.  hahahah.

Well, that just confirms why I do like some makeup on my ladies!!!  

WICardinalfan 98 reads
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I warned you.  

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 105 reads
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I agree....it would be much preferable to see a lady looking the best she possibly can, but otoh...i also understand how hard it could be to keep makeup fresh if seeing multiple clients ( i.e. agency )

Some ladies just have a natural beauty, and dont need any makeup to be DDG. My biggest concern is their hair being up.
Ive never been into short hair on women, so I only book women with longer hair...and its a real buzz kill if you show up to a woman with her hair pulled back tightly into a ponytail.  

Thankfully, that doesn't happen too often where and whom I visit.

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goCubz20 8 Reviews 102 reads
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Hi Debra, thanks for the suggestion. I like your approach for how to request it! Will try next time :)

And I think you hit a good point... some ladies don't normally wear makeup except for these shoot, and I think those are the ones that will push back on my request.  But in case, it really would be nice to know in advance that they will be "natural" for our date.  Oh well.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 152 reads
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ginned up to see you, you should have a working link to a photo gallery on your TER profile.  Just a suggestion.  

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 109 reads
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Special requests set the mode & it's fun to get dressed up.  I always ask the guys favorite color because I aim to please. I have had gents send gifts for me to wear on our date & I am always happy to help. No hassle at all.

IHeartLV 10 Reviews 110 reads
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I always like it when a provider will ask me if there is anything specific that I’d like her to wear.  That, along with good communication, is usually a good sign that the session will be great.

I only see escorts in Vegas when I travel there.  I usually go in the summer and prefer morning or afternoon sessions.  So, when they ask I’ll just  respond to dress down as comfortably as they wish.  The only thing that I usually mention is black panties and bra along with red lipstick.

When a provider is thoughtful enough to ask I have very seldom been disappointed with the session; it seems to be somewhat indicative of their professionalism.

KDzblue See my TER Reviews 101 reads
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to me just saying it makes things more fun ...here i am playing as my alter ego why not have even more fun by becoming someone's dream girl....me myself i keep a go to hobag in my car filled with outfit selections just incase a special request pops up hey once a girl scout always a girlscout  ;)

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 103 reads
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The only time I have trouble with outfit requests are when it’s bizarre & would be expensive to pull off.

 
That, or they demand it. Aka “you must wear this exactly...” it seems too D/s to me if it is strictly demanded. (Which happens, and I turn those guys down.) It also reminds me of the kind of man who controls what his girlfriend wears. There is a way to ask.

 
I prefer he gives an idea of what he would like to see me in, so I like outfit requests. I want him to think I’m sexy. And I like when he tells me what he wants so I can make him happy (as best I can.) If I have it and I feel comfortable wearing it, I’m all for it. Plus, if I look bad in his outfit request, I can blame him 🤣🤣🤣

 
The “you must wear this” guys creep me out a bit though lol.

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goCubz20 8 Reviews 106 reads
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I am with you on the long hair!!   I also prefer it (long AND wavy hair is a bonus) and agree, it is very disappointing when they have it pulled back (or up in a bun!!).   Never asked them what was the reason, if it is a fashion thing or just convenience?  

But what I always do is once we get started with the fun, I will just reach over and pull off the rubber band, or hair clip, or whatever, and let their hair down.   Usually during K9 is easiest to reach, your hands are so close already... or while she's riding me is also convenient and added benefit that you can then enjoy her log hair flowing down and bouncing while she continues to ride you. Till this day, NONE of them have complained, so I assume it wasn't a problem!!!   :)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 102 reads
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short hair on women, but I tend to book long-haired providers because they are good about clipping it up during sex so that it doesn't get in the way, or make us change positions because one of us is laying on it.  I think a ponytail is a good look on certain outside dates when you will be doing something athletic like zip-lining or golfing, but generally its not a look that I favor unless it comes with daisy dukes and a braless crop top.  Then I'm okay with it, because who's looking at her head?  Not me!  Lol

TurbayVeronica See my TER Reviews 128 reads
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for everything. I wont be super reveling on an outcall. Discretion of course. I can bring a special outfit and change in private.

GaGambler 130 reads
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Surely you would find it fun to walk through a crowded hotel lobby wearing your Catholic School Girl or your French Maid outfit on. lol

team_rocket_qwerty 104 reads
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For some reason I'm turned on by simple blouses. Have no fucking idea why. It just flips a switch in my brain. Has nothing to do with workplace sex or anything like that. It's really bizarre, but I learned to stop asking why and just embrace it.

NEhobbyist 41 Reviews 136 reads
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Back in the days I was hobbying (?), I would always request that my lady-for-the-evening wear stockings and heels, simply because I have a huge fetish for nylons...I'd say 90% of the time they would gladly comply and I would always show my gratitude.
Also, I'd bring a bag of stockings with me in case she forgot or didn't have any on hand, and that worked out well.  We'd often just wind up playing with them as part of our fun.  
I understood that on hot summer days they'd be reluctant to wear stockings, but usually the room would have a/c and she could put them on there and not have to wear them ahead of time.

WICardinalfan 115 reads
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Black thigh highs, does it every time

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