But I know what you mean.

Back 8 years ago when I was married, I'd say the ratio on an annual basis was:

Home:  2(maybe); providers: ~60-70.

why not lease it out for an incall?

I'm wondering how often you have sex at home vs. sex with providers.

I have sex at home once a month if I'm lucky.

I don't usually see providers more than once a month, but sometimes will do so.

Just curious.

no responses yet, not surprising, I'd hate to answer this and open myself up to the ridicule! lol...

If your wive doesn't want your large cock, it appears there are a lot of providers who do.....

lol... my doctor thinks I'm a Satyromaniac...

Home:  12 plus times a month often in upper to mid teens sometime over 20 time a month.
providers: 0-3 times a month, once a month is the most common sense I started hobbying. About a third of the time with my wife and a provider in a threesome.
Home sex is much better than sex with providers in my opinion. My wife is wife is very sexual, too sexual in fact.
Why do you ask?

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...with a partner?

Just out of curiosity..
If prefer home sex and your wife is very sexual, then why do you see providers?

Is it because you enjoy variety?

Seems like you haven't had the best of luck with providers?

Good Luck finding the one that will blow you away!


xoxo
Jade

OK, I do get asked that a lot.Yes, I do enjoy a variety, but that is not the main reason. The reason I see providers is my wife wants me to and I enjoy it. Now most people then asks, "Why would any woman ever want there husbands to see providers?" Well, that is a bit more complicated and to protect my wife's privacy I will not go into details on a public board under a name that some can trace back to me. Lets just say she has her reasons and my home life is far from normal. As far as my luck with providers goes I haven't had the best of luck. A large part of that is on me though. Despite my wife's blessing, I feel real guilty when I am with a provider because it feels like I am cheating. It puts a damper on the whole session. Now, I am not saying that I don't enjoy the time that I spend with providers, I do. I have even forged a close friendship with one and the really weird thing is so has my wife. My wife sees her more than I do. Oh, and I did find a lady who blows me away, I am married to her. I feel that I am lucky.

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Wow, that sounds very unusual and a bit difficult to comprehend as it seems like a conflicted circumstnce. Hope it works well for you.

Great Wifey you have there

Maybe it won't feel like cheating & you will have a better time if you enjoy the provider together as a couple.

Best of luck with everything!

Jade

Home sex with one you love and adore will always win..

Sex with a provider is variety... 9 out of 10 times.. be honest ladies
we get bored and love variety too!!!

Home sex used to be hot as Hell.  Cute blond.  Thick bush.  Heavy fluid flow.  

Fast forward 20 years.

Penetration hurts her.  No moisture.

Find reputable providers.  Cute brunettes.  Nice groomed pussies.  Decent natural lubrication.

Sex away is like turning back the hands of time.  I have ceased having sex at home, but will never leave her.

I take my wife with me about a third of the time but I often end up the third wheel. My wife is very bi. Still a great time. Don't feel guilty though but sometimes a bit jealous. lol. Still one on one with my wife is better in my opinion. By the way, yes, my wife is great I would not trade her in for anything. I am one lucky man.