To all my fellow hobbyists out there maybe you can help me. When a hobbyist has to cancel at the last minute more often then not he has to pay a cancelation fee or gets blacklisted. But what happens when you schedule with an escort and she. Cancels with you at the last minute. Not once but twice in a row. Should the escort offer to give you a discount to try to book with her again. Or even a free session.

on whether or not she really wants to see you.  Seems to me, two last minute cancels in a row means she isn't particularly interested.  Time to move on.  The ball is in her court as to whether or not she wants to offer you a discount on attempt number three.  I can pretty much guarantee you that if you ask her for a discount in this situation, you will never see her.  But then again, nothing ventured, nothing gained.  Step lightly.  Good Luck!

In my experience girls who cancel offer $100 off the next time you book with her. On the rare occasion when I've had to cancel the same day due to unforeseen circumstances (I got the flu and had a high fever), I used the same concept the other way round -- I offered $100 extra the next time I saw her.

I've found that getting cancelled on or delayed is simply part of the game.  Most reputable providers won't do it, or at least not too often, but there are quite a few disreputable ones.  I would do my homework and ensure that I was contacting a provider that wasn't known for such shenanigans, but then again, it happens sometimes.  Caveat emptor my friend.

I mean, once, I can see that, shit happens, but if she's cancelled last minute on me twice well there's a saying that applies "fuck me over once shame on you, fuck me over twice shame on me".  

...cancellation I would say if I were given a reasonable explanation for the second one I might try again and yes I would definitely expect some sort of compensation for the last minute cancellations.  

that is not always the case. Though we should all try to honor our commitments some out there do understand that shit happens and what most all of us hate the most is a no show without any communication what so ever. As most girls will say and I believe it to be true is that guys no show way more than the girls do but if you show them some respect and at least let them know what is going on you may find some understanding about it. It does of course make a big difference if a girl paid for a incall just for you or traveled a long ways at cost to meet you so we should understand that we should make up for that if it is the case.

It is one of those life’s complex things. Many unforeseen things happen and it is very difficult to objectively comment based on one mans view.

wait 3 days and post on regional board IF you havent heard from her.

You can name her if you like...and be prepared for her WK contingent to bash you.  Bad behavior is unfortunately here on both sides.  

Mr. Fisher : your honor, I'm still not a lawyer,  but this escort canceled on my client the last minute and he's seeking damages.  

Fool me once ... shame on you.
Fool me twice ... shame on me.
Fool me thrice ... I'm fuckin stupid.

I had the same thing happen to me. Provider is well-reviewed on TER and has all recent reviews. I am little confused as well. I know stuff happens, but I have never had a well-reviewed provider cancel.

why did you even attempt to see her again?  Had you seen her previously and thoroughly enjoyed the encounter?  Is she that hot?  

Since I said nothing about cancellation fees or blacklists I'm guessing the later.

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Not counting canceling due to disrespect or misunderstandings. Just those last minute deals.

How much of a discount for NCNS?

I'm sure you don't do that, but I had one last week. It was mentioned in another thread. We were set for Saturday, I emailed on Tuesday to confirm, didn't get a reply, emailed again on Friday and again no reply.

EOM

You see, I've done Judge Judy.

Oh, the things I must do to get by in life.

Re: How much of a discount for NCNS?

lol

I had a provider contact me to make plans a while back and then cancel the day of and tell me not to hate her. Another week goes by same call and then she cancels again. She then contacts me again promises me she is coming, I fiqure let me try once more, yup I am a dope !!!  but this time it was probably 30min to a hour before I was to meet her, the reason ?   To long of a trip to just come see me !!!!   Now remember I did not contact her to meet at this point she is asking me if I am available and want to see her.  There has always been issues with her being late but I can live with that.  When u contact me to meet and then give me a reason like that for canceling, I am done !   I like her but I hate being a fool more , done done done.