if a high end provider booked a motel for your tryst..would you cancel?

By high end I mean anything above $400 as far as I am concerned. So lets get that out of the way...

I will cancel for 2 reasons....

If she is charging me north of $400 she needs to present herself in a professional manner. Motels are neither romantic nor professional.

Secondly, for security reasons. Most motels have outward facing doors. A cop spying from a parking lot can easily see what's going on, and I don't want to be in such a situation....

Alternatively, I may invite her over if that option is available.

I'm divorced, not concerned with losing my job, and not scared of LE so it wouldn't necessarily be a dealbreaker. I don't care who sees me coming or going, and what the hell would anyone I know be doing at a motel anyway unless they were also up to no good.

I would definitely be interested in her explanation of why she was using a motel though.

You better make sure it has an elevator. We wouldn't want you to fall and break your hip.

....I have agreed with Curly twice, in as many weeks!

  Now, back to the question.  As a courtesan who offers an experience vs a session, I would never choose a motel to entertain.  Granted, not all cities have four and five star hotels, but I would never entertain at a motel/hotel, where a gentleman did not have access to an indoor elevator, etc.  Also, as Curly mentioned; motels are not romantic!  And they usually have terrible towels!

  Many years ago, when I began in this quirky profession, the lady who mentored me told me that your hourly rate should coincide with your hotel room cost per night.  Now, I realize that you can get a good deal through different travel sites, but I will not take the chance of not being in the area I want to be in, or stuck with a two star hotel, when I paid for four.  I book through a few private clubs: lhw and iprefer, which offers upgrades, early check in/late check out.

  Just my .02

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

I"ve gone to a number of low rent motels in my hobbying career and never had a problem doing so.  As to what I would perceive as the 2 concerns: 1) once I get going with why I'm there, I really don't care if there's a mint on the pillow or not and 2) as far as LE is concerned, if I'm confident that the girl I'm seeing is NOT one of them (which given my proclivity for adult film actresses who provide is usually well into the high 90th percentile of probability) any other contact with a cop would lead nowhere.  I know exactly what they need to get a case and they ain't getting from me!  Something about the right against self-incrimination!  Not only do I have the right to remain silent, unlike most, I would have the wherewithal to invoke it!

as previously mentioned, I've  been to plenty of motels with catwalks and doors that open to the outside. It's not my favorite type of incall, but with reasonable precautions I've managed to survive.

So is a courtesan a hooker?

And I guess I missed the definitions of an experience and a session.  Yet...the reviews that you have don't seem to suggest any differences between you and a hooker.

Oh..this was about hotel rooms...sorry

It has a certain clinical elan, so you can charge way more than a mere courtesan.

I was actually referring just to hotel vs motel rooms... Should have clarified that "Hooktards should refrain from commenting..."

But I guess, its a free board and a free country...

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>And they usually have terrible towels!  

That is the worst crime in my book.  The provider comes back to clean you up with a hand towel, just as you are at your most sensitive.  Not a good time for the rough stuff

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The difference between a low budget, stank ass motel versus a high end place is the environment. Low budget, you have to worry about your car, hoodlums hanging around, pimps and thugs, and all sorts of crazy shit. With high end hotels, the demographics is better, the location as you mentioned, the rooms are better, and more privacy. There is no privacy for a low budget shit hole.

There is a big difference. If a high end booker books a motel 6 next to 7 eleven, then I'm not booking the appointment. The rooms look like shit, and its no place where I want to fuck. Too many crazy people hanging around there.

For me it is all about the food, not the service or decor.

Sure, I prefer a nice incall, be it a hotel or even better an apartment. But I am there to spend time with the lady, and if she is the real deal, I do not give a hoot about the hotel, motel, or whatever. And the opposite is true - no matter how nice the hotel, a lousy provider is still a lousy provider. In fact, I am much less likely to remember the surroundings on a good date than a bad one.

As for why she is doing it - how difficult is that? Either convenience or money. And I am okay with a lady saving herself some money, or making her life easier.

zig

Lots of other questions, as well.  Way too general a question to say an always yes or no to.

I can definitely say that I have seen a high-end provider in a shitty location, but that was based entirely on trust.

was a 1200 per hour porn star..first time seeing her..i knew the location..rundown and dingy..i thought she had more class than that..i cancelled..