I can agree with your overall statement, because have ran into a hell of a lot of women in this business who truly do have issues that are psychological, but that is to be expected.  We are taling about women I have had conversations with who literally did not remember 2 days later. Many women have been down hard roads that led them here, vs. "wanting" to or "deciding" to come here.  

This however, has nothing to do with what the woman did to the OP...I would have done the same damn thing if the guy just up and disappeared for 6 months.  Some women are not even escorts that long, before they fall off the map. His "personal issues" have nothing to do with her or her business...period. If a guy sent me a deposit to fly out and I just up and vanished, do you really think he owes me a visit when I call six months later? Yea right.

When a woman runs a special it usually has an end date...his was up. I mean seriously...six months lol. She probably paid off her car, house, loans, or whatever the fk she needed to pay that caused her to offer him a discount to begin with. I would not wait around on him either. He had his chance to take advantage of her offer, and blew it. She marked him as full of shit and a time waster, and now only wants to talk to him if he pays her. Duh...she is a hooker, so I don't see why this is so hard to fathom lol.

I am not saying, it was right in every sense because you should keep your word, but not all women are like that.

This provider I had seen last year had offered a very good vacation deal for me. Basically the whole weekend for a very low price of $3k. Considering her rate's is above $1k per hr it was literally a steal!!  

She said that we connected well and she wanted to stay in touch.

We communicated every now and then, planning the vacation, chatting etc, but I never took that offer because I went into hibernation from the hobby world since then.  

I've always wanted to see this girl again but due to personal circumstances & staying away from the hobby for a bit, I wasn't able to take her up on the fucken steal of an offer.  

Recently, I contacted her to see if she's still around. Yes she's still around, but she retracts the vacation offer she has made. Also claims she isn't interested in keeping in touch just to keep in touch YET SHE STILL WANTS ME TO CONTACT HER IF I WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN.

I'm all for P4P that's what this is all about but the fucken ironic part is, bitch was the one who FIRST suggested we stay in touch and even went on to offer the nice weekend vacation deal for me.  

She fucken drunk? Or smokin something?  Obviously something happened between then and now in her world while I was gone for 6 months, that made her bitter and change her fucken mind. She's a very hot girl but I think I'm gonna spend my fuckin money on a nice bottle of Blue Label instead and take matters into my own hands.

Some of these bipolar indecisive providers need to make up their fucken mind!

and it wouldn't surprise me if she thinks you are an indecisive, bipolar SOB.  She offered you what you admit was a steal, you communicated and planned the vacation and chatted, and then you go away.  Then you come back 6 months later and want the same deal?

You had your reasons for staying away from the hobby, which is understandable.  She had her reasons for offering you a steal at that time that you were planning with her and then you backed out of.  Who knows what is going on in her life or what has changed.  Maybe she doesn't need a vacation now, or maybe she found someone else she connects with that took her up on the offer.  Or perhaps time has made her lose any "connection" she felt between you.

As for her wanting to stay in contact, I am sure she was doing that when she thought you were going to be a regular client.  She's a provider who is looking to build and maintain a good client base, and doing what any good business does with good customers.  I don't think you are being realistic to expect that she would want to continue to contact you for purposes outside of keeping you as a client.  Hence, her statement to contact her if you want to see her again.

I am not trying to flame you (I hate when board comments devolve into that), but I am trying to help you see what her perspective might be.  If she is super hot and you enjoyed her company, and have the desire to be with her again, do it.  If not, then don't.  She has other clients, you can be with other providers, and life will go on.

So, to answer your original question, I would see her again if I felt the urge and if the circumstances didn't turn me off to being in her company.  But it sounds to me like you should be seeking one of the many other fish in the sea.

she feels it was too low to deal with you...I can't imagine why. When a girl makes you an offer of a discount, take it or you might never get it again. I am betting she did not think you would wait six freaking months to take her up on it, and now she does not feel it is worth it any more.  Just a guess ha ha. Have you any idea how much money a hooker can make in six months?  Should you still see her...um, well the two of you seem perfect for each other.

...and you stayed away from the hobby.  She doesn't know that.  All she knows is that you disappeared after chatting with her and planning the vacation.

Now, all of a sudden you contact her again.  Why wouldn't she be upset with a guy who wasted her time and then disappeared?

She's right - if you want to see her for 1k/hr. that's okay; she thinks keeping in touch with you is a waste of time since your history is one of being a flake.

even if you start taking your medication.

First of all, WOW you sound like an asshole in this post. I don't know if you started drinking before posting, or if you're genuinely like that, but wow. It sounds like you have serious issues with women.

Second of all, she gave you a chance to take the offer, and you went so far as to plan it out with her before disappearing for six months. Why in the world would the offer still be on the table? She's not bipolar, or indecisive, or bitter. YOU are a flake, she is running a business, and only one of you seems to understand what P4P means.

Sheeit, I went into Walmart just yesterday and demanded that they honor the special they had for snow blowers last March now and for whatever reason that bitch behind the counter told me no and looked at me like I was some crazy psycho from ward 9. GTFO, I mean come on, they offered it last March, its not like they may have been looking to get rid of it because sales in March for snowblowers might have been lagging....

Look you alias posting stir up trouble piece of rubble, its BUSINESS, special offers aren't expected to last forever, just like grandfathering can only be expected for a while, but not forever. Prices, read inflation, go up and cost have to be adjusted.

Just because I bought milk in Dallas in 2001 for 1.99 I cant really expect to get that same gallon of milk for the same price in 2012. Some of you really need to wake the fuck up and face reality. NO provider just wants to engage in random conversations with you. They have their own lives and we should respect that, and NO provider can continue to keep someone grandfathered in forever and no special last indefinitely, thats why its called a special you moron.

I don't think she is bitter, smoking something or drunk. I think she just found a better level of a client and it wasn't you. A grand to spend a weekend with anyone? There isn't enough money in the world that anyone could pay me to make me want to even spend a weekend with ME much less some clueless, classless, cheap ass mother fucker who is so stupid that he labels a smart business woman as bi-polar because she woke up and smelled the coffee and realized that she would prefer starbucks (other clients) over Great Value-Walmart (you).

I had a contractor offer me a smoking deal on a kitchen remodel last year. For various reasons, I wasn't ready to do it, and I got busy with other stuff, so I stopped golfing with him too. Hadn't talked to him in a year. Well now I decided I am ready for the kitchen remodel and that bipolar, drunk, drug smoking, bastard is not honoring his price quote from a year ago!

The nerve of some people!

Many many providers are bi-polar and many hear voices in their head, and many are substance abusers.  Is this news to you?  I'm not knocking providers.  I love the girls, but many have issues .  Some dudes do too.  Look at some of the fem men on this board. They have issues too.

Douchbags who call women bitches because they didn't get their own way are not on her horizon, get the hint ya BGTOG.

She gave you a great offer that you took six months to act on, and when you contact her again, it was only to "see if she was around" instead of making true on a reservation..Sounds to me she thinks you are wasting her time - which is why she told you to contact her if you want to see her (which means the next email needs to be a reservation request).

Who really knows? Maybe a mountain is being made out of a molehill in this situation Theres so many variables to take into consideration; However, in the end it is very simple. If you feel you do not want to book with her, don't. But go for it if you still wish to spend time with her.

Good Luck

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Maybe 30 days in business...  you disappeared with no explanation & expect her to honor the Special?  I'm surprised she replied at all.  She now has you pegged as a time waster.  No Shit!!  Indecisive?  That's you, not her!
If it's been a while, you should probably have gone back in with an appology...  and maybe she'd see you for an hour or 2.  
HV

I can hear the ladies laughing at that all over this fine country.

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And sees the way she was described, I can only imagine what her response would be if he contacted her.

You met a great provider. You both had a connection. She offered you a killer deal for a weekend. You never took her up on her deal...instead you disappeared. You pop up from no where wanting a discount from 6 months ago...and you degrade a business woman bc she is not at your every beck and call?

You do realize this is a business and she does not have time to play games with you. SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT SIR!


talk about a JACKASS?

The end of your bullshit rant reads "Obviously something happened between then and now in her world while I was gone for 6 months". Well no shit jackoff, something happened to HER when YOU were gone. She moved on to the next envelope. You disappeared and she could not count on you so she went with someone who was not BiPolar like YOU. I guarantee she will fuck you again it's all about the money not you personality. There are people all over this board that fight on a daily basis, but put the donation on the table and they will do what they do. Get over yourself, put the donation down on either her table or some one else's. Just make sure to take your meds

You are honestly hung up on this bullshit ?

Kill yourself now!

if you dont want the deal..i will be more than happy to take it..

he is the original Silicone Mister with the Manager Sister..more than likely blinded by the light..

The fact that you felt a need to post this tirade on multiple boards pretty much confirms my suspicion.
You might wish to consider....who really is the bi-polar individual here.

Really? What kind of ladies are YOU meeting that you would come to this conclusion? In actuality, many ladies, if you didn't know they were providers, and saw them in public, you wouldn't have a clue, as they are completely normal. Are there some wack jobs out there? Of course.... but that goes both ways. There are plenty more that are completely normal, the only medication they ever take is for a headache, don't partake in any drugs, or even alcohol.

....figures out who this is I hope the provider he flamed reads this and puts 2&2 together.

Christie Brinkley would be driving past in her 'vette and then he dumps the hooker.

And a trip to Paris?  I have it on good authority that his hooker pal knows that he intends to stay at hostels...And you know how that always turns out  

You all just jumped into the damn boat.

All he did was say bi-polar and everyone hit the roof.

lol

Funny, I have had long talks with some providers who share some scary stories about the mongers they have met.  Double standards, jealousy, stalking, liars, drunks, trying to force unprotected action---the list goes on.  There's enough emotional imbalance to go around for all of us so let's not jusge too harshly. The majority of the population would say we are ALL insane for being involved in this hobby.  Let's play nice and be reasonable with each other.

Damn, only a 8/10.  I fell short!!!!

I am not a rookie, nor am I naive as hell, and I can honestly say you're wrong. Do some of the girls have problems? Sure. But I've met more legit crazies out in the "real world" just in the sports I'm involved in than doing this. It's not the type of life for people with serious issues, and they do not seem to last long, for the most part.

But then, I don't consider situational iffyness that has to do with the industry and the stress that comes from it to be a serious emotional or mental problem. This isn't an easy business, you can't expect people to be perfect all the time.

lol. Too obvious, I thought. You obviously know your audience better than me. lol

Just talk to and get a diagnosis from someone who knows someone who had something 3 years ago. You seriously have stereotyped all of us. But that's okay, there are plenty of providers that stereotype hobbyists so I guess fair is fair.

You may have met a few that are as you say. From one that is so far from that, I guess I find it sad that is the type of lady you have met or spoken to. There is so  much more out there.

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me too