Some of the White Knights around here might even suggest that you owe her for her time regardless.

My thoughts on the subject are quite different. If the pics are misleading and in your opinion "meant to mislead", I would turn around and not leave one red cent.

OTOH if it is more of lack of chemistry, a cancellation fee might be in line. Anywhere from twenty bucks for gas to up to a hundred bucks if you feel like you are not going to enjoy the session, but you don't feel like you were misled.

For your own sake and as a favor to your fellow hobbyists, DO NOT reward bad behavior, and let your big head do the thinking. The number of reviews that start of with "she wasn't the girl in the pics, but I was already there so....." are too numerous to count and are the major reason that some still use the B&S tactic.

If all hobbyists would walk the moment they felt they were misled, and not leave a fucking penny to the ROBs who pull this shit, maybe, just maybe, these women would stop their shenanagins. Not likely, but taking the profit motive out of the equation would be a good start.

Don't listen to the White Knights and Manginas who will try and convince you that you owe a woman that was trying to rip you off a single penny.

The first is "pics aren't accurate (and you're not attracted to what's in front of you now), well then you have just been baited and switched on. The envelope should have never left you pocket at that point. I would walk just on principle alone. Many guys do let their little head work for them if the new girl is half way good looking.

The others are perhaps open for discussion.

I have wanted to split on a date a few times, but have never had the guts. In my case though it was more for shitty performances, not fake pics. And by the time the writing was on the wall, too late to bail. I'm determined to split on my next bad date though. If it ever happens again,(I'd insert an eye roll here, but I don't know how). Knowing me though, I'd probably leave some cash behind. Maybe $50? The deal with shitty dates though is you don't know you are having one till the business side is done.

Lets see if i can do this while inebriated

Hope Gia doesn't complain about my drinking.

Different situations:

Pics aren't accurate; you turn around and bail. That's false advertising. Bullshit. Next

Atmosphere isn't right; Tough shit. You stayed. You can't determine atmosphere until you've been there awhile. You eat it.

Disinterested; once again you stayed. Her reviews WOULD have pointed out her interest in her company. You eat it again.

The last one I don't feel obligated to answer; you FINISHED a session? Do i need to go on with this one?????

I'm guessing you failed HOMEWORK 101. NO SOUP FOR YOU!!!!


Hey; not bad for a half-wit half-drunk!!!

If you arrive and she is NOT what was represented in her ads in any substantive way -- then you leave, immediately, with all your funds. Deception of that sort cannot be rewarded.

Likewise, if she is under the influence of alcohol or drugs. I agree with Hound dog on that part. Sorry -- if she can't give consent, leave with the money.

Same if there is a hygiene issue. It goes without saying you expect her to be quite literally clean enough to eat and if she's not -- she hasn't delivered on her end of the bargain.

So -- hygiene, drugs, and misrepresentation = leave and no $.

BUT -- once she has made it past that stage, I believe you owe her for the appointment unless she's doing something really outside of limits.

You have to take control, be firm, be respectful, and let her know that it isn't going to work out. Did you get a good look at her before she came into the room?