I was having this conversation with a guy recently:

I don't like to fuck a particular type of woman, unless "hot" is an ethnic group.  I like all kinds.  It depends on the day.

I like to fuck women of all races, hair colors, skin colors, etc

as for LTR's there is really no rhyme or reason as to who I end up with, I've had LTRs with women of all races and even with women who barely spoke English, actually several women who barely spoke English.

Of course I am a mutt, if I were only to settle down with women "Like me" I would be looking at a very small talent pool.

As for what my family, friends, et al thinks is acceptable where it comes to my love life, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a fuck"  I am way too selfish to care about what other people think.

If I liked women who are totally and completely opposite of me, I'd fck women who are dumb, not good looking, unclassy, unrefined, smelly like rotten fish, stupid, cold-hearted, and just plain mean...  

I'm Anglo but I married a Chinese girl. When I seek a provider I usually go for anglo girls like myself. I guess I'm the opposite of what you propose.

Thanks for playing!

I married a woman with whom I shared race, politics, intelligence, social status, etc but it only lasted for 52 years. Since she died I have fk a variety of women, Caucasians, Asians, all of them younger than me (not many 80+ providers), all more beautiful than me. I select on what is between their ears and in their heart as well as how they look. All are hot! Thus I don't agree with your observation.

You could try cold women but I don't think they'd be too responsive.

my personal relationships are pretty much exclusively with women in their mid 30s, usually Caucasian, often European.   I am very strongly drawn to a certain "type" in terms of relationships but not at all when it comes to sport....

You might be on to something, because I'm difficult and I like women who are easy.

Despite the others' comments, I still think you're the exception, not the norm!

The political/social differences have always been of significance in who I pair bond with, settle down with, live with. I disregard that in terms of which providers I visit because I have no idea who they are in that way before meeting them. And I don't usually bother to find out. I prejudge a little, assuming that most providers are more conservative. And that they mostly stem from middleclass families.

...your mom?  I can see that; she's hot.  Look ma, I'm a shrink on TER!  Aren't you proud of me?!

My ex-husband (and the love of my life) was a dark-skinned man from the hood who never made it past a high-school education.  Our pictures together were a constant source of comedy because it was either me standing next to a black shadow...or him standing next to a washed out ghost.  But he was definitely my physical ideal.

as well they should be.

After all, marriage is a long term commitment filled with legal and spiritual obligations.  I choose a partner there based on the person's character mostly, among other things, my sexual desire for them being one, but not the primary one.

But on a P4P date, sexual desire pretty much tops the list, and yes, strangeness can be sexy.

and for the record, you would be absolutely CORRECT

So dramatic, you!

The similarities and common interests is the glue that can hold us together; but it's the differences that really bring the excitement into the relationship.

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

I was having this conversation with a guy recently:  
   
 I am of the opinion/observation that people tend to MARRY people who are similar to themselves.  Same race, religion, background, socio economic class, education, etc.  Of course not always, but generally people marry partners who "fit" whats acceptable to their family, peers, and social circle.  
   
 But people seem to like to fck people who are much different than themselves.  For ex: White guys like to fck dark skinned women or Asian women or brunette exotic looks.  Black men like to fck blondes, Latinas, etc.  Fat guys like skinny girls, skinny guys like chunky girls. Old guys like fcking younger girls, young guys like fcking older women...  
   
 So my question is: Do you guys agree?   Did you settle down with a girl who looks like you, but tend to like to fck women who are your opposite?