I was wondering how much of a difference it makes to clients whether a provider does private incalls or only hotel incalls. How many clients refuse to do a hotel incall with a provider and why? Or vice versa.

me is that I will go to a residential incall, but I won't go to a hotel incall.  Its because the vast majority of LE stings on hobbyists are from fake hotel incalls.  I will do outcall to me in a hotel, but never an incall.  NEVER.  

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High diamond rated hotels are more secure for me, I have a few bad and unpleasant experiences with private incals in my region, ie parking, neighbors, gates, etc and one other thing if you only utilized it for business and recreational purposes, just imagine the traffic that will create in such a place...

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...i seldom see a local provider at a hotel/motel 4 an incall any more,too sloppy and used...if you're visiting,thats different-there are a lot more amazing places to fuck in a private incall...

Just feels more comfortable to me.  However, it seemed to me that during the time I was active before (late 90s-early 2000s), providers almost stopped using private incalls--it was just about always a hotel.  For me that hasn't been a deal-breaker.

You might want to reach out to providers who already have an incall apartment to see if you can work out a sharing arrangement with them.

I'm not questioning what you are doing or saying - more myself based on what you say.  

Thanks for the suggestion but I don't like the idea of doing that. If they get caught, I get pulled under the bus with them. Plus it would be nice not having to check with someone else and to always have the space free when I need it. For a low volume provider I imagine that's not a problem. But I'm mid-range and I don't want to miss out on shorter notice appointments because I'm sharing and don't have enough notice.  

A meeting is built on trust, and only see people i'm comfortable with so I'd be OK with pretty much anywhere with one exception - motels (with rooms facing an outside corridor) would make me a bit nervous.

Beside its' less likely to be LE sting (every little bit helps to make me more comfortable is good), I have found I experienced less cancellations and NCNS.

I would never get a motel when I say hotel incalls I mean boutique and/or upscale hotels in Midtown. Or possibly in a neighborhood closer to the client. I'll give recharge a shot and let you know how I like it

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Private Incall where there are nosy neighbors would not be good. I have seen providers in hotels, condos, apartments, houses, etc., and it usually makes no difference to me. However there was an Incall situation a couple years ago that made me uncomfortable. The provider rented a little one bedroom apartment that was behind a house. You had to park on the street, then walk through the carport of the main house and go up some steps to her apartment.

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TEHO, what ever makes you but I just find your choice a little odd. For one thingyou have mentioned numerous times how you don't go near sites like BP, and you only use TER and I find it odd that you would even worry about a sting.
Secondly I have heard many stories of busts at static in calls because of neighbors reporting all the comings and goings.
For me, as I said below, I am okay with either/or.  Do what makes you comfortable, but I find your reasoning odd.

like pets, roomies or having to be quiet not to distract  
others in the building/neighbors.  

As a Manhattan resident, I forget sometimes people still have to worry about parking. You make a great point.

My pets of choice would be gerbils. Not distracting at all :p

As a provider I have my own private in-call location. I think it is better as the man feels much more comfortable coming to my private location instead of a hotel. Also, everything that I need is in my in-call. I mean yeah you can have a in-call at a hotel but your always bringing all your things with you do have a appointment. I just think the man likes it better as a private in-call. Or maybe thats just my preference.

For me, it doesn't make a difference.  I would just suggest avoiding the smaller boutique hotels which are usually smaller.  Go with the larger hotels where there is more foot traffic and people can blend into the crowds.

It's hard for me to argue with anyone who quotes Kierkegaard

... or for anyone who can spell Kierkegaard (which I can't - thank you cut & paste).

I agree that the lights shine a little brighter on us coming to visit at a boutique hotel, but my last two visits to one showed me how casual hotel personnel are to us as long as we play nice.  

its based on having gone in the past, many years ago, and not being comfortable with the setup.  I don't enjoy myself if I am worrying about other things.  

Re: It's hard for me to argue with anyone who quotes Kierkegaard

Haha Atleast you know what your deal-breakers are

Maybe it helps if the provider gives you directions to the elevator so you don't have to stumble around finding it. I've mastered the art of walking with confidence and finding the elevator easily or at least giving that illusion lol. It's nice when the client gives me directions to the elevator though just to speed things up.

One provider in our area has a very nice apartment which apparently is used only for business and not for living.

I looked it up but sadly it's not available for Android until the Spring. And I don't think they've included cities outside of California yet. Oh well. I'll stick to day use and Expedia for now.

1.  Outcall to my hotel.
2.  Incall at a residence.  I'm not too thrilled about going to a provider's hotel for incall, which would definitely put a damper on seeing touring providers...

I personally know cops that have used apartments to do stings, specifically to get people like you. People who think that cops only use a hotel and not an apartment. Never assume with LE.