the ideal customer for most providers. My texting is limited to the minimum amount of info needed to set an appointment. Other than that, if SHE initiates a text for some other reason, I will respond politely, but I don't take it as an invitation to become her new best friend forever. Burning up a working girl's phone with superfluous text messages is the biggest complaint from working girls that they have shared with me about their customers.
After I have seen a girl a couple of times, if it seems we have a lot in common and enjoy each other's company, I will mention that if they are bored sometime, I'm available for some outside time for some kind of adventure or fun day(I've taken them zip-lining, driving Ferraris and Lamborghinis at top speed at Ontario speedway, various helicopter tours of SoCal, etc., which are all things they have probably never done before), but I never make a specific request. I am very clear that from then on, THEY have to bring up the outside date, because I want no misunderstanding about it being a session rather than just two friends hanging out. If she considers me to be that kind of friend, she will suggest it sometime. Only about 50% ever take me up on it, and I never bring it up again except when I tell them what a good time I had with another girl and what we did. Sometimes, that's when they ask, because its something they want to do as well. The customer asking repeatedly just makes the girl uncomfortable. I have a friend who was badgering one of his regulars for an outside date, and she finally said, "Okay, you win, I'll go." As you can imagine, he was delusional about it being the best day of his life, and it turned out to be the worst date of his life because it was clear (except to him) that she really didn't want to go at all. Lol
