TER General Board
"Little head vs big head" issues are more about impulse control than libido.
When I am told by people that their "strong libido" has led them to take actions they later regret, it is usually (but not always) best seen as a problem with impulse control.
The good news is that impulse control can be learned, and we see growing scientific evidence that the changes in neural "wiring" needed to increase synaptic connections to the brain's frontal cortex can indeed happen. The Long Term Potentiation (LPT) of the relevant neural pathways is a process which can be made more efficient, as successful experiences with impulse control can lead to more successes.
The rest of the article is on Salon, but here is one paragraph we on this board can relate to, i.e. "thinking with the little head"
"Anyone in possession of a libido probably has some experience of the deep fissures between brain and groin, and how carefully these must be monitored to avoid personal catastrophe. Still, the general view is that when the brain suspends operations, it's in the pursuit of pleasure. "I just wasn't thinking" is the customary code for "I decided to stop thinking in order to have some fun." So what are we to make of those who use sex in ways that are guaranteed to produce unpleasure—national humiliation and possible job loss? When we look at the snapshots Anthony Weiner sent his online pals and, indirectly, the rest of us—what are we looking at?"
Anybody on this board that is critical of Rep. Wiener's actions should examine his own actions first.
Infidelity is at the heart of the hobby. He was only after the same thing every swinging dick on this board wants!
It is a total like of discretion coupled with a attitude problem and lack of credibilty.
TER members who act like that are not the kinds of role models we need here.
I hesitated to respond because given Wiener's role as a congressman, this comes close to P&R Board fare.
You've got it wrong. It's not about sending sex pix on the Internet. It's about lying. Well, that's what the Republicans said about Clinton, anyway. Oops! Send it to the P&R board. Then again, this is already all over the P&R board.
maybe next time he will tweet some pics to me lol
But those pregnancy hormones might get the best of her yet,lol!
xoxo,
Steph
i'll never understand why women can't see the obvious creep factor on first glance of a guy like that. id wipe my shoes on him and you think he's hot...
.....is how quickly and final a small heterosexual indiscretion can topple a political candidate or office but catch a well known Congressman bending a male page over in his office and nobody seems to care.
WTF !
Former Rep. Foley might beg to differ.
He still sounds like a putz that should be behind bars.
I would like to thank everyone for keeping this thread just on this side of being moved to the P&R board.
When I am told by people that their "strong libido" has led them to take actions they later regret, it is usually (but not always) best seen as a problem with impulse control.
The good news is that impulse control can be learned, and we see growing scientific evidence that the changes in neural "wiring" needed to increase synaptic connections to the brain's frontal cortex can indeed happen. The Long Term Potentiation (LPT) of the relevant neural pathways is a process which can be made more efficient, as successful experiences with impulse control can lead to more successes.
Hell Yeah I slept with her!
And she was sooooo fine.
I mean seriously folks I became a politician not to serve my constituents, but to get as much tail as I can.
I mean what politician isn't getting his dick wet.
He'd get my vote!
Wiener is a man and men like to play.
Has anyone heard of avatar sex? This seems to be what we are looking forward to.
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