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I don’t even know if TER would let you post a GoFundMe link. Without a GoFundMe, I don’t think many people would trust sending money.

janetjkapp3125 reads

there is a provider based out of chesapeake va. i have been following her story. apparently one of her clients confessed his love for her and she continued to see him. soon after he viciously assaulted her and put her in the hospital for months. she's an older provider...well into her 60s. looking at her pics from prior to the assault...i was really thinking about seeing her. she recently created a  profile on another site  and posted some new pics and what i see is an elderly woman...made me a little uncomfortable like somebody had held someone's grandmother at gunpoint and made her take pics in lingerie. anyhow she has approx 300 reviews on TER so she's definitely been a solid provider over the years. i feel like the game owns her a little something. so what do you guys think...i realize that only she can make the decision to retire but maybe if we raise some money for her that might help her make that decision.

It's a shame what happened but you make it sound like you're not physically attracted to her. So what would be the point of having sex with her out of pity? Just give her some money, if that will make you feel better.
Actually, I've done that myself once with a woman I"d previously seen and also worked a M&G with. Another woman (whom I also knew and trusted) told me she'd been assaulted and it would take months for her to recover, so I made a contribution. Why not do that?

my point is. she needs enough money for retirement. i could simply give her a few bucks but what is that doing. if we could raise a significant amount of money maybe she could take that money figure out what's next in her life.

I feel a lot worse for someone who never made more than a few hundred dollars a week than someone still making hundreds of dollars per hour.

 
I'd rather donate my money to some poor woman who at 60 years old is still slaving away at a Waffle House somewhere, or one of the maids who cleans up after her in a hotel for 8 bucks and hour than donate to a hooker who has fucked THOUSANDS of guys at several hundreds of dollars for each and every one of them yet still finds herself broke in her twilight years.

 
Let me put it this way, If I were to go belly up someday and I was broke on my ass without a pot to piss in, How many people would feel sorry for me after the life I have lived if I were to end up on the street one day? NOBODY would donate a fucking penny to someone like me, nor should they. PLEASE tell me why we should reach into our pockets and give money that we could be giving to somebody else to someone who has undoubtedly made MILLIONS of dollars from johns like us?

He also didn't tell us she does grandma porn on the side. No cash from me!

KJ523397 reads

Maybe he was suggesting something along the lines of a "Go fund me page" OK so I ask you have you really thought of helping out that old lady at the Waffle House? I'm guessing this other old lady is not turning tricks these days after her ordeal. Just trying to read through the lines.

Angel4Life93 reads

This lady had  a GFM page early on....I think the story broke 6 months ago.  I remember when the white trash dirt bag  was arrested!

I just felt the need to say that while providers make alot per hour they dont usually work a 40 hour week. I know this is not on topic but some of us dont work many hours. And Gaga i would still feel for you and help if i could if you went broke. There are many reasons a person isnt financially ready for retirement. My plan was that i would be dead. I just felt i would die young. Yet here i still am, OLD. But still have great tits.

I'd be reaching out to setup an appointment. Sigh...

Situation with money is similar to attorneys. Their rate is what it is, but they do not bill 40 hours a week. Often it's not even close to that.

....they only work a forty hour week.  That's why they're attorneys!

attorneys work in a week, and the amount of time they bill for, are often two different numbers.  I kid you not.  

GaGambler113 reads

I love people who love to donate other peoples money. If you really cared your post would have read "I already sent her $300, and I was hoping maybe some of the rest of you would join me in helping her"

 
But NOOOOOO, you come on here asking the rest of us to open OUR pocketbooks for some unknown hooker that you haven't named, although you left enough hints that I am sure anyone can figure it out.  

 
And NO, the "game" doesn't owe anyone a fucking thing. People are responsible for their own life choices, TER used to be full of panhandling hookers, thankfully most of them now do their panhandling on Twitter. We all know who they are.

 
The average john here probably makes no more than $40-50 an hour, hookers that make ten times that amount yet still panhandle their customers elicit not one single drop of sympathy from me. But if you want to make yourself feel good, PLEASE feel free to make a generous contribution to this woman.

I don’t even know if TER would let you post a GoFundMe link. Without a GoFundMe, I don’t think many people would trust sending money.

John_Laroche97 reads

What's her IRA balance? Is she eligible for social security,  Medicare,  etc ?

 
I pay my taxes,  currently at the max Federal rate, and don't complain because it supports a social safety net for others that do the same.

If the whore was a waitress or a postal worker would anybody go on a public forum and do virtual panhandling?

It is bad enough some whores panhandle with wish lists.

My favorite charities are me, myself and I.

Buzz off and fly the sign on Twitter.

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This is one ugly, angry message, Oldtimemonger. Don't bother replying as I'm blocking you and won't see it but really, truly, shame on you. Sure, lots of people are hurting right now and merit assistance no matter their occupation but no one needs to read your bilious, hate--filled reply.

Thinking of most of those in the dining, catering, and hospitality industries.  Unless one worked for a big brand, more than likely that person does not have any sort of retirement unless they invested in their own.  While I might feel a little bad for this provider, she is one of many who are facing some rough retirement years.  Social security certainly isn’t enough for people to get by on, and they are really assed out if they didn’t work enough quarters to earn any (if it still works that way).  Maybe I’m wrong, but I just don’t see many people putting money towards some stranger’s retirement fund.  Sure, some might be altruistic enough to help, but I imagine it would be extremely difficult to round up much money especially from those who don’t know this provider.  I for one have known a few providers who were headed for hard times as they were aging or BSCing out, but I also know these same providers squandered their earnings.  Not saying this one did, but why is this one deserving more than any other provider here?  Anyhow, I wish you luck on this endeavor.

But a one time cash deposit will not help her retire. Not unless we are talking mid six figures or more at least. She needs an exit strategy she wants to follow. Like getting a job to supplement her retirement incomes. Again I am sorry what happened, happened.

I'd say good luck with that, and as you can see by the response this may not have been the best forum to bring this up.It's a tough crowd here to garnish that kinda of support especially when guys have dished out XXX for a few minutes of "pleasure".Some may not connect the dots when they see someone who might be struggling who kinda made lawyers fees per hour to actually struggling. These two worlds of thought really don't exist here.
But I have to commend you for being concerned for her well being for now and in the future. This was just the wrong place and maybe wrong time to approach this here.
Good Luck

thousands of other providers have done in a similar situation.  They lower their rate until the market finds them and they will have plenty of business.   There's a niche market for granny sex, and she can dominate it at the right price because of her review history.   I would not be a potential customer because I don't see providers over 59.  

I think when there's a gofoundme involved of some sort, there needs to be some fact-check.

 
It's not that I don't trust that she had a terrible event happen to her, but people need some kind of validation that this isn't just some attempt to play off people's pity feelings in order to get easy money.

And if it did happen, I feel very sorry for her and I'm sure people would help out.

AnotherDonJohn106 reads

Honestly there is a long line of people right now hurting with their hand out.  

I don’t know OP from a hole in the wall so OP, you should just help her out in any way you have the means to...

Angel4Life111 reads

It happened...she was in ICU for 6 days and had multiple surgeries.  More are scheduled.  I cannot find the link to the article, but they caught the white trash dirt bag who beat her up.....I am not sure where the case has progressed.

Rackhunter110 reads

would you call him black trash if he were black
I bet not

I don't know about Chesepeake, VA, but many cities and states have public or public-private or charity organizations who provide financial and other assistance to victims of violent crime. Does this woman have a Social Services advocate? Get her one ASAP. They could help her with application for $ support and also with legal actions against the assailant. (From the sounds of your description, the police have grounds to file charges whether she wants to file or not.)  
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http://www.aftermath.com/resources/victims-assistance-programs/
CRIME VICTIM COMPENSATION
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http://www.benefits.gov/benefit/4416
State Crime Victims Compensation
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http://victimconnect.org/resources/financial-assistance/
"Every state has a crime victim or criminal injuries compensation program to help pay some of the out-of-pocket expenses for victims of crime. Most programs are limited to victims of violent crimes,  ..."

Posted By: janetjkapp

there is a provider based out of chesapeake va. i have been following her story. apparently one of her clients confessed his love for her and she continued to see him. soon after he viciously assaulted her and put her in the hospital for months.

Black--Panther123 reads

At least I think true. Saw the story and accompanying pictures. She was beat up pretty bad. Will see if I can find pictures. That being said, the game owns her. She could retire, just match money coming in to money going out. You can live comfortably in another country, on social security, with good health insurance. One may not want to or be away from family - but choices. In this case, live safely and in a nice country - or risk getting beat up or killed.  Choices.

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