Also recommend that she uses a different cell phone when checking into hotels.

She will be back as a provider. Many can never make the money they made as a provider. Some attractive ones have confided in me that they have trouble dating decent non hobbyist men. Funny that a john would treat them better than the average joe.

A few have told me that they consider the hobby as real dating. That is why they do GFE and get emotionally involved with the guys. Have a fit when they find out you are seeing other ladies.

I know a few who can never find decent jobs. Every time they apply for a job a back ground check is done and up comes there records resulting in not getting employed.

Depending on the field of employment one is looking for, you should get rid of all your social networking memberships, atleast suspend them for the duration. In certain field, your ability to keep your mouth shut is extremely important.

Be aware of the fact that professional organizations are checking your references and background, not the HR or the hiring manager like the old days.

Hi All-
What an interesting topic. As a provider who has been in the industry for a few years, I am very fortunate that I was guided along in this field by a wonderful mentor. Just as a woman might guide a younger women in the corporate world, I was mentored in every aspect of my business model by a mentor. This really helped expedite the learning curve for me and has helped me avoid many situations that may not have been beneficial to my well being.
I hope that each lady out there finds a jewel of a mentor to help her or has clients who care for them so that they do not fall into any harmful situations.
xxoxo
Sitara Devi

once I noticed an ad for a lady I had seen once...  she gave a highway exit that abbutted a single small hotel.  I emailed that this was not discreet & the ad was changed within the hour.   I hear you on the phone and also emails...   separate lives!!

I am confused as to why she was using her personal phone number for her clients anyway. Always have a no contract, pay as you go, business phone for clients and a regular phone for personal use. This should have been the number that she should have been giving to potential employers. Also make sure that if you do have a website and own a domain name that when you google the site that your real name that you listed your domain with DOES NOT pop up. I have seen this so many times. Cover blown!

I know most clients have an untraceable throwaway phone just for hobbying and completely separate from their "real" life.  I just always assumed providers had the same.