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themostfunone 3 Reviews 1026 reads
posted
1 / 23

I am looking for a way to search for providers who regularly tour….   Perhaps a those who tour an area; or just who tour frequently.   It’s easy enough to see who is touring, or who will be here soon….   But it seems that many providers repeat visits to the same area every 3-4 months or so; and it would be great to see everyone who regularly visits the area.  Any ideas how to query this?  Or perhaps just a post in my buzz board (I don’t have a regional board for my city)?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 73 reads
posted
2 / 23

It helps to share the location on your post.  

The have other cities board, travel, ISO of as well.  

Sharing is caring, so where are you? City, state

Bucky11 115 Reviews 75 reads
posted
3 / 23

Many touring ladies advertise there and you can filter by city and state. I've been a member for years.

edinathens 67 reads
posted
4 / 23
themostfunone 3 Reviews 60 reads
posted
5 / 23

In a midsize midwestern metro that does not have its own regional board.  I saw ads for 3-5 smokeshow providers in the 500-800 range in December….  Wondering what the next few months will look like.

themostfunone 3 Reviews 76 reads
posted
6 / 23

I am in p411… but i can only see current ads for providers who have listed upcoming tours….   Hoping to find something more comprehensive on who is here regularly.   So I could pick 3-5 providers to see regularly and wouldn’t have to wonder who will be here soon; vs choosing one of the providers advertising right now.  (The Local selection is not my scene…)  

themostfunone 3 Reviews 62 reads
posted
7 / 23

lol.  Just tried Gemini, who had ethical blocks to my inquiry.

bofia 26 Reviews 57 reads
posted
8 / 23

Start by contacting those 3-5 smoke shows and ask when they're coming back.  
Scroll back in the same buzz board and find a few more.
Perhaps there's an agency in the nearest big city you can contact.  
Midsized Midwest in the winter is probably not a popular tour destination. Good luck.

EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 70 reads
posted
9 / 23

If you're in a small enough market not to have a regional board and the local talent doesn't meet your needs, why not research WHOM you'd like to see and contact them directly for FMTY packages? Why be a victim of whomever randomly happens to drop by some small part of the country on some intermittent basis?  
 
Search out the ladies you want to see, do what you can to entice them to visit once for a chemistry check, and if all goes well then just friggin' book them on a quarterly basis for the next year.
 
If you've chosen reputable ladies, your money is safe and that prepayment/schedule provides them with the opportunity to actively work to turn your lil sleepy spot into a bigger touring spot. And if it becomes a bigger touring spot cuz X type of lady is there quarterly, then other X types ladies (plus the G-N types) will be curious about the hubub of this little place and be more likely to try it out themselves... thereby increasing your chances of catching other ladies of your particular taste touring the area.  

All it takes is a bit of charm, negotiation skill and money for you to turn a podunk town into a hotspot😉 But even if that doesn't happen, being proactive gets you closer to YOUR needs being met by YOUR preference of companion on YOUR time frame than laying back in an arroyo and hoping seaweed lands on your face.😇

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36363jensen 4 Reviews 58 reads
posted
10 / 23

Or he could hop on a plane for the weekend/3 days, head to any number of places, for example Costa Rica or Panama, Canada, Europe, places in the Caribbean, and probably save time and money and avoid the risks of potentially getting charged with sex trafficking.

EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 57 reads
posted
11 / 23

That is also an entirely valid option! Depending on what he’s looking for, there could be very particular reasons to choose any one of the destinations you mentioned, in fact🫣
 
It was very small minded of me to respond to what I thought he was asking🤭 Something about how to get his particular preference delivered to his doorstep.  
 
So you’re absolutely right!  He could take his “doorstep” anywhere in the world! And Panamá wouldn’t be the worst place to start😉

-- Modified on 12/17/2025 2:29:49 AM

impposter 49 Reviews 60 reads
posted
12 / 23

Many Providers, esp touring Providers, have mailing lists that their gentlemen friends can subscribe to.  
Some of the 5 smoke shows you are interested in who might not have "mailing lists" might still be positive towards letting you know if they are going to be in your area if you ask for such early notice. (How much notice do you need to plan? One day, one week, or one month?)
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Good luck!

Posted By: bofia
Re: You're just going to have to do some legwork.  
Start by contacting those 3-5 smoke shows and ask when they're coming back.  
 Scroll back in the same buzz board and find a few more.  
 Perhaps there's an agency in the nearest big city you can contact.  
 Midsized Midwest in the winter is probably not a popular tour destination. Good luck.

ClaireLaCrosse See my TER Reviews 75 reads
posted
13 / 23

Based on his mention in the comments of “ providers in the $500-$800 range,” i’m guessing that dropping several thousand on a FMTY doesn’t make sense for him, which is super valid.

hehitshewins 55 reads
posted
14 / 23

I must be signed up for 50+ mailing lists. I think about 5 actually email anything ever. Maybe 1-2 do somewhat regularly. The 2 that I actually get regularly are the 2 I never signed up to get. They’re from bookers I used who think it’s okay to add every client to their mailing lists and let them know when ladies they book are touring their areas.

snafu929 20 Reviews 76 reads
posted
15 / 23

lol, you're expecting them to adhere to standards higher than your insurance or utility companies or your favorite retailers?  

EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 75 reads
posted
16 / 23

But one thing is for certain… Neither you nor I know his financial capacity. I spoke to a methodology which can be utilized within many financial paradigms. He’s the only one who would be able to say whether it makes sense in his life or not.🤷🏻‍♀️

themostfunone 3 Reviews 56 reads
posted
17 / 23

Thanks Edrienne.  I’m not in the market for FMTY quite yet…. But perhaps someday soon!  Love your pics and reviews!  Perhaps you’d be at the top of my list for a special fmty ;)  

For now we seem to get enough providers touring (yes even in the dead of winter); where there are great options with a little research, planning, and legwork.  In December we had 3-5 gorgeous, well reviewed providers… so I am hoping that trend holds up for Jan-Mar….  

EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 71 reads
posted
18 / 23

While it wasn't my intent to toss my hat in the ring, it'd be silly to imagine I'd be opposed to it.😘
 
The gist of my point was proactivity vs passivity and if the worst that happens is that someone says 'no thanks'...🤷🏻‍♀️ Ain't no big thang, baby!
 
From what you've mentioned, biding your time, tracking the visiting ladies who pique your interest and manually compiling a list of options over time is a great place to start. If you can track their patterns over 6-8mo (not just when they visit your town, but when/where they travel at all), that can be useful info if you choose to proactively contact them in the future.  
 
You never know if a lady has a desire to be be in your area more often (has relatives/friends/hobbies/etc there), but it's not as financially viable as going somewhere else/staying home, so she doesn't get to enjoy that. You never know if stopping short of a FMTY (which usually includes all travel costs and an extended minimum date) and simply offering an extended date but leaving the timing of it up to her, would be of interest. Sometimes simply making her visit a net neutral vs risking a net loss can be enough for her to alter her pattern and visit.
 
I know I appreciate gents from all random parts reaching out and asking to be kept apprised if I'm ever in their area. Cuz frankly, I'd NEVER have considered touring places Minneapolis or Pittsburgh if I wasn't slowly collecting interested parties over time. It's pretty cool to be on this side of the situation and realize "Hey, I've got almost a dozen folks interested in me visiting X place! Why don't I reach out to all of them and see if I can coordinate something fun!" 🤩
 
Anywho... we all have obligations, limitations and the like. I think we also have many more collaborative opportunities than we realize... especially if we're the charming, respectful and enjoyable human beings that we all should strive to be. 😇 Best of luck!

themostfunone 3 Reviews 77 reads
posted
19 / 23

It certainly opens up a lot of doors, on both sides.  Great chatting with you, catch ya next time.  

hehitshewins 60 reads
posted
20 / 23
snafu929 20 Reviews 60 reads
posted
21 / 23

No, but you clearly mentioned it like it upsets or surprises you.

hehitshewins 70 reads
posted
22 / 23

This is just you choosing to read it that way. The mailing lists was suggested as an option. I was sharing my experience to shed light on this option not being a very good one. Nothing more, nothing less. Unlike the OP, as an LA monger, there is no shortage of options, so the mailing lists issue is inconsequential to me.

AaliyahATL See my TER Reviews 57 reads
posted
23 / 23

This would probably be your best bet. I will also add if you are close to a large metropolitan area and willing to splurge a bit more, some ladies may be willing to travel to you. Or you can travel to the area with more options.

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