Ok who has had this happen to them, a provider that I see pretty regularly tells me today she loves me! I have to say I am having thoughts about seeing her again. What happened was we where having trouble making a time work and she tells me to please come see her she loves me, I am in this for some fun not a relationship. What do you think never see her again?
so I mentioned meeting for lunch. Sure no problem said that will be a $1200 fee! Reality check.
I am sorry to bring the bad news, 'joeforyou' , but in a world of fantasy and pleasure , "I Love You" is a scam...
So, my advice is : play it safe if you are reeeeaally 'in this for some fun' ;
it is a scam to get more money. If you saw her a lot and she has had many MANY conversations with you, it MAY be true.
You know how many guys text/email/call their favs and say that they miss them/love them? Do you want to bet on how many gals will play along?
If she loves you, p4p is no longer an option as she will feel guilty about doing it. That is the end of story. Real love is not wanting anything but the person.
Unless the money exchange stops, it's not love, it's love of money.
...trouble "making a time work" and she was afraid she might lose your business so she told you she loves you in hopes you wouldn't get frustrated and see someone else.
she wont charge you in the future.
So next time you meet, if she asks for payment, she does not love you, if its free, she loves you.
How refreshing 
I let an "I love you" slip while donig the dirty with a provider recently. I am well into my 3rd decade of marriage, and it is "muscle memory" something that can just slip out as a natural course of the activity. She never blinked, clearly wasn't the first time she had it happen and she intuitively understood what was going on.
You enjoy her, see her again and don't act any differently. If it actually becomes a topic of discussion at the session, then you have a context that you don't like and you are politely done with her. No reason to drop an ATF over something so natural to say to someone with whom you are repeatedly enjoying intimacy.
She was most likely expressing appreciation for you as a client and it came out wrong
otherwise, spend your time with someone who is more respectful of you.
You seem to be developing an edge lately! Interesting development!
I love your money?
Posted By: joeforyou17
Ok who has had this happen to them, a provider that I see pretty regularly tells me today she loves me! I have to say I am having thoughts about seeing her again. What happened was we where having trouble making a time work and she tells me to please come see her she loves me, I am in this for some fun not a relationship. What do you think never see her again?
began to scream, "I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! MARRY ME! MARRY ME!
Now I've had lots of girls say memorable things to me during hot sex (like, "I'm jerking you off in my ass!" for example). But that was the funniest thing anyone's every said to me.
Oh, well, there was that time when a 10/10 gal looked up at me from a BBBJ and said, "I wanna be your ATM."
I swear it's all true. So many memorable moments in this game. Thanks for reminding me.
I mean...ummm.....ATF....hehehe.....
i love all my ladies..and in return they all love me..by keeping it a level playing field..there is no room for jealousy or spite..
The I love your money scenario is not it, she actually told me come see her don't worry about the donation I miss and love you. Don't quote me lol. The whole thing freaks me out a little , maybe I am reading to much into this but I had a problem once with a provider who was getting a little to close and wanted more then just to have fun, it was a bad situation. Thanks for all the responses though , still not sure what to do lol
That would scare me off big time.
You said it yourself. That can lead to a bad situation.
The free sex is not worth it.
You do not want a pissed off love sick girl after you.
Any girl escort, or civie.
If she said don't worry about the fee and come see her because she loves and misses you, she's not looking for business, she's looking for a relationship. You say you're not looking for a relationship, but for fun. How can you not know what to do? Run away. Fast, and without looking back.
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That's the way I am leaning. She is great but do not need that aggregation
My guess is a free session or two with whispers of the I love you's is a means to an end.
She's planning to go in for the kill. Baiting you, and once you're hood winked she will hit you up for the big pay out.
I swear, some of you men will believe anything your told. Especially when you're under the pussy ether.
and find out afterwards that the pussy is closed for business.
I have clients I love to see some Im very fond of and a few i love as dear friends after 7yrs of this *relationship* you see anyne that long every week you have a relationship one with boundries but there is a relationship of sorts there.
Do i want more than this...No.
Will I miss him if this were to end...yes.
BUT I am not in love with him
she loves to see you thats probably it.
Its a familiar relaible comfortable connection,
dont over think it.
Saying the three words in the hobby is nothing more than a ploy. Sprinkling the "be back powder". If you're sucker enough to buy into it, alrighty then...you may be a poor lonely sap looking for love in all the wrong places. There may be providers out here who may actually daydream of a life with a person she meets through this playpark. If you meet her, move on because she probably has a screw loose. I have met a ton of great men in this arena but I damn sure wouldnt ever consider a life long partnership with even one of them. Its paid pussy. Have fun, fuck, pay, get paid, and everybody go back to your own lives and stay out of the lives of others. Pretty simple stuff.
Doesn't exist.....in the P4P, there will always be an ulterior motive behind it.
Love is strange. I know of several so-far-successful marriages between providers and clients. Exception to the rule? Sure. But it happens.
but the reverse is possible. If you are free & interested, you might want to follow up on it. If you are not free, or not interested... or willing to support the 2 of you... than stay away. Normally the L-O-V-E word is poison to a provider.
I used to have a provider who texted/emailed me at least once a month. She always told me how much she missed me and how much she wanted to see me. I told her money was tight and suggested some freebie/OTC. She never bothered me after that. You should try it.
I give this post a 10/10.
