1) when I shared my Preferred 411 handle with a provider and she saw that I had approximately 30 approvals. She called me back to cancel the appointment apologizing and saying that she was worried I would be high risk.

2) When I ask an agency lady if she would like me to write a review and she said, "No". I spent few moments trying to explain that the review would be very positive and that she would benefit from it ... nothing else no requests for any favors. The next time I called the booking lady said that the lady refuses to see me saying that our discussion of reviews had freaked her out.

If this is what causes providers to freak out, I guess I qualify.

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I thought was was a super freak.  But according to your list, I'm Lawrence Welk.

Thanks.  I'm gonna eat some bran now.

While arranging the appointment I mentioned that I was rather large in the belly and the kind young lady said it would cost me extra to partake in her services.  It was the first time I had heard of a Fat Tax.

I understand and can appreciate the "two call system" But I will not get suckered in again by the 'go here & call me again' followed by 'go here & call me again', then repeat.


Oh, by the way, can you send me some private pictures?  

"1) Sending me multiple emails, sms-es AND calls to confirm our date"

Jade, I'm not sure why that freaks you out but I've experienced numerous providers who don't reply in a timely manner. My time is valuable as well. I'm changing around my business schedule to make time and if I can't confirm an appt in a timely manner, I assume she's not interested and move on. However, I've had two different providers  contact me at the last minute saying that everything was OK AFTER I had already moved on. Now what do I do? Who do I cancel, the new appt or the original one who finally confirmed after no replies?  The first time a last-minute confirmation came in, I was stupid and followed through on the original appt only to piss off the other provider. Never again, made that mistake only once and now I have a policy - avoid providers who don't reply within 12 hours of an email, call, or SMS. I don't send multiple emails per day but I will send two, one in the morning and one at night. If she can't reply within 12 hours, she's either unreliable, irresponsible, or not interested so I go looking elsewhere. Which brings me to another point. If a provider doesn't want to see someone, they should just say so instead of leaving us hanging by not communicating. If they mistake us for LE, why not just send a short message and say something like "please don't contact me again"? Plain & clear, we'll get it ain't gonna happen.

I've been avoiding this site for this very reason. One man on this site has made it his mission to stalk me under various aliases and torment me endlessly. As if he thinks I will wake up and say, "I should give that crazy-ass bastard a second chance. After all, he wouldn't be so psycho obsessive if he didn't really like me, would he?"

Haha!