There’s another thread someone else started inquiring about which events members have taken escorts to.

This is something I’ve wondered about doing. I enjoy musical theater shows and I always buy two tickets for the shows (several months ahead of time) and hope I can get a date to go with me. Last night I bought tickets to Mamma Mia!, which is coming to my Nashville in March. Maybe I can get a date, maybe I will take my daughter, maybe I will go by myself.  

But if I take an escort, how would that work, logistically?

1. How many hours would I pay for with her to take her to a musical? The musicals last 2 to 2 1/2 hours, but there’s also driving time. And I never want to get there right when it starts. Musical theater attendees usually show up 30 minutes beforehand when they open the doors of the theater and start seating people. So 2 1/2 hours for the show, plus 30 minutes of driving time, plus 30 minutes to get there early and get seated. And of course I’d want time alone with the escort back at the Incall location, so 30 more minutes of driving time plus 30 minutes to an hour with the escort. That’s a lot of time to schedule.  

2. How would we get to the theater? Would she ride with me or would be she comfortable with that? Would we get an Uber or Lyft?

3. Either we’d be able to make conversation in the car and everything would be smooth or it could be awkward trying to make conversation. I’m not the world’s best conversationalist.  

It would be totally awesome to take an escort to a musical theater show with me but I have wondered about these other factors  and I’m trepidatious about attempting it.

A lot of this would vary from provider to provider. If you are going to do this, I'd recommend sticking with a provider you have seen before and have great chemistry with. One question for you, is this strictly a social date or do you also want private time before/after. To answer your questions:
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1) This is something you have to work out with the provider because pricing varies from provider to provider. Some have separate rates for social time and private time. Some might charge you their normal rate for social time. Some might consider this a "bespoke" date with its own rate structure. Personally in this scenario I would lean towards an overnight booking. Either way this isn't likely to be a cheap date. It might be one of those "if you have to ask you can't afford it" type deals.  
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2) Again this depends. Typically when I've done social dates we would either meet at the hotel bar/lobby of where we plan to have fun or meet at the restaurant. Really this is your choice and is something you have to plan with the provider. When I do social dates I usually like to meet at the hotel and have fun before the social activity. Then when dinner/event is done we go back and hook up again. It helps break the ice and brings a nice fun atmosphere to the social time.
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3) This is why I recommend sticking with a provider you have seen before and have great chemistry with. These kind of dates are only fun if you actually connect with the other person and enjoy their company. That is also kind of the whole point of these dates, it allows a bit more intimacy than normal. You're not going to have a good time if the date is awkward, so pick someone you can have a good conversation with. The only other thing I would do is seek out ads for providers that specifically mention social dates and bespoke experiences.

Typically the clock would start when she arrives but she may ask for a travel fee to get there. Spending that much time with a provider, I would recommend you see her first for an hour or 90 minutes to gage compatibility. As you suggest, if you both end up in that car together and you have a personality conflict, you will be sorely disappointed and out a lot of money.

You're talking +5 hours. That's an eternity if one of you rubs the other the wrong way early in the evening.  

If you already know a provider you might enjoy taking, just ask her directly.  

If you insist on starting from scratch,  post your proposition on your local board. I suspect someone you don't already know will want her full book rate for her time.

Doesn't sound like fun to me. Take your daughter and use the savings to buy 3-4 one hour sessions.

the provider is a regular of yours that you have seen at least a dozen times and are completely comfortable with each other.  If I had bought two tickets on spec without already having a date in mind, I would ask one of my regulars if I were to come and see her for two hours, would she like to go to a nice dinner and a musical afterward?  My regulars already know that social time with me is OTC, so there is no awkwardness about when the time starts or how much she gets paid.  It's a 2-hour session, so she will get her rate plus tip (usually about $1000-$1200 total) and nothing for her social time afterward, except she will share the $7-800 I'm paying at the steakhouse and the theater.    

 
If she says no, then I will tell her that I will ask someone else and try to arrange a session with her in a few weeks.  Now, the ball is in her court.  If the wants the $1000-$1200, then she can accept the offer.  Otherwise, she can try to get another two-hour booking for that night.  She has to make a risk assessment if she passes.  

I myself don’t mind sharing a ride with my friends. I offer special incentives for longer fun dates & provide witty conversation with some sarcasm. I hear I am very entertaining in and outside of the bedroom. Many providers will not ride with you, nor will they date you outside the bedroom unless you have seen them previously. We are all so very different, so it’s best to ask the person directly. The worst thing that could happen is she says no. I love music concerts, theatre plays, Galas, comedy shows, sports events & casino dates! Find the provider that fits your needs it’s always best to read the entire website prior to reaching out.

Your first step would be to find an escort that you have seen and that you enjoy being with and that would enjoy musical theater. I personally love musicals and plays so I do run a special during the winter that I charge for one hour of play time + tickets + dinner= fun evening. But....I only do this with clients that I have seen and that I enjoy spending time with. He comes to my incall, one hour of fooling around, he takes me to dinner, we then go to the theater, he brings me back home after the show. I thankfully have some gents that I have been seeing for MANY years so this works out for both of us to enjoy a fun evening together in the middle of snowy and cold WI in the winter. I personally do not do this with gents I have not seen before, but again, every gal is going to be different. The one hour of play time + dinner + show + picking me up and bringing me home is usually around 6 hours total for the whole evening, fyi. I wish you the very best of luck and home you find that lucky gal that will enjoy the theater as much as you do!!  

Maxvan68,
  I would suggest that you first talk to the Escort that you want to take to the event and see what she thins about going

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#1 I am truly a lover of Musical theatre but havent been in ages
#2 I love a reason to wear my dresses, and get dolled up, and know it wont be on the floor immediately lol  
#3 it would be a great icebreaker and I would charge a social fee for the social part.  

Time is money and I am pretty awesome inside and outside the bedroom, I have even been told I am smart-ya know for a hooker

It would need to be a regular. I’ve done things in public with escorts before (never with a social rate tho), and I would not had been very comfortable if I wasn’t already acquainted with them. I don’t gel with every person I meet so I probably would not risk it on a longer date such as this one.

Why in the world would you take an escort to a public event?   To show the crowd who you have hired?

Why do you assume everyone, or anyone, would know what relationship you have with her?

Given my desire to stick with high end girls, doing a social dare like this would be quite expensive at their regular rates. A lot have rates priced to reduce incrementally as it rises so say going from 3 hours when drinks is expected for $2400 to 5 hours when meal is involved is just $600 more or $3k total. That’s a bit more palatable.  

Do most take your offer when you suggest as you described? How regular would they be? I feel like I’d feel funny stating it that boldly.

kind of person that worries about what people think about you?

restaurants, museums, etc. And I assume most people thought I was a John or a Sugar Daddy, even though it was always OTC. I couldn't care less. I just enjoyed watching guys walk into walls. Why do you even care?

SB world has plenty of opportunities like this..  

 
A couple of yrs ago, met a really nice girl in the SB world who is an aspiring singer. Mostly playing in smaller venues and bars. Quite talented actually. Went to see her sing in Maryland. Then after the bar closed took her to a diner for food and, then back to her place and we fucked.  We fucked real good.  Another time, took her to a Johnny Cash cover band. We really liked it.  Had a great time..  We are not seeing each other anymore as she has moved away and lives in Midwest now, and doing well over there financially, but we are still Facebook friends.  

 
Think about when you took someone out on a date. Did you complicate it to the extent you are complicating this. I would urge you to take your time to find the right companion, and if you are too hung up on scheduling minutiae then you might want to rethink the whole scenario.  For me to have real good time, things have to flow smoothly like a date.  

 
Hope it makes sense.

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You really think the crowd cares who I hang out with? They have better thinks to worry about.. Like their jobs, their bills, their health, the economy, the elections, hating on Dodgers because they won the WS... LOL  

 
Ridiculous statement.

This is definitely one of those unique scenarios where there is no one size fits all answer.  

 
I second those saying that it’s better if you know the provider before heading into a date like this. Hate to ruin the night with an incompatible date, theater tickets are an investment.  

 
Also I would suggest that you should expect a social rate / package, I like the idea of making an overnight of it if that’s in your budget.  In any case I would expect most providers would come up with a number once you explained what you are looking for. I would think that number would be lower if the lady knows you and finds you pleasant and respectful.  

 
I hope you find someone who will appreciate and enjoy the show and your company!