Well, other than a generous fat white envelope
 
How do you want the guy to show up, if he met you a few times before?  

What type of guy's dress do you find most attractive?

What are some of the places you'd want him to take you?

What are the things you want him to say to you?

Does it matter what he orders? Do you pay attention to his tastes?

What do you want the conversation to revolve around?

How do you want him to maneuver his ways around your body?

Do you enjoy switching different positions or just sticking to a select few and enjoying each of them?

How do you want him to hold you?

Do you enjoy a pillow talk under the sheets or on top, with bare ass exposed?

How do you want him to part ways when the date ends?

That's when you should be concerned about all of that stuff, because that's the girl you need to impress. Did you forget in this hobby you're paying the girl to be nice to you??

Don't mistake this hobby for match dot com

I have found that I get much better service by giving the girl what SHE wants at the same time.

It does not cost us anything to improve our ways...
so what's the big deal?  

SHE wants you to have read her website over so that everything is understood

SHE wants you freshly showered and smelling good (This includes being dressed nice, not like a slob)

SHE wants you in full out "Gentlemen Mode"

SHE wants you to have the correct donation for her requested time at hand


If you have those basics covered, the Premiere providers WILL give you excellent service, regardless of all that other crap you mentioned. Isn't that what the deal is over here?

If she wants me to come back, she has to impress me, not me impress her

You are absolutely right about the basics, and that top-notch providers will give you good service as long as you comply.

But fakin' it is fakin' it, and no matter how good she is, that kind of service doesn't compete with the service you get when she is actually turned on.

There are some providers who are so completely professional that you can't get through to them, no matter what, and they laugh at you if you try. But there are quite a few (in my experience) who like it when you treat them like a woman instead of like a machine, and even if you aren't arousing them like the animal you think you are, at least they appreciate the effort.

I'm not talking about spending time and effort trying to impress someone that I'm paying for service, I'm talking about giving a little to get more back.

What type of guy's dress do you find most attractive?
-Nice dress shirt and slacks that are straight, ironed, and free of lint. Nice shoes as well.
What are some of the places you'd want him to take you?
-Restaurants that offer valet and a wine list are usually good.
What are the things you want him to say to you?
-Compliments are nice but don't over do it.
Does it matter what he orders? Do you pay attention to his tastes?
-I would avoid finger foods or anything that gets your hands dirty. The odor is often hard to remove (bbq ribs, crab/lobster, etc)
What do you want the conversation to revolve around?
-I think conversations should just go with the flow. Avoid politics, religion, strong beliefs, arguing. (nothing sexual)
How do you want him to maneuver his ways around your body?
-Always be on her right and take the lead when walking. Hand on her waist perhaps.
Do you enjoy switching different positions or just sticking to a select few and enjoying each of them?
-I would say anything between these four positions (mish, k9, rcg, cg) but no need to go through them all on the first round.
How do you want him to hold you?
-Both arms at her waist
Do you enjoy a pillow talk under the sheets or on top, with bare ass exposed?
-Under the sheets if it's winter and the room has air conditioning
How do you want him to part ways when the date ends?
-Hugs, kisses, reassuring her that you had a great time, etc.

Not one of the above responders is a girl, which is who the OP addressed.

Exactly.  Most of the men don't take the time to read my website in my area.  Of course I want them to come back!

would be, if you dropped off the envelope and left!

in the world" list

1) Ask a lady to show up in cocktail dress for an overnight

2) meet her wearing hiking pants and sandals

3) take her to dinner to steak house and then declare that you are a vegetarian

4) spend majority of the overnight complaining about  your GF and job mixing it up with "WHY would a woman like YOU do something like THIS"

Hate to say it .. but this is actual real life example

it takes very little. Don't stalk me via email a month before the date, read my website and reviews, show up on time if possible, dressed in whatever you feel is appropriate for walking through a hotel (if I am traveling), don't wait a half hour to lay the donation down unless we know each other from the boards or have met before, wash your ass, shave your balls, pop some gum.....

As far as all of that other stuff is concerned, I don't really care. I am just as happy eating salad at Ruby Tuesdays as I would be at any 5 star restaurant...probably moreso, because I tend to get a little wild if I drink lol.

I think it's nice that you care about all of those things, but it does blur the line between provider date and real date. You pay US to make it special, not the other way around. So, what do YOU like from your provider?

a provider once told me that "a suit is to woman what lingerie is to men"

so i've started wearing my suit to my dates.  so far the ladies make favorable comments, one with dfk involved.

but as stated above, be showered, be polite, have the envelope ready right off (and right amount), don't be a jerk, don't complain about other women, both civvie or hobby, be nice.

ps for my special ladies i bring candy, i also bring drinks.  as much for me to pretend it's like a gfe as for them.

also, i learned quickly, if there's no chemistry, there's nothing to do about it, but there are about a billion other fish in this hobby sea, so move on without complaining.

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showed some respect for the OP's thoughts.

If you want to you can start your own thread.

If you are talking about a P4P date, I wouldn't worry so much.  Are you trying to win her over and make her fall in love with you?  If you are, just remember this is not a real date.  It's just P4P.  It's nice of you to think of doing nice things for her and trying to impress her, but when you go to this length you certainly are going to have big expectations, and you know the expections are much more than just to sleep with her.  When those expectations are not met, that's the worst feeling in the world.  You are going to get low and then depression will kick in and you will keep asking yourself what did I do wrong and it will start messing with your head.  But if you are talking about a non-P4P date, then it's different.

That way we will not have to read your insanity.

You didn't order an entree

But you could have...I was OK with that.

And those peppers and sausage....not a good idea for a fun time after.

But that's OK...we were smart and played before.

And no farts on the way back to the hotel...lucky you  

one to get him in the real world.

Too much Xanax.

I love when the gals want to meet Mr. Zipper and Mr. Cock.  But should Mr. Balls be shaved?

And what about pennylane...shaved or not?  And which lips does she shave more often?