Since we have been having an "anal" discussion, I thought I would jump into a somewhat similar discussion.
I have been curious about doing a little light bondage action so I went to a provider I know (and trust) that does some bondage and domination.
I arrived and told her she was incharge and to, "Do Me"!
It was interesting. She tied me to her massage table with arm straps so, I wasn't going anywhere. She then began to oil up my nether area. She did a variety of things to initially loosen up the abyss hole and before long she began to spank my ass and to insert a beaded butt plug. It was at least seven inches long and slowly up the butt it went. Ouch!
With butt plug in place and vibrator in hand, she then reached in from the back and to give other areas attention. She kept the vibrator going while slowly pounding my ass with the plug and then stroking my manhood.
It was interesting in a different way and I somewhat enjoyed being taken advantage of but in this case ... my butt still hurts just thinking about it.
While I'm not adverse to some anal play, there is NO chance that anyone is going to tie me up. It's great if you enjoyed it, but way outside of my comfort zone.
I have seen the provider a numerous times so there is a very high comfort level.
She also enjoys a little light bondage and spanking consequently she has put her trust in me on several occasions as well. The agreement is no lasting marks on the skin and if you say stop ... that's it. To be honest, I think she has a higher "suspense tolerance" level than I in the sense of being able to handle a fear of not knowing what someone might do to you.
I laugh when I think of this because I play active sports and have been hit by line drives in softballs or run into and knocked off my feet on the football field all of which hurt a hell of lot more than anything she would inflict but the fear of the unknown makes you really have to think about it before you commit.
Post-colonoscopy is an excellent time for anal play with a provider. Schedule an appointment with Mrs. Right right after the procedure. While you are flushed clean and on pain killers, the lady of your choice can get her whole fist up there. Its a window of opportunity you shouldn't squander away. Don't forget to take pictures.
In fact....(please excuse my language use) have you ever had to take one HELL of a healthy crap? ~blush~ Some of those can be alot bigger than a 7" butt plug. LOL and with previous anal posts, when you DO...it feels SOOOOO much better comin out...right? Not that I have ever experienced something that um...big before...um...and don't toilet watch too often either. But have seen some WHOPPERS in my time. (not mine!) hehehe
I've never had anything up my ass that I can remember, but I have had sessions with a couple of dominatrices, and I'm always disappointed. First off, 99% of professional dommes will not allow sexual contact. Secondly, those few providers who offer both S/m and a full GFE-menu usually aren't competent in this field; they haven't been trained in the "art" of S/m, and they can accidentally injure you. Besides, it's not as much fun as you'd think. I stay away from S/m stuff now, but I still occasionally enjoy a good fetish-porno.
All I see is a mediocre account that focuses on anal play you didn't seem to enjoy...
Lite bondage can be very erotic...but I tend to prefer tease and denial to be the other main contributing factor. Sometimes that includes anal play, but sometimes not.
Sounds like your ass is new to being played with, and perhaps was more of a distraction to what could have been a really hot scene had the anal play been taken down a notch. Even if she took time to do a warm up on your ass before using a toy (sounds like she did...), some people still can only handle so much stimulation on the first few attempts... When you are in bondage, even lite bondage, you tend to be more aware of things that you wouldn't be if you weren't tied up.
And yes, I'm into it...as a top or a bottom, but I only bottom with people that I not only trust, but also that I know are aware of proper topping skills, like checking in and assessing if I'm ok...otherwise I can't get in to being the bottom really.
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