Ladies,
what is it that makes a gentleman "special" to you?

What I mean is, I have been told by several of my lady friends that I am "someone very special".

What does it take for that?
A lot of money?
Hung like a horse?
A great lover?
The body of an athelete?
The looks of Brad Pitt?

Well, I'm none of those and yet some people still think I'm special.
I have never thought of myself as anything special, hell, I'm a 56 year old grandfather, for Christ's sake. But I am just curious as to what makes someone special, someone you look forward to seeing over and over, in your eyes.

This isn't an ego trip, I was just driving in the car for a long road trip today and the mind started wondering.
Sometimes I just can't control where it goes...LOL


Just my opinion...
B

Don't let it go to your head (big or small).

You have to decide for yourself what you think of yourself.  Whatever that is, that's what matters.

Ask yourself this:

If you had to put up with yourself all the time, whether as a client, employee, housemate, whatever; would you be happy with yourself?

If you can honestly answer yes, then you are special.  If you can honestly say no, then you are also special, as you are being honest with yourself, at least.

"This above all else, to thine own self be true."

(Hamlet)

I have been having very naughty and improper thoughts about you lately.

Just my opinion...
B

I asked a provider one time why she always told me I was someone special .. She said I was Special because I bathed and brushed my teeth before I met her and I have a Small Short Dick that never hurt her , I come quick,and it is very easy to  DT me..

You are special because you don't think you are special.  Humility is such a rare trait these day.  Unfortunately our society seems to reward those who are arrogant and self absorbed.  
Sounds like you found someone out there that can see through all the fluff and can appreciate something "special".

-- Modified on 9/6/2007 9:13:52 PM

Anybody wanna play!

PS - Hi Ciara  

Giggle,
TS Jamie  

-- Modified on 9/7/2007 12:54:37 AM

Hey, girlfriend!

Do you have shoes in every color? Just curious. I have so many shoes and I don't wear half of them. I can just imagine you sharing makeup tips with me. You know, I also used to do makeup for theatre -- not like you'd want that crap on your face.  We have to meet some day.

Hugs,
Ciara

Its none of your criteria. Its something I can't really define - but I know it when I see it. Its the quality of human being that you are, the intelligence, wit, charm etc that you possess, something in the way you carry yourself, touch me, treat me - that is what makes you special.

To illustrate, a little more than a year ago I went to a gentleman's hotel room for a 2 hour appointment. I left the next morning in sort of a daze. Although we rarely get to see one another, I still see him whenver we have the chance. I once tried to tell him what it was that I admired about him so much. The best I could do was to say that when new mothers look at their newborn sons, they dream about the sort of man they hope he will one day be. He IS that man that mothers hope for in their newborn son.

And PS, if you were wondering, we have never traded an envelope since the first time I met him.


PPS. Being a great lover though, definitely DOES help. Being a considerate lover, is really what matters most though.

You see, I remember each and every lady I have seen like I just walked out the door.

When I ask to meet a lady, it's because I sense something special about her.

Everyone here is different and has a different outlook.

Just my opinion...
B

If I could "fuck 1000 women in a year", I'd KNOW I was special.  I would most likely also be a major asshole before the end of summer.  But who'd care, I'd be getting laid!!

The person comes from their 'true' self in how they live life and it comes from the heart. Being true to oneself is the only way to live, IMO.
I don't know you but, perhaps, this is how you are and others see it.

i know what you might do thats special.
nothing

you dont make a woman achieve climax.
you let her.

i love guys like you and im so grateful that you exist. bless you.

Brad Pitt is your standard bearer for looks, then I hate to see what you find sexy in women. First and foremost, money trumps looks... just look at pro sports... as for being hung, I am more than average and can sling it too, but I still work everyday.