The post a couple of threads down reminded me of how often I hear this from hobbyists.  

A lot of guys say: why would I pay for a dinner date, or an overnight? I'm not paying for someone to sleep. What some of those people haven't understood, is that making love, starts from the moment I open the door, let you in, make myself vulnerable to you. That build up that leads to some sensual love making, or some serious passionate fucking. All those little things: rubbing legs during dinner, or some great conversation, or some sensual flirting and foreplay. That's the concept of GFE. If all those guys want is to do is to get off and be on their way. They'll never truly understand what they can get from being with an escort. Luckily there's plenty of guys who also enjoy the foreplay and flirting that will lead to amazing sex. That's something you just can't get in 60 minutes.  

As I explore going into longer dates myself. I realize how much I enjoy the build up and then the release. It's really fulfilling. What do u guys and girls think about going for longer dates?

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Longer dates are great.  Love overnights

ome you want to have your fun with in the bedroom. But once you get out with her, you get a glimpse of who she is IRL.

I'm happy to say that most of the time that is a very good thing. But once in a while you might find yourself in an awkward position where you're either just not vibing or it winds up being a little anti-climactic when you're used to seeing her in all sorts of dirty ways. So it can feel a little underwhelming in comparison to the sex part. I mean ... would I rather be eating with her or would I rather be fucking her

Are both my favorites along with the clock-free dates I go on.
I find that the multi-hour date is for the gent who wants to relax maybe have some drinks to get to know one another.A bit of playing and then relax a bit go to dinner and if there is time remaining another round of private time.
I really enjoy the clock-free packages I offer as it allows for a full day starting in the morning and goes all the way to late night.

Every gent is different some guys just want an hour or two (in some cases just 30min)to do their thing and then they are gone.They have no interest in dinner dates,multi-hr dates,or even overnights and that is fine it is their choice.I wouldn't knock a person for his preferences so the gents who enjoy dinner dates,multi-hr,and overnights should not be talked about in the negative way it is their choice.
I am sure there are some ladies who may not enjoy dinner dates or longer dates again their choice

I like to experience the whole person, mind and body, and to that end having dinner and perhaps staying overnight is a real pleasure for me

3 hours goes by way too fast.

I am blessed with a couple of the "right ladies"

Longer engagements are expensive, and more often than not are beyond my budget.  Also, I have found that these work best with ladies that I already know and like.  But that's just me...

First dates are usually only an hour so I can get a feel if I like the person. Once we have a connection I enjoy doing longer dates or dinner dates. I can't afford overnights and that is the real reason why I haven't done them yet. My best date not favorite provider we went for Hibachi and than back to her residence. Best date I have ever been on.
      I'm now trying to date in real life and the challenge I face is a dinner date feels like something I am doing with every girl who is not in this business paying a provider for that experience isn't something I want to do at this time. Does that makes sense but I really do enjoy learning about the person I am spending my time with. I really care about all the girl's I meet.  

Some of the things I tell the provider I make myself just as vulnerable. Vulnerability goes both ways in this world

That's not how I like to play this game.

Don't get me wrong. I love dinner dates. I just don't believe in paying for them. I'll pick up the check, the girl gets to pick jacks brain, we share some laughs, and she gets an envelope for her 4 hour rate, less whatever deal we strike prior.

To me, paying for a girls time while she is eating or sleeping is absurd. I have done the overnight thing twice but didn't pay for it. The girl needed to stay and I was ok with it to help her out.

Sometimes I will see a girl for 4 hours one night then have her come back the next morning for 2 more.

You hookers snore and I need my sleep.

You think it's easy being a dick on no sleep? Try it. It's a bitch. LOL

At least you're a realist.
Keep it real baby, lol.

i have had 3 dinner dates with 3 different ladies.  the last two were great, lots of flirting and kissing and touching under the table (and one included a bbbj in the parking garage of the restaurant).

but the very first dinner date i ever took a lady on was terrible.  she was not sexy or sensual at all, it was like i paid $200 for an awkward first date, and i can get those for free.

ladies, i would recommend that you be as sexy and forward as you can possibly be comfortable with in public, making a dinner date with you something to be remembered.

as to overnights, i still am having trouble with the idea of paying someone to sleep.  also, i am the least sexy i can be first thing in the morning, and i'm not sure i'd want to put anybody through that experience!

another problem with 24 hour dates is the idea that some ladies demand a certain amount of "alone time" on such excursions.

i dislike the idea of paying for someone to not be with me, esp. if i'm paying them to sleep as well.  if i go on vacay with a real gf (or my ex-wife when she was my wife) there was no alone time, bar the occasional bathroom breaks.

i was discussing on another board a specific lady who advertised a high rate for a 24 hour travel date, which included 7 hours sleep and 4 hours alone time.  that's 11 hours i'm paying this girl to not be conscious and/or with me, almost 50% of the day!

don't mind paying for a lady to accompany me, but then by gum she'd better be accompanying me.

However, my finances invariably get  in the way.  I'm a working stiff, not a millionaire, and I hobby by setting aside $20 per week until I have enough for a 1 hour date.  I would prefer to hire a provider for a full day and do all kinds of stuff, but at the end of the day, until I find a girlfriend, it comes down to a choice between getting some once a year or getting some half a dozen times a year.  Hence, I will only do 1 hour dates.

i'm with you, dude, i'd never take a lady on a dinner date whom i didn't already know and like, and know we got along.

I've had a few overnighters. Most were not originally planned that way, but it's where the chemistry and fun took us.

The upside is, it's about having fun overall not just sex. There is definitely more to it then an 5 second orgasm. There's the company, conversation, flirting, the build up, foreplay, multiple rounds of sex, and most importantly no time constraints. Not having in the back of your mind that it's going to end quickly in 60-90 mins and instead just go with the flow and relax is the best part. And then a beautiful woman falling asleep with you and then awesome morning sex.

If I was rolling in the dough, this would be the majority of my rendezvous.

Warning this is just me speaking
No one else needs to feel this way

 
I get the feeling a lot of girl's I have seen don't get many overnights and I feel it's due to price. From what I see an overnight can be had for $3000.00 to $5,000.00 for the night. For someone who is willing to take $1500.00 I would bet would garner a lot more attention and would get many more overnights. At $3,000.00 as much as I like the girl I would rather fly to the Bahamas for a 4 day vacation with a childhood friend brother or sister or anyone else. I don't see the value of spending 5k I'm sure if I was rich I would think differently.  

Working class man also is more likely to jump at 1500 than 3k

Blast away.

If your a women getting the 5k all the time good for you. I just would rather spend my money elsewhere.

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I love those fkkers! lol

and much more relaxed than the hourly encounter. The concept of time is blurred and you can enjoy each others company that much more without hearing the tick tock in the background. And you are right, the buildup is only the beginning. Its exciting and fun!

I Love long, passionate dates!