Ladies, could you please settle an argument I'm having with a friend?  She claims that most women dislike the cowgirl position, and only do it to please the man so he can lie back not have to exert himself too much. I maintain that many women like it because they can control the action and grind away until they have their orgasm.

..for the reasons you stated--which also kinda makes it my favorite, since it seems to be the position which makes my partner get there most easily.

When it comes to providers?  Who the hell knows?  How can any of us be sure they ever cum at all?  Although one of my favorites seems to have a real hankering for doggie and stand-up doggie, so go figure..

Going slow and grinding is going to get me off BUT most guys don't want that. They want you to bounce up and down which is a much more difficult motion to sustain than thrusting. ( I know because I've used a strap-on.) In addition, full on bouncing up and down doesn't even feel that good to me.

feels so good, and I love the feel of her body weight on me too while she is doing this.

that providers or "civvies" have enjoyed while we were fucking happened in cowgirl -
but not the athletic pounding upright version, usually with them laying right down on top of me, me holding them tight...  it does give a lady who likes it a bit more control of the angle and rhythm....

Personally, I don't like it. The angle hits me weird and can actually be painful (and not in a good way). My favorite is doggie by far. Both parties can move without throwing off the other's groove and it allows for better G-spot stimulation. Granted, that may just be a result of the way I'm built, but I don't think I've ever heard a lady say that CG is her favorite.  

Oh, Rod, you are a gem!  Do you really think that's the only way you're clueless?  
And, yes, CPA, I do recall Rod's statement that he was too shy to ask for CG.  Sounds like that's still the case.
Rod, don't ever leave this board.  You are a wellspring of mirth. ROFLMAO!

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You really know how to deliver a "straight line" don't you? lmao I know the other RT is thinking about changing his handle to Clubber Lang, which would be CL for short, you too could be a CL, but it your case it would stand for something else completely. lol

As for CG versus other positions, it's been my experience that some women are built where entry from the rear is more comfortable and some are built where they prefer entry from the front. Which translates into preferring either mish/CG etc or preferring doggie or RCG. As with most things where it comes to sex, there is no "one size fits all"

FWIW I do like Cow Girl, but unlike the guys that sexyspectacles has encountered, I actually prefer the slow grind, I don't need all that bouncing up and down personally and if the woman prefers that slow grind that makes it all the better to me. Sex is a hell of a lot better if both parties are enjoying themselves.

Tobi, remind me never to fuck you.

I love to be on top and do a slow grind with my African ass, making your cock massage my G-Spot and rubbing my clit on the base of your shaft.  When I come this way, I erupt with a gush (teehee!) I just love being a naughty girl.
A nice guy like you could even get away with slapping my brown ass and calling me a slut! LOL!

Then doggy. Then again, what don't I like?  

He actually does the CG but needs to ask first...followed by slapping your ass.  Dear God, RodT would never ever slap a woman  LOL

I'm staying anonymous here, with no connection between my handle and my stage name.  So no way for the poor lad to find me, unless it just happens through the ads I run.  If he's telling the truth about his location, we both operate in the same area.  So ya never know!
I love to get ahold of these young, clueless guys and open new worlds to them.  In this case, I fear the lad would never be able to uncurl his toes.  Or his tongue, *teehee*

I somehow doubt that all of the factors previously described would happen.  

First of all, because I doubt he could pass screening.  But if it ever does, I'll write a review, LOL.  The Juicy Details will include how tongues and toes got curled.
*TeeHee*

That gets me rock hard.  Then go with doggie, with long and slow balls-deep thrusts.  Works for me.

I would say cg is in my top two positions. So many benefits, for me anyways. I get to explore with my hands and touch the person I with more. I get to see more. The kissing always seems better. I love the slow grind. Sometime there are problem with not matching or being completely out of sync with the person your with, but that's going to happen in every position.  I know some women get self conscious about being stared at for that long, but I wouldn't be with them if I didn't think they were beautiful to begin with. So throw on the Stetson and lets ride.

If I want control, I ride. If I feel like being dominated, he rides me.

badass chick persona you have...and all the PC bullshit you spout on a weekly basis and etc etc etc  

You just gave away one of your secrets. Now every guy you meet, you're going to have to ask him to ride you....otherwise, you're calling him average or below. lol When I see you, assume the position.....on the bottom, baby!

You can ask the lady while you are on the bottom what you can do to make it fucking fantastic for both of you!

Steph xoxo

Did you forget the OP Rod started a while back discussing his insecurity about asking for CG?

Well, actually, I can ask everyone to jump on first. Then I'll get rocket high scores lol

I have control of rhythm and depth with the added pleasure of having my boobs played with, sucked and licked!   That's why I cry YEEEE HAW!

You slide up and down the shaft during the course of the slow grind.  In, grind pubis to pubis then slide back and slowly sink back on leaning in and grinding clit against the base of my cock as you slide. A slow steady grind beats bouncing any day!

Some will remember you saying "Hey Big Boy", as you climb on top! LMFAO

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Yes, I'll have one of each please!  

Lolol

I don't take ass slammings, sir.  

definitely be missionary, followed by doggie, then rcg, then CG. I'm very small inside, so when I'm on top I can't have as much fun as when someone's taking me from behind. During intercourse, I like a little slamming, and that doesn't happen too well with me on top. I do love being on top for the kissing and breast play (and if he's not too big, grinding) but for a good, rockin' f*k, it's definitely doggy or mish. Spooning's fun, and sometimes scissors is just what I need- I love to grab legs and thrust. RCG gives me access to his testacles, which can be all kinds of fun!

I was gonna add "Forrest, life is like a box of chocolates".

No need. You remind me on the reg.  

have we fucked?

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Matter of preference; one of those things though.  I don't mind spending a few minutes before session to clear up everything on who likes what how, and what is and isn't off limits.  Kind of spoils the spontinaity, though, if things get too staged.  Not so much into cowgirl, but I'm enough of a pleaser that if she gets her best climax that way, I'm happy to see her happy. Only exception is CG with someone on the heavy side.  Done this personally, but not with a provider, and it can be downright uncomfortable, sorry BBWs, I love you too. Likewise, I can see that if a girl is with a big guy, especially if she is small, CG may be preferred for that reason. I like mish the best in a GFE, when I can deep kiss her and lick her in various places and play with her tits and clasp her hands and pin her down while I'm giving it deep. As a tall guy, I also like to rest my chin on top of her head and grasp her firmly behind the shoulders during O.  I guess mish is best for many because it's a natural man in control thing, and all the erogenous zones are there for easy manipulation.  If she isn't much into anything but letting me ride her, a combo of mish and doggie is good.  Love doggie, and it's variations, especially if the girl has a smoking ass and is willing to let me play with it.  But I wouldn't start there, unless she comes on eagerly, "FUCK ME FUCK ME FROM BEHIND!  YOU CAN HAVE MY ASS TOO!"  Has never happened, but I hope it will!