I have a well-meaning question.  Would it be incredibly rude to offer or ask another hobbyist to TOFTT with a financial incentive?

For example, you come across a provider ad on CL, like the pic and want to try.  You're worried she might be a rip off or maybe even LE.  You're not willing to risk either, so you wait around and see if maybe she gets reviewed.

Say, what if you offered another hobbyist half the donation as financial incentive for them to try the provider out and then report back to you and the TER community?

That way you could know, without any direct risk to you, what to be expected, guaranteeing a pleasant meeting or avoiding a scam / bust.

there are a few providers in your area I'd like to see, but the have no reviews, and good chance they're LE. For a couple hundred bucks, would you stick your neck out for me and take the risk of getting busted because I'd really like to see them. GEEEEZZZZ!

If I handled the session responsibly, never specifically offered money for sexual acts in return and kept my wits about me, I don't see where I could get into any real trouble.  

I'd have to be dumb to get that far in and not realize I was being coerced to say or do something that is against the law.  And at that point I would just express a misunderstanding.

I would do it....for the full amount, plus, say 100 bucks, for the risk of going to jail, getting robbed, etc.

Why would anyone pay even part of the fee to see a girl YOU want to see AND take on 100% of the risk? If I take 100% risk, you take 100% financial responsibility. The half-fee thing may work for you and a friend who wants to see the same girl, but no way with someone I don't know.

there has to a reviewd provider in your area that is attractive to you so why would you want to risk anything when you dont have to.

for every 10 ads you see of unreviewed girls, this is what you can expect.


2 = rob/cash & dash/beat you up
1 = le
4 = flake out/stand you up
2 = butt ass fugly using fake pics
1 = ok

maybe 1 out of 50 you will have a great experience.

I guess if you can find a guy dumb enough to accept the offer then it's worth a shot. Of course, if he gets busted he won't be able to report back...

There is an easier, and cheaper, way to guarantee a pleasant meeting. Stick with well reviewed TER providers.

Just western union the money to me and I'll do all the TOFTTing you ever wanted.

Slighty OT, but a couple of years ago we had a TOFTTing pool going here in Atlanta. Several of us, all with the extra disposable  cash, and all very experienced hobbyists, took turns trying out unreviewd ladies that piqued all of our interests. We found many diamonds in the rough. All in all it was a great time. Our batting average was way, way better than one out of fifty.

You can still get arrested, maybe not convicted, but for married guys the arrest is just as bad. For someone like me who is selfemployed and single, an arrest is a simple inconvenience.

You seem to know exactly what to do, so you do it. Why would anyone else stick their neck out for you?

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