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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 738 reads
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Probably most MEN just taper off. I suspect most are not all that different than myself. When there is an all engulfing project, the focus shifts and hobbling just looses its fascination. At least for awhile, the duration of the project. It's like being under stress. When you involve yourself in something that requires total mental and emotional commitment, sex, food, sleep, whatever is of very little importance on a moment to moment basis.

Imagine your new car being swept down the street in a flash flood. You deal with that. Totally. You simply stop thinking about who it might be nice to fuck this evening or what kind of cuisine you want to dine on. You just fix on what's happening right now.

I think events in life just become more frequent, and after awhile you find that each time you return, the bad side of town looses a bit more of its luster.

It's all part of the same thing. There's nothing to retire from. There are just conclusions to particular involvements or tasks. Until that happens, when you find yourself free of the mundane atrocities, you can just read, have a good meal, explore a new part of the world, enjoy a sexy woman, have a beer, and end your day with a good night's sleep. By the time that gets boring you can trust that you'll find another dragon that needs to be slain.

This concept that life is divided into sharply divided stages is just contrary to the day to day progression of things.

MSON1232298 reads

Where do all the providers and hobbyists go when they retire? What do they do for Sex? or to be loved?
Do they all meet in a secret place for once a month orgies? Or perhaps they open swing clubs.
Do they slip away into the darkness? Or do they announce the event? Why do they care if they are retiring are they expecting a party?

Inquiring minds what to kno

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HooktardGold769 reads

Why would you assume they need ANY of that? Providers fk for money 'for the most part' so I assume when they find a job with a salary that is substantial enough, there is no need to escort. Hobbyists? I would assume they have sex any way they can get it, or have realized there are more important things in life.  

For many people, the hobby was just a phase in their life, like any other phase. They grow tired of the bs and move on, or they realize how much money was spent on ass, and that they could have spent that money on things more worthwhile.  

I did not have some sex party when I retired... I just did. I found a job I truly love and focus on things that matter... like family and a career that will actually get me somewhere in life. I don't think it is such a monumental event when people stop playing in the hobby. It's just like any other hobby... golf, gambling, etc.

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GaGambler802 reads

You hang upside down in your closet like bats.

Come on we all know that hookers aren't like real people, they only exist for our sexual gratification and go into hibernation when not fucking

As for Johns, I know exactly what I will be doing when I "retire" from this, I will simply take a long dirt nap as most likely I will only retire from this when I am dead, or at least when my dick dies.

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AnotherDonJohn722 reads

We'll give you the stuff than Hefner gets.  

I will die too when I can't fuck. But I won't hold BSC orgy parties. I'm too concerned about fukking up my furniture. Lol.

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wonderboy69738 reads

Being a goofy fuck-up and sex addict, I have been trying to retire from this hobby myself.  Reading and posting on these boards certainly is a big No-No in regards to my addiction.  You are very straight forward with your comments, and I thank you for that.  Don't know if what you said will help me out in the long run, but I will think about my situation as a phase to grow out of.  Between spending a lot of money and being cancelled on last minute and lied to, I have to say it is more than enough reason for me to move on. Going to be hard to give up the sessions though, but I have gone a month now without falling off the wagon.  My last session I chose not to review, as a small test to let it go.

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sympathyforthedevil825 reads

I think the Rolling Stones have made a fortune off of "last chance to see them ever".

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Dr Who revived970 reads

Yep...they're twins and still do doubles.

As of yesterday they are still in the Top 100 of NYC and get over $ 1k/hour.  

Pretty sure that VidiViciVeni is seeing them today...and will review them with the obligatory 10/10.  As well _______________ gave up his personal and work info and is now afraid of the repercussions.  Yep...another 10/10 is forthcoming.

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AnotherDonJohn806 reads

Change their providing patterns, most moving toward extreme utr and sd-sb relationships.

I venture to say that HTG is an exception. Another recent one EC may be another. It takes a girl who has a long term plan long before she retires.

The what-do-they-do commentary is ludicrous. They do what do when they were seeing you- they just don't have to see our fat smelly asses anymore. Lol.

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Dr Who revived824 reads

Or "Do they have SO/BF/husband"

Many guys are really curious about a hookers personal life...and as you comment they just do what they do.  It's not a deep dark mystery, except for those who dwell on the stalking side.  They may just be that "client who expects too much".

There are quite a few gals who tend to just disappear without the fanfare of the "retirement tour".  When a gal does put that "retirement tour" up...well, seems they never go away  LOL    

Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
Change their providing patterns, most moving toward extreme utr and sd-sb relationships.  
   
 I venture to say that HTG is an exception. Another recent one EC may be another. It takes a girl who has a long term plan long before she retires.  
   
 The what-do-they-do commentary is ludicrous. They do what do when they were seeing you- they just don't have to see our fat smelly asses anymore. Lol.

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GaGambler783 reads

Where is your faith in humanity CPA?

but there is no better way to have a "return tour"  than to precede it with a "retirement tour" Of course no HONEST hooker would ever do that, would they?

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Dr Who revived781 reads

But they're easy enough to work around as well.  I've seen furniture stores running the GOB sales for several years now.  I guess with enough new customers they can stay in business.

Guess that's how the hookers get around that issue as well...run the GOB and the mangina crowd will throw bucks and tell her she is just soooooo damn good she'll eventually decide to stay.  That isn't just a marketing ploy...is it?

Posted By: GaGambler
Where is your faith in humanity CPA?  
   
 but there is no better way to have a "return tour"  than to precede it with a "retirement tour" Of course no HONEST hooker would ever do that, would they?

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AnotherDonJohn699 reads

Based on the providers and cycles we know of.  
It's possible there are many successes that are so quiet and we only notice the failures. But I really doubt that, based on hearing anecdotes from providers about their friends.  

And the magnitude of the cash you leave with is not an indicator. It's how they adjust to civvie living. Look at Jenna Jameson...

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Blowing Chunks682 reads

r win the lottery or get a sizable inheritance.  If the money part is taken care of, I don't see why anyone would wanna continue to work the same job, regardless of escorting or working in corporate world,  
unless it's truly a passion of theirs.  

I know I'd stop working and just trade stocks every now and then. :

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Blowing Chunks587 reads

very hungry for a snickers bar. Was just thinking of that.

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Dr Who revived762 reads

You're not going anywhere for a while  LOL

Posted By: Drunken Asian
very hungry for a snickers bar. Was just thinking of that.  

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RespectfullyYours765 reads

LMAO. Where do you come up with this?

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WickedBrut739 reads

Probably most MEN just taper off. I suspect most are not all that different than myself. When there is an all engulfing project, the focus shifts and hobbling just looses its fascination. At least for awhile, the duration of the project. It's like being under stress. When you involve yourself in something that requires total mental and emotional commitment, sex, food, sleep, whatever is of very little importance on a moment to moment basis.

Imagine your new car being swept down the street in a flash flood. You deal with that. Totally. You simply stop thinking about who it might be nice to fuck this evening or what kind of cuisine you want to dine on. You just fix on what's happening right now.

I think events in life just become more frequent, and after awhile you find that each time you return, the bad side of town looses a bit more of its luster.

It's all part of the same thing. There's nothing to retire from. There are just conclusions to particular involvements or tasks. Until that happens, when you find yourself free of the mundane atrocities, you can just read, have a good meal, explore a new part of the world, enjoy a sexy woman, have a beer, and end your day with a good night's sleep. By the time that gets boring you can trust that you'll find another dragon that needs to be slain.

This concept that life is divided into sharply divided stages is just contrary to the day to day progression of things.

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nahtynikkey686 reads

Very well stated:) While some providers announce their retirement and make a big deal of it, others just disappear overnight, while others just slowly pull away from providing, until they are retired. Different things begin to become more important, and eventually, you find yourself edging more-so those activities, instead of, for instance, providing. Some ladies have the finances to retire, but choose to keep providing part-time because they enjoy the company/conversation/experience that this "hobby" gives us....there are so many people that I never would have crossed paths with had I not started providing, and I consider quite a few of those people good friends.  

Everyone goes through "chapters" in their life...some chapters have sequels, and some just end.  

Posted By: WickedBrut
Probably most MEN just taper off. I suspect most are not all that different than myself. When there is an all engulfing project, the focus shifts and hobbling just looses its fascination. At least for awhile, the duration of the project. It's like being under stress. When you involve yourself in something that requires total mental and emotional commitment, sex, food, sleep, whatever is of very little importance on a moment to moment basis.  
   
 Imagine your new car being swept down the street in a flash flood. You deal with that. Totally. You simply stop thinking about who it might be nice to fuck this evening or what kind of cuisine you want to dine on. You just fix on what's happening right now.  
   
 I think events in life just become more frequent, and after awhile you find that each time you return, the bad side of town looses a bit more of its luster.  
   
 It's all part of the same thing. There's nothing to retire from. There are just conclusions to particular involvements or tasks. Until that happens, when you find yourself free of the mundane atrocities, you can just read, have a good meal, explore a new part of the world, enjoy a sexy woman, have a beer, and end your day with a good night's sleep. By the time that gets boring you can trust that you'll find another dragon that needs to be slain.  
   
 This concept that life is divided into sharply divided stages is just contrary to the day to day progression of things.

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sympathyforthedevil766 reads

Is that an Eagles song lyric?

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Jacque_Jenesais797 reads

And Kurt Cobain's suicide note, which was probably derived from that song... But the note made it infamous.  

Any Questions?

I disagree, however. If rather fade away. Much less mess. People don't notice, they just carry on with their business - while I carry on with mine.

-- Modified on 2/16/2014 3:49:58 PM

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USGrantlover800 reads

'My My, Hey Hey (Out of the Blue) off 1979's Rust Never Sleeps. Kick ass LP.  

Posted By: Courtney.ova
And Kurt Cobain's suicide note, which was probably derived from that song... But the note made it infamous.  
   
 Any Questions?  
   
 I disagree, however. If rather fade away. Much less mess. People don't notice, they just carry on with their business - while I carry on with mine.  

-- Modified on 2/16/2014 3:49:58 PM

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sympathyforthedevil729 reads

thank you.... I was wrong but I think I had the line right...

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sympathyforthedevil774 reads

I stand corrected.....

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MikeShanahan685 reads

You were on the right track LOL.  

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
I stand corrected.....

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Jacque_Jenesais808 reads

It's your fantasy lol.

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keystonekid745 reads

itch when I can.

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Senator.Blutarsky588 reads

Related Link: Where do all the Porn Stars go?

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