what does a client have to do to make your "favorites" list?  is their one special thing that works above all others ?

You move up the list.

simple answer..just treat her like a lady..

Many of my faves are not the richest guys I know, but they are the ones I get along with best.  I would say my three faves are all smart, funny and nice, and they are people who I have no problem talking with for hours, whether they're on the clock, or not.

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........ the answer is similar for our favorite ladies and why for SOME of us this is not simply a transaction, but a great emotional as well as physical experience.

Be clean
Be on time
Read their website / know whats offered
Dont haggle over the fee

Amen

I couldn't agree more.    - eom -

Even after a provider has said you are one of her ATF's,  and see what happens.

My ATFs pay, but they pay less for more time (eom)

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True, but you knew that going in that hookers are PAID to service you. I agree with Natasha..guys I actually see again, never pay my premium rate. That is what I charge the first time or for guys I might only see once a year. My regulars generally get a 4 hour dinner date for the 2 hour rate, and I've never denied that. THEY have earned the right to a discount for continued patronage.

"Connection."  As you said, a "favorite" client earns his way by booking early and often.

Rather pay more to spend the time doing better things.

"And they are people who I have no problem talking with for hours, whether they're on the clock, or not."

.......I don't understand your need to harp on your point.  We get it, some of us don't agree.   As I have shared on this board many times before I have been around the "hobby" since before it was called the hobby..LOL, yeah I'm an old guy.  I have seen hundreds of women over 30+ years and have had amazing connections with some to the point that 25 years ago I married a gal I was seeing and we were together for 13 years.  Would I recommend this for everybody?  No!  If you have an SO then just sex is probably all you seek.  When one gets older, this emotional "connection" is even more important.  Here is an example;  A few years ago I had a medical condition that was serious and I could not have sex.  I was seeing a couple of gals at the time and one of them told me I should continue to see her because she cared about my recovery.  We had several sessions where we just spent time at her incall or had dinner and just cuddled and enjoyed the touch of each other...NO SEX.  I paid her for some sessions, not for others, but I always offered and it was her choice to go OTC.  I am seeing a young woman regularly now and we share an extraordinary chemistry and have had several OTC "dates” of dinner and cocktails, that at times do not end up BCD.  Do I feel like “the man”, squiring a hot woman 30 years younger out on the town, oh hell yes!  These things happen.  To everybody?  No!  Does every guy want this? No!  Does every gal?  Again no, but it does happen this is human behavior, it does not go by anybody's “rules”.

Again, if it is just sex, hey that is a good thing and more power to ya, but don't try and tell the rest of us  that we have to deny our experiences because yours are different.

Yes - I said that, and it is true.

My ATFs receive more time for less money.  Also true.

Nowhere did I say that the extra time was spent talking.  That is not true.  It was an incorrect inference on your part.  

My ATFs are also the only clients that I will send 'chatty' emails with between appointments.  It doesn't mean that we spend our appointment times sending emails.  See how that works?

like real lovers, but we understand the boundaries.
I have a couple of ATFs.
& after yrs, the fun laughter sex, everything only gets better w/ them.
there's no way to make this happen, it just does w/ the right people.
always a good time!

We provide service in exchange for financial consideration.  SOME of our clients we actually LIKE as people.  SOME of them earn the extras we offer.  But in the end of the day it is still financial transaction.

I have several ATFs.  Does it mean that i will see them for free? NO.  It meams that for those guys i will make special accomodations.

Lina

If you are offering 4 hours at 2 hr rate for your time then it would be nice for the gentleman to bring something, not a monetary tip but something from the wishlist on the lady's website to show his appreciation for her on his behalf.

Arlines offer frequent flyer miles and stores offer "customer loyalty cards" so maybe this industry isn't any different?

your last statement hit the nail on the head.

Generally there is no reason to try to convince someone to a particular belief. experience does that.

a frequent hobbyist card. You pay for 10 appointments in a year and get you card stamped each time, then you get the next cum for free. Just do what the ladies said before and if you and your provider get along then you can be one of her many favorites. I really would not worry about it and just have fun.