I've taken one for the team only once in my career and SamPerDiem turned out to be a true gem.

She approached me at the Palazzo pool in Las Vegas and after talking with her for much of an hour over frozen Margaritas I took the chance.

That tiny black bikini of hers barely covering her most intimate parts sucked me into making a decision that I would ordinarily not do.

It was an awesome afternoon !

It's Captain Save-a-Ho.

And it's meant to be derogatory.

Bottom line:  Gals neither need nor want our assistance and besides, we'd only make matters worse for them if we tried, not to mention for ourselves.

Think Star Trek:  The Prime Directive - Do not interfere.  As Capt. Baldy once put it:  "The directive is there as much for our protection as it is for theirs."

By the way, of the three people you describe, I'd be very happy to see number 1; two and three, not so much.

But to each their own.  No one is really ever "perfect"; though in our owns ways, we are all perfect.

Look into it. Information is out there. It can years for general knowledge to catch up with changes that have occurred.

The type that’s going for a relatively low rate, but you really feel could be top tier if she got her game on better.  In my experience, three stand out for different reasons:

Example 1:  Beautiful face and incredibly long hair with a great service attitude, but saggy middle from prior pg that she herself was embarrassed about and tried to cover up.  If she had a tummy-tuck and breast implants, she would be absolutely incredible.
Example 2:  Beautiful face and incredibly shaped, natural, just plain huge breasts on a nice, non-obese body.  Very rare, indeed.  However, she is an inexpensive, volume-provider and was sore when I saw her, so the service was mechanical and poor.  She seems to have no idea that with just a slight change in service and attitude, she could double her prices and do just as well.
Example 3:  Young and lithe, pretty face, soft wavy hair, with fantastic natural tits.  Good service experience, to boot!  First time I saw her, I couldn’t believe what a package for the price.  However upon leaving, I inquired about some marks along her spine, and she admitted they were healed cigarette burns from “an old boyfriend”.  Next time I saw her, she was high as a kite, and just before I entered her, she informed me that she was still sore from a recent abortion.  I felt like a heel going forward with the event, which obviously didn’t live up to our first encounter.  It seemed obvious to me that she is being pimped heavily for high volume.

No, I have not had the urge to rehabilitate an underrated working girl.

But if I ever did have the urge, I would not stop at the point of rehabilitating providers where they became better performing, higher priced working girls.

I would go all the way and support/encourage them to go back to school/university, get their degrees, and find jobs that paid them well enough so that they would no longer have to supplement their incomes by escorting.

just like real life, and then some.

All three were BP girls.  Can't remember definitely, but I also think all three represented TOFTT, as well.  You don't have to remind me of the perils of this kind of shopping, but that's why they call it taking one for the team.

The last young lady you're talking about may be getting pimped or have a drug addiction. If she's a drug addict, and want to help her, you'll have to devote too much of your personal time to her. At the end of the day, she'll have to make up in her mind she wants help, not a "john", who's contributing on a regular to her destructive life style.

If she has an abusive pimp. The best thing you can do, is stop seeing her. Trying to be a white knight, & save her will be deadly for you.

Real talk, a provider being pimped will sell you out for chicken change, to raise their own personal status with their pimp.

-- Modified on 2/6/2012 3:21:59 PM

I can't find his board, but this post brings me back to a time where Mike would find the very same types of women , try to rehabilitate them, help them take them in and post the stories. Take a step back
before you wind up overly involved and taking too much under your wing.


Angela

Back away from BP before you actually do sometthing you will definitely regret. There are different levels of providers and they all need to make a living.

Don't try to be Captain Save a Ho...lol...sorry that always gets me when I hear it or say it.

We have chosen our path and we also chose how we travel it. My experiences are wonderful and I love this profession while some are just doing it to survive. You can't fix someone that is already broken, its a disaster in the making if you try.

You're heart is great and stay that way but leave them to their own issues.

Those girls need several Captain Save-A-Ho's.  On top of being on crack they probably have other addictions like alcohol / weed problems too.

However, I disagree on the pimp argument. There were some large scale studies revealing that majority of these young sex workers do not have pimps.

So did you get any Per-Diem while you were on that vacation with SamPerDiem?  

On second thought, I guess it wasn't work related. lmao  

Man, I tell ya what. I read 75% of this thread and I gotta say a couple of things.
BE CAREFUL! Man, dude! Stop with the back page girlies. Or at the very least, see if they ate part of a respectable board such as this one. Man, if they don't have websites AND quite a few reviews, run as fast as you can! Don't get me wrong. It's great that you want to help those gals improve their wares, but understand something. As one already stated, the ladies who do this, do it for heir own reasons. I won't name them all, but some do it because they genuinely love sex. Don't want to be In a committed relationship. Or, like/have good luck with the new friends they may make doing this. Others, like the ones you mention in your OP, do it for the fact that they NEED to. Drug habits. They may crave attention but can't get it cos they feel they aren't worthy(so sad) or they have diseases.
BE LESS OPEN about some of the types of women you visit with. Do you have any idea how many women can read your post and figure you're not cLean? I'm not saying you are, but the impression it leaves can be taken that way. All of the women here on TER want to remain healthy. It cn also cause them to be overly careful and turn some down who might be just fine.
BE THANKFUL! Some ladies on here responded quite kindly. Those ate the women you won't often meet where the ladies in your OP hang out, or get their business. The women here, who responded with respect and dignity are good souls. I don't know them. Never met or wrote them, but if anyone takes a minute to think, they'll see that one doesn't have to meet people to kow what king of heart, in general, they have. Man! You opened yourself up to some rather harsh comebacks. I hope people respond with kindness, as they have thus far,
I'm not trying to start anything here, and I'm not trying to tell you how to live. If I offended you, or anyone else, it was not my intention and I apologize. I'm merely pointing out how things could be taken or misunderstood as well as pointing out that you, frankly, owe these folks a real, heartfelt thank you for not riding your tail off of here.
I'm also trying to impress upon you that, possibly your practice of visiting with women of that type, might be much more dangerous then it's worth. Seriously. I'd sincerely hate to learn something bad happened to you on a visit with women like that. You never know who's right around the corner keeping an eye on those girls or worse yet, you.
Be careful my friend. Good luck to ya. I wish you all the best.

You would be fighting a lossing battle by yourself, she wouldn't be on the team. Even if it's for her own good.

Best thing is to let her go.

he will have to save the boyfreind to. Nobody wants to do that.

Rehab volume BP providers?  Ones with drug issues?

What was that cliche' about putting lipstick on a pig?  Still a pig.  Quit trying to save the unsaveable.  Instead, save your pennies for some better (albeit less frequent) quality providers.