lets see every girls I ever dated asks me what kind of car and what do I do. basically , what do I have .
after thousands of dollars ( my choice ) going out, seeing shows ,going for dinner , going on trips , buying clothes ( for her ) ocassionally living on my homes she denies me sex. she disappears at times and she lies .. know for me since ive dates her as a person I care for shes special so I try to talk , they don't listen or communicate .. we break up ..
the guys here , many ...no sex married , wives who are overweight , semi fugly etc.....then they we find companionship , a girl , a friend and escort ... sometimes just for and hour .. one fucking hour of time with a woman to kiss us ,hold us , love us ..or to live out a fantasy denied to us by those whom we thought would do everything for us ...
know my question , these women are VICTIMS , cheating men , dogs , scum, liars , etc... makes no fucking sense to me whatsoever .. I understand there is no one size fits all in this scenario however when I see so many men talk about their personal lives as ive seen here over the years and how that one hour has helped them deal with the loneliness of and in their lives are they , these men really so bad .. or are they just looking for love in the wrong place because the woman in the right place isn't giving it ...
thank you all for indulging me today ... and feel free to respond with your opinions if you so wish .. for I wish that in my life I find the one woman who truly satisfies and fulfills me for and as the man that I am .........thank you BIB ......
hi , its an absolute miracle I discovered paragraphs , periods ( not the female type ) and skipping lines . see all you have to do is ask nicely . not hard you can do it , and maybe people will listen . okay have a nice day and reply nicely if you so choose .. cause I know you read my shit . like the others . you just cant get enough ..and yes that is what the ladies say after they see me .. they just cant get enough , then they fuck it up . that's what my op is about .
after thousands of dollars ( my choice ) going out, seeing shows ,going for dinner , going on trips , buying clothes ( for her ) ocassionally living on my homes she denies me sex. she disappears at times and she lies .. know for me since ive dates her as a person I care for shes special so I try to talk , they don't listen or communicate .. we break up ..
the guys here , many ...no sex married , wives who are overweight , semi fugly etc.....then they we find companionship , a girl , a friend and escort ... sometimes just for and hour .. one fucking hour of time with a woman to kiss us ,hold us , love us ..or to live out a fantasy denied to us by those whom we thought would do everything for us ...
know my question , these women are VICTIMS , cheating men , dogs , scum, liars , etc... makes no fucking sense to me whatsoever .. I understand there is no one size fits all in this scenario however when I see so many men talk about their personal lives as ive seen here over the years and how that one hour has helped them deal with the loneliness of and in their lives are they , these men really so bad .. or are they just looking for love in the wrong place because the woman in the right place isn't giving it ...
thank you all for indulging me today ... and feel free to respond with your opinions if you so wish .. for I wish that in my life I find the one woman who truly satisfies and fulfills me for and as the man that I am .........thank you BIB ......
can you not read .. geez( old guy word ) have some respect for privacy . bunch of peeping toms . and tomettes . lol
every one have a great day who knows what tomorrow will bring .
after thousands of dollars ( my choice ) going out, seeing shows ,going for dinner , going on trips , buying clothes ( for her ) ocassionally living on my homes she denies me sex. she disappears at times and she lies .. know for me since ive dates her as a person I care for shes special so I try to talk , they don't listen or communicate .. we break up ..
the guys here , many ...no sex married , wives who are overweight , semi fugly etc.....then they we find companionship , a girl , a friend and escort ... sometimes just for and hour .. one fucking hour of time with a woman to kiss us ,hold us , love us ..or to live out a fantasy denied to us by those whom we thought would do everything for us ...
know my question , these women are VICTIMS , cheating men , dogs , scum, liars , etc... makes no fucking sense to me whatsoever .. I understand there is no one size fits all in this scenario however when I see so many men talk about their personal lives as ive seen here over the years and how that one hour has helped them deal with the loneliness of and in their lives are they , these men really so bad .. or are they just looking for love in the wrong place because the woman in the right place isn't giving it ...
thank you all for indulging me today ... and feel free to respond with your opinions if you so wish .. for I wish that in my life I find the one woman who truly satisfies and fulfills me for and as the man that I am .........thank you BIB ......
...In all the wrong places...
every one have a great day who knows what tomorrow will bring .
after thousands of dollars ( my choice ) going out, seeing shows ,going for dinner , going on trips , buying clothes ( for her ) ocassionally living on my homes she denies me sex. she disappears at times and she lies .. know for me since ive dates her as a person I care for shes special so I try to talk , they don't listen or communicate .. we break up ..
the guys here , many ...no sex married , wives who are overweight , semi fugly etc.....then they we find companionship , a girl , a friend and escort ... sometimes just for and hour .. one fucking hour of time with a woman to kiss us ,hold us , love us ..or to live out a fantasy denied to us by those whom we thought would do everything for us ...
know my question , these women are VICTIMS , cheating men , dogs , scum, liars , etc... makes no fucking sense to me whatsoever .. I understand there is no one size fits all in this scenario however when I see so many men talk about their personal lives as ive seen here over the years and how that one hour has helped them deal with the loneliness of and in their lives are they , these men really so bad .. or are they just looking for love in the wrong place because the woman in the right place isn't giving it ...
thank you all for indulging me today ... and feel free to respond with your opinions if you so wish .. for I wish that in my life I find the one woman who truly satisfies and fulfills me for and as the man that I am .........thank you BIB ......
Hope springs eternal.
id rather enjoy hemingway by the fire sipping some cognac or wilde by the shore as the waves break . but yes his lowercase is somewhat unique ..have a nice day big guy , enjoy .
lol...........is your heart really that cold , I think not, big X and O for you .
From my previous threads you know I share your pain but even from my past experiences I do not put all the onus on the women that have took advantage of me and deserted me at my most vulnerable time in my life. Except for those few skanks of course but that's a different story.
You know it does take 2 to tango and we as men have to take some responsibility for what happens in our relationships. I look at women and relationships as a garden and if you want the garden to be beautiful you need to tend to the garden. Yes it takes a lot of work and tender care to keep the garden going but if you give it the love and nurturing it needs you will generally be rewarded with the most beautiful garden in the world. If of course you do not spend time in the garden it will eventually wither and die and you will be left with nothing but a wilted flower.
On the other hand no matter how much time or care you give to your garden the fact is that weeds and parasites can infect your garden and no matter how hard you try to keep it going it maybe best to just let the garden go and start a new one.
Hope this helps my brother!
ahhhhh , gardens , women , life , death ..isn't it just an e ticket ride on our journey through life .. and as to whether or not I got as you put it dumped . no , no I didn't I told her to leave ..and yes the weeds do sometimes get to big .
BUT ?
You know it does take 2 to tango and we as men have to take some responsibility for what happens in our relationships. I look at women and relationships as a garden and if you want the garden to be beautiful you need to tend to the garden. Yes it takes a lot of work and tender care to keep the garden going but if you give it the love and nurturing it needs you will generally be rewarded with the most beautiful garden in the world. If of course you do not spend time in the garden it will eventually wither and die and you will be left with nothing but a wilted flower.
On the other hand no matter how much time or care you give to your garden the fact is that weeds and parasites can infect your garden and no matter how hard you try to keep it going it maybe best to just let the garden go and start a new one.
Hope this helps my brother!
EOM
Then what I am gathering by your own words is that you may actually be lets say over fertilizing your garden so to speak which can cause it to be smothered. Also the garden can get addicted to over fertilization and when you hold back what you now have taught it to crave the garden then looks elsewhere for nourishment.
It is a very hard balance of this and that to maintain a healthy garden and if the garden demands more than what we are able to give to it then it is only natural that we may drift over to another garden for a short time which requires a lot less maintenance from us.
President "Bobby": Mr. Gardner, do you agree with Ben, or do you think that we can stimulate growth through temporary incentives?
Chance: As long as the roots are not severed, all is well. And all will be well in the garden.
President "Bobby": In the garden.
Chance: Yes. In the garden, growth has it seasons. First comes spring and summer, but then we have fall and winter. And then we get spring and summer again.
President "Bobby": Spring and summer.
Chance: Yes.
President "Bobby": Then fall and winter.
Chance: Yes.
Benjamin Rand: I think what our insightful young friend is saying is that we welcome the inevitable seasons of nature, but we're upset by the seasons of our economy.
Chance: Yes! There will be growth in the spring!
Benjamin Rand: Hmm!
Chance: Hmm!
President "Bobby": Hm. Well, Mr. Gardner, I must admit that is one of the most refreshing and optimistic statements I've heard in a very, very long time. … I admire your good, solid sense. That's precisely what we lack on Capitol Hill.
Chance: As long as the roots are not severed, all is well. And all will be well in the garden.
President "Bobby": In the garden.
Chance: Yes. In the garden, growth has it seasons. First comes spring and summer, but then we have fall and winter. And then we get spring and summer again.
President "Bobby": Spring and summer.
Chance: Yes.
President "Bobby": Then fall and winter.
Chance: Yes.
Benjamin Rand: I think what our insightful young friend is saying is that we welcome the inevitable seasons of nature, but we're upset by the seasons of our economy.
Chance: Yes! There will be growth in the spring!
Benjamin Rand: Hmm!
Chance: Hmm!
President "Bobby": Hm. Well, Mr. Gardner, I must admit that is one of the most refreshing and optimistic statements I've heard in a very, very long time. … I admire your good, solid sense. That's precisely what we lack on Capitol Hill.
half my age theyre in school .. okay slow down and reread and get the hell out of your garden the fertilizer you use is getting to you.
It is a very hard balance of this and that to maintain a healthy garden and if the garden demands more than what we are able to give to it then it is only natural that we may drift over to another garden for a short time which requires a lot less maintenance from us.
Stop dating skanks who just want you for your bank! Now go out there and find yourself a good slut which is what you really want and who will luv and cherish you for the perv you really are and will be a lot less work. Until you find one keep on banging hookers and who gives a shit what anyone else thinks about it and a good slut sure as hell will not care lol.
confusing SOs and hookers. You have them for different reasons. Expecting an escort "to kiss us, hold us, love us...or to live out a fantasy denied to us by those whom we thought would do everything for us," is dangerous as hell. It borders on the old line: "I've fallen for a provider and I can't get up."
Of course, it doesn't make you a bad person.
The behavior of some women, as you describe it is, indeed, bad. I'm lucky I haven't fallen victim to it because not all women are that way. In fact, I've got two ex wives with whom I'm quite friendly. But the fact that marriages become sexless (for many reasons, not all the SO's fault) are one good reason to avail yourself of our little world.
But if you (not you personally, BIB) enter this world and confuse and hour or two of sex with a relationship, you have only yourself to blame.
oh nick ,
not confusing it at all . what I will say is for me personally that if I choose women here wisely and somewhat get to know them the time spent is very enjoyable . would I compare it to a relationship, no . also what I am saying is that its an escape , a release of ? hmm energy a quick fix for those times that perhaps I want more than im getting in a relationship or to fill a void if im not .. most often when in a relationship I will skip this altogether to focus on the relationship so honestly ive never cheated . my initial op was how men are stereotyped by their actions , please refer to below thread by the guy who has fallen and should get run over by a truck. also the many guys who love their so and or wives and have stated that there is no sex whatsoever .
thanks for looking out for me nick ... your a okay in my book bro ..
Of course, it doesn't make you a bad person.
The behavior of some women, as you describe it is, indeed, bad. I'm lucky I haven't fallen victim to it because not all women are that way. In fact, I've got two ex wives with whom I'm quite friendly. But the fact that marriages become sexless (for many reasons, not all the SO's fault) are one good reason to avail yourself of our little world.
But if you (not you personally, BIB) enter this world and confuse and hour or two of sex with a relationship, you have only yourself to blame.
but at mongers in general. The difference between us is you're still seeking an SO relationship and I'm not. My friendships with women are either platonic ones with civvies, or OTC ones with providers I like and who like me.
Believe it or not, despite the deluded rantings of a particular member here, I'm rather a nice guy who treats the women I know extremely well.
I know pal , and yes you've got to know we pretty well. I wont lie I am a romantic at heart and yes I do believe in love .. whether or not it exists is for time to tell me or anyone who is searching for it . perhaps it the most elusive form or erotica known to man ...... whod a thought one man one woman forever and happy ? food for thought pal .
Believe it or not, despite the deluded rantings of a particular member here, I'm rather a nice guy who treats the women I know extremely well.
I have no doubt you are a 'nice' guy in your 'real' life, but according to your posts on here directed to me, I wouldn't know any different.
I really could care less how I'm labeled on a fuck board. But also don't forget that, while you may have negative feelings about me because of my posts, most women here do not.
In fact, if you try to find a post in which I'm rude to a provider here, or catch any flak from one (except you), well, you won't find one. That should tell you something.
if it didn't bother you in some way. Unless of course, fuck board or not, you are not human and have zero emotion inside of you. Which I highly doubt for anyone here underneath it all. Although, nothing would surprise me with some on here now that I think about it, perhaps I should retract that statement lol. But I hold zero negative feelings towards anyone, even you, my arch nemesis lol. I've said it before, there's enough hate in the world, I'm the last person, no matter what is said or done who will ever hate another individual on the planet.
With that being said, if you wouldn't incessantly post something negative under me (yes only me), perhaps I wouldn't reply negative. It's a thought. It's very rare you have something nice to say or even play nice when I'm minding my own business...you have to admit you're there like a humpin' dog going at it like crazy lol. I have stopped trying to figure out why that is quite honestly as it is what it is. But yes, if you look as well, I'm quite pleasant with many others on here who know how to post as a positive individual, not negative.
We all have feelings and they get hurt, yes, even on a fuck board. I'm 'WO'man enough to admit it for all the flack I get, it's too bad you're not 'man' enough to on your side. I'd actually have a different tone towards a man of your umm, disposition if you could for a brief moment in time. However, I sense that would take a whole lotta swallowing of pride and putting that ego on the backburner for that to happen. So I guess I won't expect that to happen anytime soon.
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you win the long form contest.
My short form entry is as follows:
Ode from a cat -
Roses. Must eat kibbles and bits. MUST have
My short form entry is as follows:
Ode from a cat -
Roses. Must eat kibbles and bits. MUST have.
That spelling and punctuation and grammar and common sense are all optional as it makes responding to you so much more easier so what u hav to due is find a girl who wants to marry as a virgin so she won't out out for you and start dating her and getting lone from her but keep fucking the hookers so you get plenty of sex abs don't have to touch the nice bitch until she says ok and you won't even care cuz you get all yer sexy with Thebes hookers and shell think you r a prissy gentleman and and akk.
was that hard , I say no
always will ...big kiss
I don't have to be LR to entertain my friends.
You will have to email Taylor for my info though ha ha.
hey , dinner and drinks . nice conversation with you , anytime sweetheart and the same goes for you .. im only a call away.. xoxo
"He's' like the Wind"
You change your mind more than I can count LOL. I can feel your pain BIB LOL. Go for it babe.
LMAO
patience. The Law of Attraction works in mysterious ways.
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