Posted By: escalade1964
I often wonder how I would rank in sexual performance as a male.
How can I get an honest answer?
Your thoughts if any?
And I'll give you my honest opinion!
every performance, every gal is different. Connection, chemistry all pay a role. Performance is perceived as much as "is". Your answer will vary by each gal and each date with each gal. You can't be "the best" every time with everyone.
Get yourself a civie girlfriend, have some sex with her, then surreptitiously attach a wire to her just before she goes out for a girls' night out. You might get an honest opinion that way, especially if she knocks back a few
Posted By: mrfisher
Get yourself a civie girlfriend, have some sex with her, then surreptitiously attach a wire to her just before she goes out for a girls' night out. You might get an honest opinion that way, especially if she knocks back a few.
Come to me or I wil come to you...one of the MILFiest things out there is just this. The honest chance to just be you...to improve and to practice techniques that you may or may not already feel accomplished at. I am approached with this question frequently. Most men in the hobby find it hard to really beleive that we will tell the truth...the truth is that it is a combination of skills, desire, and motivation to please. Having been with multiple men, I can quite truthfully say that there is no particular essence to the perfect partner...it is the connection. Being truly present is huge....we tend to be so distracted in general.
Posted By: escalade1964
I often wonder how I would rank in sexual performance as a male.
How can I get an honest answer?
Your thoughts if any?
Escalade's ATF e-mailed me this review. She asked me to post it on the board. --z
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Review of Escalade1964 by his ATF
Appearance: Zero
Performance: Zero
REVIEW: Well, I really needed the money and my bf just left me (again). So I started turning tricks to pay the rent. Escalade has been blowing up my phone (again), so I told him I'd see him if he'd stop calling.
He comes over and does his little 'dance'. He strips down naked, except for his cowboy hat & starts waving his micropenis around. Did I tell you I really needed the money? Ok, so I let him do his thing. He comes in 30 seconds, then cries just like that idiot Zak. I don't know why I see these guys. I really need to change my life. The End.
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Ask a providwr you've been with recently....
Posted By: escalade1964
I often wonder how I would rank in sexual performance as a male.
How can I get an honest answer?
Your thoughts if any?
One really needs to focus on the normal tell tale signs. Were the bed sheets soaked? Did she slam her arms against the walls? Did she make any unusual sounds, other than the 'Meg Ryan' moan? Did she ask you not to stop? After faking her third cum, did she look at you with glowing eyes, and a smiling face, and say "I love you"? Did she ask you for one more daty cum as you are walking out the door? Did the session go way over? Does she smother you with kisses that never stop during the entire session? Does she ask you to spend the night? Does she bring you gifts? Does she send you a quick message at 4:30 am, telling you she wants you at no charge right then, and it happens? Those are just a few little things that let me know she was pleased with performance. There are many more.
The reason the hobby is better than real life is that in real life you often get stuck with one lady who doesn't exactly suit your needs. Especially over a long period of time. In the hobby, your exact needs can be met every single time, with many different women over the years.
Every woman you see will tell you that your are a great lover because they want you to come back. If they ever critiqued you do you think you would be as willing to see her again? Would you maybe say bad things about her to other hobbyists? It would be very difficult to not take it personally. It would be bad for their business to tell you you are anything less than awesome.
I would see that provider again.
This world is fantasy and all that but if I ask you a honest question like that I want you to be honest with me and if she is she'll be rewarded for that honesty with a repeat visit from me.
That's just me.
Posted By: expat337
Every woman you see will tell you that your are a great lover because they want you to come back. If they ever critiqued you do you think you would be as willing to see her again? Would you maybe say bad things about her to other hobbyists? It would be very difficult to not take it personally. It would be bad for their business to tell you you are anything less than awesome.
They all tell me I'm their favorite. # 1.. What will worry you is that 10 might be high. Lol.
never ask a question you don't want to hear the answer to...
what seems to make your partner happiest you can probably stop worrying about your performance
I would suggest that if your dates and experiences are satisfying for you and there aren't any problems per se, during your time shared with women, then I would just enjoy it and not overthink it. However, if you are on a journey of improvement or exploration then I would just ask your dates/partners as you go along for some feedback. There have been times where I have tried new things and have asked my partner afterwards for some feedback especially someone you see on a regular basis. In order to finetune their experience with me on some new "activities" it was good to know what felt good and what didn't so as not to waste their time going in a direction that didn't hit their hot button. Obviously there is the clear "end goal" that is either achieved or not, but it is great to be humble and discreetly ask about feedback once in awhile. I think it is healthy.
