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Loud Or Quiet.teeth_smile
ROGM 55 reads
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Both.

The two I see go both ways. One is quiet and the other one is very talkative. So I get the best of both worlds.

Do you prefer your sex partner to make a lot of noise during sex? Or do you prefer someone on the quieter side? Or even silent?

I don't mind a modest amount of noise, including dirty talk, heavy breathing, etc. But if she gets really loud or screaming, it become distracting and annoying. Especially if she sounds like she is loudly faking it.

I've never had a long-term partner who was silent, or even very quiet. Maybe I'd get used to it. But I find it unnerving. At least give me the dirty talk and heavy breathing! :-D

I agree with you, though, that it can be distracting if she seems to be faking it.

ROGM56 reads

Both.

The two I see go both ways. One is quiet and the other one is very talkative. So I get the best of both worlds.

However, I recognize that can be unsafe at a hotel incall.

...as long as it's not over the top or it can be quiet but it should be audible. I'm not a fan of no sound at all. Quiet intense sounds or dirty talk can be very exciting.

OCmadness90 reads

I agree. If its over the top and fake sounding than it can be a real turnoff even to a point of losing my hard on. Its a distraction.

HappyChanges61 reads

high pitched, natural, uncontrollable screams. I'll admit, I usually don't last long when this happens.

to be vocal..talk dirty to me.
I love it when the ladies are having a good time and they are letting  
me know what is feeling good!

My favorite is when the woman is fairly quiet during the act, aside from brief exchanges ("Let's switch to doggy style" "okay"), then starts moaning softly after a while. Even if it's fake, it works for me. Or other relatively quiet noises, like changes in breathing or softly whispering dirty.

I guess I like feeling like we are trying to be sneaky about it, like when I first started having sex as a teenager. Nostalgia.

I've enjoyed PSE encounters drilling a 4'7" spinner babe in the rear with hardly a peep, and tall sexy blondes squealing like I was the best they've ever had.  For me, coming off as natural, her truest sexual expression is what does it for me

...just want my partner to be real...if i feel it/want it-i'll say..want my partner 2 do/feel the same

What I don't like is the provider making noises just because she thinks I want to hear them.  

For example, my ATF is pretty quiet, and tends to moan softly when getting aroused. Then when she comes, she usually says "oh fuuuuuuuuuckkk!" moderately loud.  Others tend to gasp more than making loud noises.  

But the sound I like best is when the lady says in no uncertain terms, "Don't stop!  Don't you dare stop!!!"  :)

i like mine muffed and wet..

then yes, groans, moans, screams even turn me on, not to mention the dirty talk.

 
Whether it's real or not I don't care.   I'm being entertained.   I want an equity level performance.

"fuck your cock feels good!".  
Hehehe.  
Or "fuck you, I'm cumming ".  
Hehehe  
Or "Don't stop!, Aaaargh."  

What I usually hear "Are you done yet?"

"Is it in yet?" (After you've been pumping for 10 minutes.) 😂

Definitely quiet.  Wait I misread.

 
Fake is always obvious and a big turnoff.  But when I get my favorite whistling and screaming, it's a huge turn on.  I've never heard a sound like it.  Hard to fake that.  Goes well beyond the AMP me luv you daddy.

I like a woman to make whatever sounds she's comfortable making -- but I prefer some feedback at the mid-level. Too loud and we're attracting attention -- can be unwanted in civvie life but especially troubling in the undercover world of p4p. Outside and away from the crowds? That's another story -- just so as we're not attracting coyotes or bears ;)

so whether it is heavy breathing or him saying what he likes or that I am doing right thing:)But I do like some kind of feedback if a guy is totally silent I am wondering does he like what I am doing?
I do like to do a little dirty talk during sex.
I am loud when I orgasm the people in the hallway and next door will hear me:)

my atf will whisper to me, I had one lady that made sounds and moans (either this lady really really loved what she did or was the best damn actress ever-and I don't care either way lol) and another one that as we got into it good would scream Fuck ME!  yes Fuck Me!   Nice trick to make me cum.  And l love them all.  

What I don't like are the ones that could probably smoke a cigarette while reading the paper while you are fucking them.  

Definitely prefer women to be loud. However, I myself know that I'm quiet. I think too much of my life I spent trying to be quiet that it feels unnatural to be very loud now.

However it's a huge turn on for women to be loud and vocal, even if it's fake, I enjoy it.

...with blank faces freak me out. Nothing like seeing a bunch of jizz fly out of someone's cock but their face remains expressionless lol.  

Looking like oh hey just sitting here having a big ol nut no big deal 😶.

-- Modified on 7/16/2017 5:07:33 PM

Words of encouragement or saying she likes or dislikes this, that or the other thing. I would hope she lets me
know what she enjoys because half of the fun I have is knowing that she is enjoying herself. Mixing in a little
provocative language never hurts either.

I prefer a natural, normal communication style- some talking, some erotic talk, mixed with moans, and just general feedback- "yes, right there," "keep doing that," etc. A squirmy, wriggling body is also a great way to provide feedback. Anything but silence. If I can hear crickets in the background, unless we're in the woods, that's disturbing.  

And yes, definitely no 80's porn star sounds. Does anyone remember Penthouse Pet Terri Weigel's screams? Soundproofing was mandatory. No way you could be with her in a hotel.

Starfish mode is not attractive, but too loud can also sound obnoxious. I prefer someone who can find the medium ground on which to let out a few sexy moans with some heavy breathing in between while creatively whispering dirty talk.

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