Please help me out ladies.  For a variety of reasons I enjoy 69.  Naturally with the right lady, but when she is "right," phew!

As long I am getting licked too I am okay 69 doesn't throw off my concentration but every lady is different on what she enjoys.

69 can be nice, if the lady likes it.  But I find upright positions more pleasant both for BJ and DatY.  Plus I really dig watching her eyes while she works on me, and wish I could watch her eyes as I lick her.

Kidding, I could take it or leave it, the conventional 69. But I have a unique style that most seem to enjoy. so I'll stick with that...Gracias

My favorite part is watching her get in position, and I love it best when she initiates it herself. The view is lovely and I can get rock hard just remembering it.

There was a poll on Heaux Twitter on this subject and the results were soundly negative - about  9 to 1 against by the ladies.  For some reason, it's just not very popular.  I could take it or leave it, but I also think it's hotter to watch 2 girls do it than to actually do it myself with a lady.

That's funny. Really. OK, well, here's a hint: when she's in 69 and she's on top, her clit is on the bottom. Take it from there.

but not for the main course.

If the Gent's accoutrement is on the smaller-size, then 69 is easier.
However, when his "member" is above-average, then it makes it
difficult for the woman either atop or on the bottom.

Both parties are somewhat distracted..... I have tried it going for round number 2, as a variable of foreplay. But, not only is the pussy “upside down”, my nose is pretty close to her asshole! And as I have just “fucked the shit out if her”, I could think of a few other places I’d like my nose

like several others have said .. while it sounds like fun in practical terms it just doesnt work ... combination of being too distracted to enjoy what your partner is doing plus your own mouth is just positioned wrong to truly please a woman .......... having said that there was this one time in Atlanta ....   but otherwise yeah its fun for about 30 seconds and then you should move on.  

I usually like to start off with 69 it’s really get me going just the thought of some sexy young lady having my dick in her mouth while I am licking her pussy really turns me on

so convincing as a thing well done.

With the right partner I love love love 69.  With  a partner that’s just as interested in pleasing as being pleased then it just flows and it’s so enjoyable for me.

I also love both lobster and tequila, but that doesn't mean I am going to have the two together. lol

Which still leaves the rest of the bottle for drinking, I think I like this recipe.

Exactly!

I get too easily distracted.

I've heard tell that for many chicks if you distract them with some other stimulation while stimulating the clit, they can lose the buildup to the orgasm.  I think 69 would be a lot of distraction and therefore not result in an O as often as just concentrating on her one area.

and I know for a fact that I have never cum during 69 myself, so I am inclined to agree with your statement. I also hate the angle during 69, if that angle was so good, why doesn't anyone eat pussy "from behind", it's pretty much the same angle as 69? OTOH, I do enjoy giving "mustache rides" even though I haven't had an actual mustache for decades. lol

I hate admit it, by I have.

Perseverance. And a bottle of Tylenol.  
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGvjTEB1K-g
(fast forward to 1:50 if impatient)
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I thoroughly enjoy it.  It's another way to access the Y and to caress the woman's ass at the same time. The skin-to-skin contact feels great.  Just a little variety.  If a lady is not interested, I always give her the opportunity to pass and we do something else.

...but for me, it's an appetizer, a little something to get us warmed up for more fun to be had.

Oy vay. Another critic. If life were only like this:  
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTSmbMm7MDg

Hey! I wanna meet a girl who’s interested in Mozart, James Joyce and sodomy, too!

While I love having my face between her loins and mouth and tongue exploring the holy of holies, there is nothing quite like the unique pleasure of  letting my hands roam up and down her body during the 69 --appreciating her ass, stroking her back, kneading the shoulders.   Usually 69 a just a foreplay thing, before moving on to other activities, but I've had a couple of intense finishes ending in convulsions, back in the day.    Takes a special lady with good chemistry and a nice body.